#if i dress masc im assumed to be a cishet man. if i dress fem im assumed to be a cis gay man. | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

moodr1ng · 1 year ago

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admitting to myself that i cannot live in a fulfilling way if i keep hoping to match the expectations and fit within the norms set by strangers and that includes that trying to be gender conforming or, as ive frankly been doing, being gender non-conforming in a way that wont bother the average person too much is never gonna work out for me lol

#97 #even when i wear dresses i always do it in the most inoffensive way and its bc im so fundamentally bothered by being judged #i hate that i have no control over the idea of me people create when i dont fit social norms!!#i dont like the assumptions made about me and i hate that i cant actually do anything about them!!!#like. it bothers me that no matter what if im perceived as gnc im perceived as a probably cis gay man.#i do not want to be assumed to be a cis gay man. but i will be nonetheless bc i cant control how strangers see me.#theres no amount of changing my behavior thatll make that not true..#it just. DOES matter to me that im bigender and bisexual.#if i dress masc im assumed to be a cishet man. if i dress fem im assumed to be a cis gay man.#in no situation can i be seen as bisexual and ofc NEVER am i perceived as a woman except incredibly accidentally.#and it annoys me! to be made smaller in peoples minds all the time. but theres nothing to be done about it by me.

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