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truecorvid · 13 hours ago

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my grandma is kind of an unpleasant woman and has become more unpleasant in her old age but i also think that all of her children are like. regularly a little mean to her and kind of hate her. which is also not fun.

#teeth.txt #i will not say that she's always fun to be around but i also think that having a little compassion and understanding that she is literally #in the early stages of dementia #can go a long way to making interacting with her more pleasant for everyone #whatever idk i guess i don't have room to talk because i don't really see her often #but good lird #idk it's all very complicated. duh it's family everything is complicated.#but i for real have just let go of expecting like 'normal' conversations that follow a linear path and totally make sense #and also let go of being offended if she says something rude #and it just makes things more enjoyable #easier said than done i guess like she still says and does things that upset me to varying degrees #but i will say lowkey there is a reason i am still the favorite grandchild despite being gay AND transgender. and having a septum piercing #i might delete this later bc it feels silly to air out family shit on tumblr but #you know #i don't envy my mom who drives 2+ hours round trip every week to see her #but also sometimes i'm like mom why the fuck are you arguing with her about xyz it's not a rational thought that she's having #so you can't logic your way out of it #idkkkkkkk wotevr

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