#idk who to tag but hey have this shitty gifset

[kpopggs]

230514 + NINGNING

[aizenat]

Not you saying there's nothing about you being negative when you search your name as if posts about you dismissing male victims of abuse just to support a problematic white woman and other users calling you out pls 💀

Listen, this was really fun for a while, but you're making me have to be serious, which obviously isn't fun. So let me read you a bit.

First off, you're lying. Your "posts about you dismissing male victims of abuse" claim isn't a thing at all. The closest thing to a call out post re: me that you'll be able to find in my tag is someone putting me on a block list with random people and ZERO explanation of why. On top of that, that very person has a reputation of making random blocklists for people, and putting them on there despite them being generally left-leaning social liberals who would agree with them on anything. Searching that person's url will bring that up in two seconds. These posts you're pretending to say exist literally don't.

I also know you're lying because never have I ever on my page "dismissed male victims of abuse." If you're trying to reference how I speak out against how Amber Heard was publicly harassed by her abusive ex-husband last year, I don't know what to tell you. I mean, you're trying to defend a loser drunk who has a long history of preying on young and vulnerable women/girls, as well as abuse and violence, who literally texted his friend how he wanted to violently murder her for giggles. I've seen abuse victims deal with that trauma in a lot of ways, and never have I seen one do something like that. Seen plenty of abusers do that, though.

Whether or not Amber Heard is "problematic," it doesn't mean she is incapable of being a victim of abuse and/or misogyny. Implying her being "problematic" immediately means she can't be a victim of these things plays into the perfect victim mindset that literally kills women because, remember, a perfect victim is a dead victim. If a cop racially profiled Kanye West tomorrow and shot and killed him, we would still be upset over the racism of that action despite Kanye being...like that. Someone can hold disgusting views and you can still be disgusted with the way they are oppressed. If Amber not being a perfect victim means she can't be a victim of abuse to you, then that really shows how immature and unintelligent you are. Someone can harbor disgusting views and still be part of a marginalized identity and be a victim to being marginalized. The only way you can say that's not the case is if you believe women are not oppressed. And if we can't even agree on that, then please leave my page because I don't deal with anti-feminists in any capacity.

And to my last point, I really want you to think long and hard about why you decided to take this here over a tag on a fucking gifset. I didn't add to the post, I didn't find the man (whoever he is) to harass him, I didn't go on twitter or online sites where he'd likely see these comments to say this; it was just a random thought I had and wanted to share. The man obviously had work done, at least botox. That's just straight facts. If that annoyed you, a simple unfollow or block would do. If you wanted to send one "hey, that was shitty of you" ask on your way out, then fine.

But you spent all day basically going through my blog looking for things to criticize. You talked about wanting to see what I looked like, obviously so you mock me. You're in my inbox lying about what is being said about me in order to make it seem like I'm some monster. I'm just a random person on tumblr, the least influential social media site, shitposting in my spare time. That's it. There was no reason to take this to this point.

And this is what I mean about the way kpoppies make this not fun. I couldn't reblog something and add something cheeky in the tags without being harassed? All of this over "#idk who this man is but his plastic surgery is very distracting and ugly looking#you get work done then wanna load up on Botox why?" Really? I said a man's botox looked ugly and that warrants you trying to make me look like some horrible person who hates abuse victims or something? Does that even make sense? "Oh, this person dunked on my bias' botox: SHE MUST HATE AND DISMISS ABUSE VICTIMS!"

Like, hello? It's just kpop. It's a billion dollar industry that fuels overworking, eating disorders, body dysmorphia, depression and anxiety, capitalism and consumerism, racism, and misogyny. It doesn't need your defending. And if you decided you didn't like me just for insulting him, that's fine too. You don't need to do that thing where you try to make me "problematic" (I'm not lol) so you can justify it; it's okay to just not like people sometimes. My feelings are not hurt. You are not the first to dislike me, nor will you be the last.

I get that it's the internet and it's easy to not consider the problematic thinking and action patterns that you're engaging in, but when you find yourself rabidly going through someone's page to find "dirt," making up lies about people talking about/calling them out, and sending out hate messages after hate messages, then it's time to log off and take a step back. If you believe yourself to be a good person, and I'm sure you do, then now is a time for self reflection. Be a little self aware. Is this what good people who wish to spread positivity do? Do they send hate anons to strangers all over someone wanting to be a hater for a minute?

So I'm going to turn off anonymous messaging and put you in a bit of a time out so you can calm down and think about how inappropriate you're being. I don't take abuse lightly as I am very familiar with it, and so I will not tolerate you trying to use it as a gotcha all over a fucking gifset of a few kpop idols. One day, I hope you remember your actions today and cringe at how ridiculous you were being. And I really hope you're currently at an age where you'd be able to laugh and think "what a dumb child I was."

[kiara-carrera]

Hi darling, I'd really like to open a blog about my ocs and I was wondering if you could give me some tips on how to organize it and to enter in the community. Also, I don't have Photoshop, so I really don't know how I could do manips or gifsets. And I have to thank you because your ocs really inspire me, they're amazing and I wish I could create mine even half as good as yours😍

hey! i’m fairly new to the tumblr oc territory, so my advice might not be as great as some of the other wonderful people who’ve been at this for longer, but i’ll try my best lol. also this is sort of a long winded post, so imma stick it under the cut so people don’t have to scroll for ninety nine thousand years lol.

as for organizing your oc blog, i’m assuming you mean like a character list page or something? tumblr has a lot of amazing people who are wicked crafty with coding and post codes that they’ve made for these pages (and a lot come with handy instructions) so it’s sorta just a matter of searching through themes and figuring what works best for you? 

as for entering the community, i honestly cannot say enough about tagging. tags are your best friends on posts. depending on the oc, there might be various tags you can use to get them sorta,,,signal boosted i guess? like for riverdale, the tag is fyeahriverdale ocs and marvel has dailycomicbook ocs etc. also, following people and just like making friends i guess? i’m trying to be better at this and following more and interacting more with people but it’s not really an instant thing of making friends and getting noticed. like i don’t have that many followers (and at least a good 15 are either porn blogs or bots), but it’s sort of just how it goes, like no one gonna get thousands of followers and friends overnight.

as for gifs and not having photoshop, pal i feel the pain. i’m completely incapable of making manip gifs (any that are on my account are made by my absolutely lovely friend @cptainsrogers). the only gifs on my account that are mine include the gif that i posted yesterday for my story bittersweet as well as the gif pack i have of the main character (brooke holliday) and her love interest in that story, as well as two gifs that i made for my tw oc and stiles stilinski. i use ezgif to make all my gifs, which is actually a pretty user friendly, easy to learn on type of website that has various options for gif cropping, resizing, recoloring, and even putting multiple gifs together. it also has an option of adding text to gifs, but the quality is kind of shitty which is why i’ve started experimenting with making text overlay pngs on pixlr and overlaying them onto the gifs (another option on ezgif), but that’s a bit of a long winded explanation (if you’re interested send me another ask or even a private message and i can try to help). it’s honestly a lot of trial and error and just redoing it until it looks great lol.

idk of any of this was helpful at ALL, but i hope this gave you some sort of help???

[prettysei-remade]

graphic design is my passion actually the last time i made a graphic of any kind was when i was like 10 and i have sadly Not magically improved since then rip;; also dont worry the comic sans is ironic im not that awful......or am i 

hey there angels (instead of demons bc ur not demons ur all angels get it haha), it’s me, ya maknae! this is a very looooooong post so buckle in, my pals

AHEM 

exactly this time last year, i was probably laughing and/or crying at the thought of ever having mutuals here, much less having too many to do a proper follow forever in a rush the day before i post it (rip) so becAUSE i ran out of time and would probably give up in the middle, i decided to just talk abt how much i love everyone in the Stream Team gc and also make a shitty graphic so i could bless ur guys’ new years with ot13 and make it seem like i know what i’m doing :) 

ok im gonna get sappy for a sec and then u can all get to the part u actually care about (the part that’s also sappy but directed at specific people) 

my friends!! my loves!!! the bestest people on the planet!!!!! i love you <3<3 you guys are the sweetest, kindest, most understanding, most hilarious group of friends in the world and i’m so fucking lucky to know all of you. you make me laugh,,you make me cry (in a good way),,,,,you make me like myself when i dont feel like it,,,,im so?? blessed??? to have people to talk to and scream abt kpop with and be myself around. i’m more comfortable with u guys than probably anyone else?? like. even irl because 1) i’ll probably never come out, 2) none of my friends know anything abt kpop, and 3) none of my friends are rlly.....aware of the things my brain tells me about myself sometimes. which brings me to the last thing before i start yelling abt u all in alphabetical order: 

thank you guys for being the Good Brains to help out when my Mean Brain gets too mean. 

💙 

@byungjoo 

laura!! idk if u think abt this as often as i do (probably not) but like,, remember before we were friends and we had that ““discussion”” for abt .2 seconds regarding toppdogg going on the unit and then i thought u hated me for a couple weeks and then we became like the most amazing friends?? well reminding you of that is basically my long roundabout way of saying that our friendship is kind of a miracle to me, and i’m so so thankful that you’ve become someone i can trust with anything and not be judged for it :’) you always know what to say and you always make me feel special when we talk and just?? wow...don’t forget me when you become the biggest bts blog in the world......i saw one of your gifsets that had like 5k+ notes and almost shed a tear i was so proud of u.. i love you and thank u for being amazing all the time!! and for introducing me to twice and gfriend aka the most amazing girls!!! and of course....#laurjoo5ever <3

@gipsydangger 

yo jo (that was lame im sry you deserve better) you havent been in the chat for super long but you’re One Of Us and also 1/2 of the Official Ruby-Got-Me-Into-IZ Squad so lots of love for you!! thank you for singing all star with me in an attempt to cleanse our chat of ******** (im just (all)starring out his name so he doesnt find this post and try to eat my heart again), thank you for being so nice and thoughtful and sweet and all the other amazing things youve been already, thank you for giving iz a shot and somehow becoming a fan in like 5 minutes (???amazing) you!! are a rock star!!! wow!!!!!!

@hjjxxn​

ok alex i know you’re not tec h ni c a l ly in the chat but lets be real;;you’re still my Toppklass Queen ;; ur adorable! ur so kind! u work so hard! ur such a sweetheart! forget toppklass queen, u r the queen of my heart 💖 i cant believe we’re both hojoon stans AND yoongi stans it’s like we were meant to be friends or smth idk?? and you got me into winner and sent me the bEST videos of them holy shit im still laughing abt the one where theyre dancing to ‘hello bitches’ jshdkahds and mino’s duck song,,i cri :’( you have the best taste so i’m vv grateful to know you in the first place and! talking to you is super fun even tho we dont do it often <3<3 ilu <3

@itsachocolatecake 

jess <3 our leader,,mother,,,resident Cutie Pie <3<3 i am so fond of you?? you’re loads and loads of fun to talk with and the chat would be so different without u, i’m not even gonna imagine it!! instead im gonna remember how you always cheer me up right away and help me remember whats good about myself and tell me that i’m not alone and give me great ideas for metaphors involving brains (like mental brains not physical brains)!!! our mutualness (mutualism? mutuality?? idk) goes waaay back, like, relatively, so thank you for following me in the first place bc it means we’re friends now !! love you <3 

@kimsanggyum 

kaliiiiiii!! my wonderful fellow scorpio (AHEM i mean what im not a scorpio who said that i’ll fight them) ur super fun and cute and as soon as you joined u fit right in even tho we’re all kind of weird and now you are One Of Us and it’s kind of hard to believe that you havent been since the beginning?? you’re such a cutie and i love love love talking to you and stuff <3 jdkjsldf dog pics are one of the many ways to my heart and your dog is amazing!!! thank you for sharing!!! you are amazing!!! tell canyon monroe i love him (again) and tell him from me to be nice to laura too,,anyway!! love u lots <3 

@lapillity 

melia. you. are. the. best. my text posts never go noteless bc of you :’) you’re honestly truly just the greatest?? not just bc you like my text posts tho, youre genuinely sweet and suuuuper nice like,,i cant say anything bad about any of the Stream Team tbh but MELIA!!1! you would have to murder a man for a not-justifiable reason for me to say anything bad about you :/ i think you are an Angel and you’re so cute??how are u so cute i dont get it :(( thanks for being my friend and also helping me reject that guy that one time,,without you i definitely would’ve screwed things up tbh so seriously!! thank you and i love you <3<3 

@minty-sugar-kpop 

minty i think i should tell u now that whenever i type “rip” on my phone the next suggested word is always “minty” :’) we’re always screaming abt kpop groups together like!! when clap was released u screamed about seventeen with me!!! when i told u i was getting into twice u screamed about twice with me!! when nothing else is happening u scream about toppdogg with me (and the rest of us)!!!! i love that youre as excited about your fave groups as i am about my fave groups because it helps remind me that it’s NOT weird to be really super extremely dedicated to things that make u happy and i still struggle with that sometimes so.... thanks for being you i guess?? also for getting rid of ******** from our chat with the power of ot13 :’)) love you <3<3<3 

@reallyabananya

kat!! my Superhero!!! the lifegiver for minsung stans everywhere;; i am so grateful for literally everything you’ve ever done in your life but specifically 1) translating every. single. one. of minsung’s often long and very complex posts, 2) being my role model for running an update-esque blog! like!! if kat can do everything she does for her blogs and translate stuff and be so efficient at everything, i can do it for my one tiny little blog!!, 3) working so hard but always being so so sweet to everyone and being so amazingly humble all the time and being somebody i admire not only as a blogger but as a person too <3 (wow that was che e s y lol) im love you!! <3 

@saltygot7 

hi kendall! another scorpio wowie!!! of course i say “another” bc i already mentioned how kali is a scorpio,,it’s not because i’m a scorpio. because i’m not haha. anyway. im sorry i let ******** come between us, i know you didn’t mean to create a demon that would eventually possess both you and your phone and try to eat all of our hearts. i know and i’m sorry and i love you!!! i also know that you still think those asks u sent were hilarious but i forgive you bc i know you love me too <3<3 i can’t believe my Ultimate Bias and the true visual of our group loves me!! wow!!! thanks for all your amazing selfies, they always make me smile :’) you rlly know how to cheer everyone up and get us in a happy mood and just,,,thanks for always being your lovely self! love u lots <3 

@sunshinesanggyun 

bella 💕 i love you, i love you, i love you 💕 idk if you know this or not, but you were actually my first tk mutual <3 i remember when i got the notif that you followed me back and i was so excited because this person!! this person with an amazing blog and who i already thought was super cool!! wanted to follow me!!! i still think it’s amazing that you wanted to be my friend but i can’t really say that i “can’t believe it” anymore because i can;;; you’re my friend and i’m your friend and i love you!! i’ll remind you of that every day if i have to. you’re the other 1/2 of the Official Ruby-Got-Me-Into-IZ Squad (along with jovano) and it makes me so happy that you’re a fan now too!!!! you’re just awesone tbh?? you help me with my shitty stuff and i try my best to help you with your shitty stuff and!! you’re one of my best friends!! i’m so so happy and lucky and blessed and thankful to know you! never forget how much i love you forever 💕💕💕 

@toppdoggzz 

jacqueline;; the awesome aunt that’s super nice and who helps people when they’re sad;;(i can’t remember jess’s exact wording but it was True);;;; you’re so cool and amazing and honestly i find it incredible how you’ve been with bts from the beginning!! is that a weird thing to say as a compliment?? shdfsdhkd sorry but sticking with a group from debut is really admirable, especially because bts didnt start out super big but you stayed with em anyway :’) you’re such a star and you reblog my selfies when i ask you to (btw ur tags on my latest selfies had me cryin;;find someone who will compliment you every day like jacqueline complimented my decent-ish selfies;;) and you’re so great to talk with and yeah!! i love u!!!! 

@zombietwink 

isaiah. i hope u believe me when i say, from the very bottom of my heart: you are the Meme to my Internet Connection, the Cherry to my Bomb, the Chanyeol to my.....You. idk. you take my worst text posts that i make at like 3am and add the best things to them and make them Good and i love our convos in the replies of my posts alsjdsfjjs also can i just say?? i’m still not 100% sure what the whole thing is with like the “kin” meme (i get what it is but i dont rlly Get It u know) but literally any mention of it ever reminds me of you :’) it’s actually astounding how many memes make me think of you tbh..anyway, ur very very cute and soft and nice and youve been mutuals with me for a Long Time so thanks for thinking im cool enough to follow!!! and for still following me!!! love you <3 

wow that took a long time but it was worth it!! tho i honestly wouldn’t blame you if you just skipped everything and only read the little section abt you lmao 

well, happy new year! i hope lots of really good, and happy, and lovely, and wonderful things are waiting for you in 2018 ✨✨✨

[leifor]

WIP Challenge

I was tagged by @flamingbluepanda and @onedamnminuteadmiral - thank you soooo much for remembering me!!! Both of you replied with writing WIPs, so that’s what I’m gonna talk about too! My list won’t be half as long as yours tho hahahah, but I’ll compensate by talking in detail about each project x)

Do Dis: List all the things you’re currently working on in as much or little detail as you’d like, then tag some friends to see what they’re working on. This can be writing, art, vids, gifsets, whatever.

1. Well, my biggest thing right now is ST:W, the infamous ST:M sequel. W stands for Wall, and yeah, I still haven’t decided how I’m going to write the title. 6 chapters are finished and other 4 chapters are a work in progress! I had a goal to finish it before the end of 2017, but then depression knocked on my door and idk now... It has soooooo much plot, I have all these papers taped to my walls with timelines and plans for each chapter, and I’m alterating between loving how everything comes together perfectly and hating it with my entire soul like every day x) As for the plot, it deals with the consequences of the crew’s trip to Halka (our current universe has both the mirror and the planet, AND the knowledge of how to turn them into the Tantalus Field), Spock’s court martial he got in the end of ST:M, and, of course, the subsequent change in Jim and Spock’s relationship. Also they hqave the most awkward family dinner in history with Winona and Sarek. Also Jim gets a PR agent. I can’t say anything else without spoilers, sorry C:

2. An original untitled screenplay that maybe I’ll try submitting somewhere and see how this part of my writing experience goes? It’s about a girl, Bri, who dies and becomes a ghost - but there is one rule: she can only reveal herself to six people. The first person Bri reveals herself to is her best friend Jen, and together they start using their ghost advantage like any college student would: pranks and cheating, etc. Then an amateur ghost hunter Roy joins their group. So far pretty basic, right? That’s when the real plot begins: the three of them decide, “Hey, we have a ghost on our side! We can spy, collect top-secret intel, overthrow governments!!” And their government is a shitty one. So they decide to overthrow it, making other two people join them - an office intern and Bri’s step-mother, but unlike most stories, the heroes fail horribly. Turns out, it’s impossible to change just one country: you gotta change the entire world because everything’s connected, and all their blackmailing and intel leaks no one can trace start a world war.

I love these kinds of plots, when it starts off like somehting simple and you think you already know the ending - but then it suddenly takes an unexpected turn. Think The World’s End, for example

3. An original novel about a group of friends hunting spirits on a quest to prevent the end of the world. Maybe some publishers will accept it, although I doubt it...

Phew, sorry it got too long!

Thank you for reading

[sanaseva-archive]

heyo

whomst is this?? don’t recognise this non-finnish url

1. First impression: omg such a cool blogger with a+ opinions and literally at LEAST as salty as me and also finnish lesbian? cool2. Truth is: not finnish but otherwise pretty much On Point there but also: ABSOLUTELY LOVELY and so so so important and the loveliest gifsets and i love that u tag me to them like im sorry but im just a shitposter idk why u don’t tag like cooler blog s omg yeah……… also apparently now carries a harry potter url not only an hp url but also an a+ hp url like whose soul did u sacrifice [eye emoji]3. How old do you look: i think around my age like 20-22 !!! but also i’ve seen like one or two selfies of u 4. Have you ever made me laugh: IDK HOW MANY TIMES BUT MANY5. Have you ever made me mad: no 6. Best feature: all of them like ur amazing?? u have a+ opinions, and ur funny, and u love wlw and ur gay so :^, also ur sweet and kind and u deal with shitty anons incredibly well !!! and u stand up for ppl who get shitty anons and u hold so much love and i’m just so emotional honestly ur incredible i lov u7. Have I ever had a crush on you: no but literally if we livd in teh same town i’d be up to be at least cuddle buddies ngl8. You’re my: Australian Mutual Friend ™ who is awake when should sleep, salty Gay mutual and a light on this hellsite 9. Name in my phone: i don’t have u 10. Should you post this too? u already have

send me a hey if we’re mutuals or friends (aka interacted!!)