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cicadude · 5 years ago

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when i id'd as pan i was so fucking bi/homo/lesbo/nbphobic its unreal. like im not trying to get into that discourse here but just, personally i was gross as hell.

i was the stereotypical "why only love 1 or 2 genders when you can love all?" and i was so angry at bisexuals all the time. i didnt consider bi people as being able to date nb people and i just thought everyone was selfish bc "uwu why dont u wanna date the cutesy enbies, guys, AND gals?".

im so fucking glad that i stopped doing that when i identified as 'homoflexible' and then just went to bi when i realized that that wasnt the right label either. i love being a cool and sexy as hell bisexual, who can date all genders and respects lesbians and gay men, and just generally isnt a gross person!

#discourse #lgbt discourse #again not saying all pan ppl r like this but this is literally just how i was personally #idk where i stand in the pan discourse tbfh #ok to reblog #edit in the tags; i considered bi. gay. nd lesbian ppl as being able to date trans people tho so at least i had that going for me #tag edit 2; *binary trans ppl. i considered them to be able to date binary trans men andbinary trans women

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