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jessiesjaded · 1 year ago

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Honestly, the most annoying part of fandom now for me personally is just that... I really don't need to know every detail of the thing I'm a fan of- not to say I don't love learning interesting little things but this obsession with knowing absolutely everything is so draining to me, especially private things. I don't need to know the director of the movie I enjoyed cheated on his wife once 20 years ago. I don't need to know that two actors had a fling once upon a time. I don't need to read every old interview from the guy who created the game I love just because I happen to love the thing he created, if you personally feel compelled to find out every last detail of every person involved in creating something, that's great for you! But please don't expect everyone else to be like that, too.

#idk i think you lose part of the xharm when you do that #and I know!! bc i used to be like that #used to find out every little detail and then i just stopped one day and yk what?#its better this way #being a fan of someone and finding stuff out about them is fine #but im at the point where im more distinctly a fan of the work than the person #idk it just irks me when people try to bring stuff up like... its not my buisness and i dont care #Of course if its something like a person bei g accused of abuse or harrassment etc then yeah i dont want to support them #i.e why i'll never listen to r kelly again #but just little random shit? yeah i dont need to k ow about it i dont want to know about it #its likely to taint shit for me so why would i want to #its like when someone just had to come tell me the voice actor of a character i liked 'cheated on his wife'#okay that sucks I feel bad for his wife i really do #but thats a private relationship issue????#if she wants to blast him publicly than that'd be her right #im not involved tho #also funniest thing about that was the guy was actually in an open sort of marriage so like. who tf am i to judge whatever he and his wife #decided to live like ?????#like again if you told me he got convicted of punching a dog then id be like fuck that guy #but when its just random personal issues ????? why is this any of my business ???????#like I knew everything about kstew once upon a time and now i only know bits and pieces #from when i catch an interview here or there #and i go Oh good to see she seems happier these days #and i leave it at that #idk theres too much information now and i dont want to hear it lol

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