#idk both options are hell but idk t4t w trans men has also been hell and idk where tf the trans fems are like hello? | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

spywitch · 2 years ago

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I seriously need to reevaulate my self worth and problems with men LOL bc like when I attempt dating I mainly look at men and have incredibly low standards bc its just Easier and ig what I think I deserve but when like my girl friends date men I get like. Incredibly worried, distrustful and uncomfortable on their behalf. Mostly based soley on the fact that they are men. Or on the smallest red flags. And im like no actually I dont reaaaally want to meet ur libertarian bf straight men scare the fuck out of me and I dont want u bringing ur men uve dated for 3 months into our house thanks

#like I guess. queer men dont bother me and I generally feel safe around them I mean my online friend circle is mostly queer men #nerdy men can be ok too. like depends though obviously majority of them are even worse LOL but some r fun #girls are easier for me to like connect to emotionally ig but theyre also just. seem incredibly difficult to please most of the time and #theres all these social standards that I have to be like super forward and chivelrous and shit and im. not that confident #and even if a girl is shy and inexperienced like I am then she’ll be ljke TOO shy and ill have to make every move. ugh #idk both options are hell but idk t4t w trans men has also been hell and idk where tf the trans fems are like hello?

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