#idk also bragging about getting laid/how many times you do it is so fuckimg embarassing to me

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There’s just something that bugs me about ppl who say things like “lesbians/sapphics are so prudish and frigid for not being open about their sexuality while I’m gonna go get railed and send nudes to someone I just met” like?? Okay? Have you failed to consider that most of us have gotten unwanted sexual attention since we were literal children?? The fact that you ignore that black, brown and Asian women when we say how we’re always hyper sexualized And are uncomfortable about talking about ourselves that way in public? How it’s none of your business how many times or how we have sex and just because we are not sexual in our online presence doesn’t mean we aren’t in our private life? And I can’t speak for everyone but as a brown woman I never had a chance to be innocent and not sexualized?? You may have as a white person, but I never had that. Anyways you’re not obligated to know the ins and outs of someone’s sex life and its fucking invasive that most of you demand it from lesbians specifically