#id like to bow and say rant over but itll never be over

[grimsonandclover]

Hey guys, I'm getting really annoyed by minors continuously ignoring our MDNI warnings and our post talking about them. We have several people we're cautious about and continuously seeing those same users interact time and time again when we both know they shouldn't be is getting really frustrating. Especially when a lot of us get that human feeling of "goddd I really want to tell them to stop but the idea of confronting them makes me want to die horrifically" and we're still trying to work up to getting over it and asking you directly.

"I'm mature for my age" well fucking clearly. "But everyone is an adult what an I meant to do" That's not our concern, I'm sorry. There are a lot of other spaces you can be in, but purposefully ignoring us time and time again when we tell you "LEAVE US ALONE" is not the fucking solution. Jesus Christ, a lot of us openly and freely talk about sex and kinks/fetish and overshare about way too much for a minor to see. How many time do you need to be told that WE DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOU. I don't care if I or someone else made a post talking about the weather, if we tell minors to not interact *multiple times*, stop interacting. It's getting hard to be polite or understanding when it's been discussed several times openly and publicly. Please, I am begging you, fuck off and listen to people's boundaries. Just because we are a username on your screen doesn't mean we aren't actual people with morals and feelings. I am a real person with real concerns, so are other people here. Stop ignoring us because it inconveniences you and you want to interact with smut as a child. That's beyond uncomfortable. Every time you interact, you are choosing your comfort over ours.

We do talk about this among ourselves. We are aware of who to look out for. We do tell eachother "Oh god someone ignored my mdni again" and we do all roll our eyes.

Secondly, if you were someone who ignored this boundary as a minor, interacted with MDNI blogs, and then turned 18 and continued on like nothing happened: I still don't like you. We still roll our eyes. You still crossed a boundary made clear to you multiple times and assumed you were exempt. You still disregarded our feelings as an inconvenience to you. Not cute, not quirky, not okay, I don't forgive you.

It's dangerous. We care because its fucking dangerous. Look at the whole "someone shared scat with minors" incident that just happened (no youre not getting told who it was, we've blocked eachother so to me that's as resolved as it will get. Don't come into my inbox trying to snoop around for gossip. It's fucking gross. Im not talking about it further). We can control other adults as much as we can control children being on our page, and I 1000% blame the adult in every situation like this, but you can avoid being the next person to get shared shit fics with by not interacting when we tell you not to. We have been the kids in these scenarios. We've been on the internet as long or longer than you have been. We know why we have these feelings and why we've asked minors to not interact with us and our space. We don't want to be the same people who hurt us before.