#i'm just a goofy lady who likes chicken men and being far too open about her personal struggles online i'm not qualified at anything 😭

[maylilithreign]

What do you think gay men are attracted to in men that they can’t be attracted to in women?

It can’t be anything about femininity or masculinity obviously. That’s both sexist, and cultural so can’t be what drives men-only attraction.

It can’t be anything about stated identity because someone could lie just as easily as they could tell the truth in such a statement, and it makes no sense because homosexuality and heterosexuality exists in other species with no stated identities. It’s not like other animals without gender are all pan.

Saying idk it’s the vibes or some indescribable trait men have that women can’t but “I can’t explain” is a nonanswer.

Soooooooo what is it? Or do you think any sexuality but bi/pan is just cultural performance or an identity rather than an inborn orientation?

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I don't really understand your questions, or why you're asking them of me specifically. I hope you're not offended by my answer here but I'm literally just a straight woman who embraces everyone on the sexual orientation and gender identity spectrums 💀 I'm not an expert on anyone's identity outside of my own, and certainly not a gay man's. And no, I don't think I'm doing a cultural performance. I just happen to be cishet, it's not very deep to me.