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megatraven · 6 years

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casual reminder that people are allowed to ship what they want and if you don’t like something they ship you don’t have to question them about it like they’re on trial or ask for their reasons without having genuine curiosity for why, that’s just a shitty thing to do and probably makes the person on the receiving end feel insecure

here are some alternatives instead:

- unfollow, even if you’re mutuals. you control your tumblr experience, my dudes. if you’re friends then you can still talk, and chances are your friend wants you to have the best experience you can - blacklist the tag. if the person doesnt tag it, ask them to, if they refuse, unfollow. (tumblr has its own blacklisting function now) - ignore it, scroll right by, it’s obviously not for you and that’s ok - understand that people Do have their reasons for shipping what they do and they don’t them to you - realize it’s not your job to make sure they know you think it’s wrong to ship it

#meg speaks #something that i keep thinking abt and have been thinking abt for the past couple of months :/#this doesnt apply to ships w/ huge age gaps (talkin like 10+ years) unless both persons are already fairly older #(while im at it if any of you mutuals or no are looking for an ok to unfollow me: here it is. i want you to be as happy as you can be)#anyways like multiple people have done this to me and then it makes me feel bad and kind of stupid and like i just want #to live my best life and have fun like im an adult i know right from wrong and i can recognize toxic things for what they are #and i can also recognize that it can take a lot of time and effort for some things to be worked out and that irl it probably wouldnt be but #this is fiction and it's my blog and i can do what i want and i always put the appropriate tags on everything so pelase just. let me live.#i wrote this up earlier and im posting now bc idc it has gotta b seen #mostly it's been abt chl//nette but there have ben a couple other ships too rip #like vo/l/t/r/o/n ones oof

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