#i wouldn't ACTUALLY feel comfortable with ppl irl using he/him on me i think

[djevelbl]

I'll never forget the day my mum asked me "hey so uh. why do you use he/him on your whatsapp channel??" and I had to elaborate beyond "I think it's fun"

[bfwonho]

AITA but i dont wanna use reddit

ok you know what here is the situation. my (only recently) 20 yr old friend (i met them four years ago when we both worked at mcd) lived with their strict, emotionally abusive, overprotective parents until recently. their parents would confiscate tech for yrs at a time, wouldn't let them get vaccinated (i had to help them do that), guilt and shame them, etc. also obviously homophobic and my friend is transfem nb and queer. theyre also the eldest sibling of quite a few and had to handle the pressure of that responsibility and their parents never wanted them to do normal things like getting a car and moving out. i was always there encouraging them even when we stopped working together bc i was like fuck this naive gullible homeschooled kid has no one and they remind me of my younger sibling and im gonna be there for them as much as i can. the only reason they even got a car eventually is cus i kept telling them to so they cld move out

cut back to barely a year ago, they're still so naive and gullible they've lent like 1k+ to ppl who won't pay them back, but they still have like 10-20k in savings and now their own car. they also get into digital art with my help and get into furry porn or whatever. im like ok i guess ur an adult now do what u want. and then theyre like "ive got an online partner from CANADA!!! (we r australian) don't freak out i know it's bad but he's 30." i'm like oh god. they've been together 3 months ish and my friend RLY wants to visit their fuckass boyfriend and i'm like please be careful, please wait at least a year, i know u wont wanna listen to how i rly feel about this but at least just take these precautions. i'm also like when you do meet irl he should come here ur barely 19 and he's 30 like it only makes sense. and theyre like "thank u i promise i will do that"

and then maybe 10 or 11 months into their relationship i find out my friend is in canada with their bf, and has been for like a month, and i only know this bc they're asking if i can pick them up from sydney airport. im like errr that's pretty far away but take the train and i'll pick you up from the station and they're like ok sure! and i ask a bit more about it and find out they believe their parents have been hacking into their laptop because why else would they be suspicious that this canadian guy is their boyfriend, i'm like actually no offense but it's really fucking obvious i don't think they did that... and they're like "yeah anyway my parents are no longer picking me up which is why i need a lift, i admitted i have a boyfriend and they're calling him a pedo (and i almost agree but i just smile and nod) and so i'm not going back and taking their bs anymore, i'm gonna sleep in my car if i have to" so i offer for them to stay at my place for a few weeks.

they go get their stuff from their place, i buy them a pizza cus they havent had dinner, i help them get their stuff inside, set up a temporary bed. they tell me they plan to be out within a few days, i tell them they can stay longer if they need to, but currently their only job is doordash and they should focus on getting a real job so they can find a place and i'm more than happy to help them find somewhere. theyre the type of person to say sorry for everything and not let themselves ever feel comfortable, so i make sure they know they can use the kitchen and bathroom and everything while they're here and to not feel like a huge burden, im gonna be charging them a tiny bit of rent anyway so yeah.

now tell me why it's been over a month, they've applied to only a few places, i specifically put in a good word with them at my job and told them to call back and ask about the application and they just haven't, they've just been doordashing and filling my entire fridge and cupboard with their food, i tell them to use the laundromat cus we don't have enough space for their washing too and they end up asking if they can use our washing machine anyway (i reluctantly say yes), they destroy all my kitchen sponges on washing this one shitty pan i have cus they have to cook an entire grand meal from scratch for breakfast lunch and dinner, they wash up but i'm the only person who cleans the floors and the bathroom so now i'm feeling cramped and stressed out...

i ask my mum about what to do, she says give them 2 weeks to move out, my mum is a guarantor on my lease so in the group chat i explain the situation and say they have 2 weeks, they NEVER RESPOND and start not coming home until late at night... i'm considering moving into another place with a friend atp so i'm like yo maybe you can get on this lease and THEN they respond and start showing up again... and today i called and updated mum on the situation and her partner got on the phone, me and my sibling only got this place cus he apparently called in a favour cus we were rly struggling to find any fucking housing, and so he says "tell him i mean THEMMM if theyre not out tomorrow i will forcibly remove them" and so my sibling makes sure to tell them this face to face so they cant avoid actually responding. i also find out today that this whole time they've been flat broke (to the point they had to borrow my money just to get petrol despite doordashing like 40 hours a week) because they HAVE BEEN HELPING. PAY. THEIR GROWN ASS. SHITTY FUCKING USELESS. PARTNERS. RENT. THIS GROWN ASS MAN NOT ONLY HAD THEM PAY TO GO SEE HIM AND SUCK HIM OFF AND COOK FOR HIM. NOT ONLY WAS LETTING THEM GO BACK TO AUSTRALIA AND JUST BE HOMELESS. BUT HE IS ACTIVELY TAKING THEIR FUCKING MONEY. despite all of this i am deep down INCREDIBLY GLAD that my mum's partner put his foot down to get them out of my house and i feel guilty about it despite risking eviction cus im breaking my lease agreement by having them here loooll

tldr my 20 yr old friend has been living in my house illegally for over a month bc they refuse to go back to their shitty parents, they are however broke and don't have a stable job and their 30 yr old boyfriend is leeching off of them, and now i'm essentially kicking them out of my place within 2 days because my own housing security is at risk

[123gocat]

(okaayy first actual pinned post bio thing,,.. here we go,,,.,. ,,.. )

haii!!! i'm 123gocat but u can jus call me cat. this blog has a lot of stuff,., really random stuff sometimes but i usually post art of my characters and sometimes fanart. i also just post whatever, like thoughts that come into my head, random song lyrics, or just a question i might have for whoever it is watching.

my name is not "flashwarnbrightcolor" that's just the name of the site loll

⭐️stuff about me igg??🌈

he/him oNLY!! i don't like being called they,,/them,n, i wont correct you but like just know that okayyy??

-furry!! very cringe oooooo scary

-i lovvee, cats :33 ,,duhh

- i'm an animator and song producer, i someday wish to make stuff with lyrics but not yet

-i LOVE rainbows n colorful stuf n yesss

-i like the styles webcore, scenecore, rainbowcore, and just pretty colorful thingz in generalll!!!!!

-i like smiling friends, dog man, vocaloid, animation memes, pjsk, matt rose, failboat, uhh probably some more but idk rnn

-i type weird.., it should make sense but jeah i am very silly witf my typing ;p

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i have really bright stuff on my page that might hurt ur eyez x-X

i don't typically swear but sometimes i'll link songs and videos with them, or reblogz 0^o

iam minor ⛏️ i will NAWT give age!!!!! stawp askimm,,. I SEE YOU!!!

i am verz mental illness.,. doctors are confused but they have stuff in mind. i don't feel comfortable saying what it is, only few irl ppl can know and u know who u are!!

if you know my irl name or other personal info, don't mention it online!! sure u guys already know haha (like 4 ppl i thiinkk??)

ALSO!!

i don't usually keep track of/follow controversy or drama, so i apologize if i reference media with problematic figures!! if you are to point it out, please be respectful.

- i do this because it's hard to believe what i see online and you don't usually ever see the other side of the story.

- i also have a hard time with telling if some stuff is real/not real sometimes so i don't want to involve myself in anything that worsens that behavior.

- even if the person IS truly a bad person, i don't approve of harassment or threats on anybody especially online

- i don't really know them? and i don't know you,,. online is scaryz

also if yk stuff that makes me nervous or triggers me, don't use it against me ;w; ik it's sort of "asking for it" as i've been told, but really, not even as a joke please

i don't really consider this a kids account but it's not like,,. super adult at all? you can be of any age just please be mindful of the stuff i already said above.

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don't press political beliefs or anything don't even talk politic,.s. i don,t, like it very much ;-;

don't beg fur money!! i don't have any!! stawp nagging me!! /ref

don't use my art/anything i make to model/train ai!! i do not condone to that!!

also, i've seen some people doing this, but don't make ai chatbots of my characters!! idk if it's happened yet probably not i don't have any apps like that i wouldn't know ggrrr

i don't mind mild swearing i don't really care just no saying slurs. and don't do sexual talk or whatever i don like it wuuhh

🐾✨MY FURSONA!!! >:3 🌈💫

you'll see him a lot on here ^w^ he's very epic,,.

oh gawd how do i make the picture smaller

his design is verz flexible he can do a lotta things. yes he has a tail.., it's fluffy

heres the non anthro version

okay that's about it fur him,. i have other characters too you'll see em on here somewher..,

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half body furry any species but just not like terribly complex. like it caan be complex but that would have 2 b extra monezz.., i think idk how etsy wurkkz.

i always get comments asking if i'm available for commission,. yes i am . it's rihgt ther. stawp askin.

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uhh that's about it, byee!! >w<

[hamausagi]

HIII BAE!! it took me so long to reply to this but here i am!! (finally)

I'M ALSO SO GLAD WE'RE BACK IN TOUCH!!! it's so nice talking to you pookie and i've also been hoarding the ask you sent me HAHAHA i promise i'll reply to it soon 🙂‍↕️ and yes i'm feeling better but this sem is sooo packed! it's a shorter sem so everything is crammed into 7 weeks instead of the usual 14 ugh 😭 fighting for my life out here </3

HELLOOO I WOULD LITERALLY BE SO HONOURED TO PLAYTEST FOR YOU,,, like tbh i'm not that good at games but STILL!! this being your first big project is so exciting, i'm sure you're going to do amazing!! 💓 tell me everything abt it omg <333 as for the resort, customers being rude and crazy what's new 💀 im so sorry you have to deal w that, it's actually insane how ppl are so comfortable being rude to ppl who are js doing their JOB??? like HELLO please go back to kindergarten and learn some basic empathy before ever coming back here!! that guy sounds like an idiot i'm gonna assassinate him for you (/silly) LIKE you don't have the freaking screws is he expecting you to pull them out of thin air or what 😭😭😭

hmm well i'm finishing up my first year and for now we've got a lot of overlapping classes w the other engineering divisions (mechanical, civil, electronics) bc they want us all to learn the basics. some of my classes are like engineering maths + engineering design & analysis, thermodynamics, etc etc (they're all ass). honestly i'm not really sure what i'll be doing after uni for now! i'm just hoping i'll survive this degree and then i'll think about it KSJDSK 😭 and YES the nodding emoji is literally so peak i use it all the time <3

I LOVE YOUUU OMG 😭🥹🥹🥹 i'm really lucky that i get to do this part-time hjdkjsdk it makes me very happy! it does get stressful & overwhelming sometimes on top of uni & being sick but i honestly wouldn't change it for the world!! you're so sweet though ARGH ilysm <333

I HOPE YOU'RE DOING WELL TOO POOKIE!!! i take a million years to reply to asks bc im pretty busy irl but js know ilysm!!! 💓💓💓💓💓 have an amazing day and take care of yourself!!! and YES this catch up has been so silly and fun MWAHHH <333 here's to more yapping 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

HI QUEEN KIRA 😋😋💗💗 IM SO SORRY IT TOOK ME TEN YEARS TO REPLY TO THIS OMFG 😭😭 i have such bad object permanence when it comes to tumblr i got your ask and was so excited and i read it a bajillion times and started replying at work, saved it to my drafts and then FORGOR i am so sorry. ANYWAY !!

TAKE UR TIME WIT MY ASK TOO LOL i know u be busy asf with ur super cool degree and SUPER cool job so don’t even fret 🙂‍↕️ not ur sem getting cut in half BYE the way that wld piss me off sm….

YAYYYY i MIGHT be able to get you a copy of the build…. we are highly likely going to publish it to steam in a few weeks tho so maybe i can get you a copy that way 👀👀👀 BUT ILL LET YOU KNOWWWW we def need playtesters in the next few weeks with the sem coming to a close and as we enter the polish phase so 💪 im doing all the animations and model rigs which is lowkeeyyyy hype for me, its a little stressful doing all the animations but its been turning out slay 😋😋 spring break hit and then i just kind of slept for a week and now i have to go back UGH but its okay i only have like 3 weeks left of school and then im fucking FREEEE

speaking of free... IM ALSO FREE OF THAT JOB 🔥🔥 the snow season is over so now i hop from one retail service job to another... back to being a barista girlie 😋 but yes bro the entitlement NEVERRR ENDS i just keep gathering stories 😭

girl you are so cool..... thats so slay, i hope that you find something that you enjoy doing with your degree, hopefully u make a bajillion dollars very fast and then u can retire early and be able to dance forever 😌 as AWFUL as it sounds to have to be learning all the basics for all the different paths i suppose its nice to be well-rounded when u eventually find a career path 💔 u got this girl

DW I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND 💕💕 i'm the same, i do love hearing from u so take as much time as u need 😌↕ things are sooo much crazier than they were 3 years ago SJKDFHS but I LOVE U SM SM SM SM SM AND I HOPE YOURE HAVING AN AMAZING DAYYYY ❤❤

[criesinmultifandommess]

Thoughts 5/31

hello very long post about my thoughts on the stream today :]

all of this is about c!Wilbur, c!Tommy, and c!Quackity's roleplay, I admire and appreciate the content creators a lot

(first part of this is sort of lateral with the streams but then it just devolves sorry about that)

ay wait Wilbur is like 40?? goddamn dilf?

"Tommy the stoner" bad bit, Tommy. "Tommy the rocker" EVEN WORSE I HATE THESE MEN

Linda? what the fuck who is she. replacement for the grind?

Tommy why are you mining so much rock. Is this to fill the void in your heart. Tommy why.

wait wait wait I caught the later end of the stream so im rewatching and Wilbur is talking about TNT mechanics but later on when trying to convince Quackity to let him into Las Nevadas, WIlbur says he's forgotten everything about TNT and won't lie. Lie? Hmm

Wilbur claiming TNT is his thing when the first instance of TNT being used in lore is when Dream blew up L'Manberg during the war when they wouldn't surrender. Hmmmm

Wilbur refusing to show Tommy what Quackity wrote for him and omitting what he wrote hmmmmmmm

WILBUR FUCKIN LIED TO TOMMY ABOUT THE BOOK AND SEGUED TO CALLING TOMMY HIS BEST FRIEND TO MAKE HIM FORGET ABOUT WHAT THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT OH MY GOD

the little breaks in serious lore for just absolute bullshit sends me

I cant trust any bitches words in this house

"Seattle, Florida" I- Geoguessr king my ass smh

Quackity's reaction to Wilbur is very similar to how Quackity reacted to Tommy and I don't know what to do with this information

Tommy's dedication to the bit of not knowing what the fuck happened to Quackity's face is amazing, like he squinted irl, I love how serious they take actually committing to acting out their parts

Tommy's pure amazement of Las Nevadas <3

QUACKITYS GIGGLE WHEN WILBUR SAID HE WAS IMPRESSED WITH IT IM FUCKIN CRYING

oop Wilbur is not invited to Las Nevadas?

(this is where it devolves :,D)

Y'all think Wilbur will somehow get his hands on Snowchester's missing nuke and blow up the prison to let him out or has the nuke been found already and I'm just being stupid?

Wilbur and Quackity are SUCH good actors, I genuinely cannot tell if they're actually trying to be good to Tommy or just lying to him to gain his trust or if they're just using him as a way to be better than the other

Very scared for when Wil visits Dream. Will Tommy follow him to try and stop him? Will Wil blow up at him and tell him off for trying to stop him? How will Dream react to Wilbur thinking of him as his hero?

Tommy was just vibin and trying not to be manipulated (again), i love that for him but i am also scared for him where is Puffy when you need her and her therapeutic self

"What could go wrong in a prison?" Sir pls

I SAW SOMEONE ON TWITTER MENTION WILBUR AND NIKI PLS I NEED THAT INTERACTION I WANT HIM TO APOLOGIZE AND NIKI TO EITHER NOT ACCEPT IT OR TELL HIM HOW MUCH SHIT HE PUT HER THROUGH

Tommy feeling like a third wheel and being like "should I leave or..?" while the two were literally being passive aggressive towards each other was so fucking funny

but was he wrong about the tension between them? no

Quackity apologists: HE JUST WANTS WHATS BEST FOR LAS NEVADAS AND WANTS TO GIVE TOMMY SOMEWHERE TO RELAX Wilbur apologists: HE WANTS TOMMY TO STAY WITH HIM AND GIVE HIM A PLACE TO FEEL COMFORTED Tommy apologists: DONT TRUST ANYONE Me, having not watched shit in months: lmao manipulation go brr

I actually have little idea of what's happened in DSMP, might spend summer break catching up, who knows

y'all freakin out about Wil, Tommy, and Quackity when I'm over here being impressed and lowkey scared of the gambling system Quackity has. what the fuck was that digging noise and why were there so many zombie noises when they entered it.

was the digging noise Foolish bc i saw his name as ppl on the server and he wasn't live but I could be wrong and he could just be grinding off screen but it's also very suspicious and I don't trust anything rn

ALSO MUCH FEAR OF THE STRIPPER PLACE WHY BIG Q WHY IS THIS TO COPE FOR YOUR HUSBANDS LEAVING YOU PLEASE

hehehe friends to enemies to lovers Quackity x Wilbur slowburn lmao don't take this seriously fanfic writers I see you do not write this-

noticed how Wilbur can't stand to have people be on the same level as him and even demanded Tommy get below him mom pick me up im scared

imagining Tommy just dragging Wil with him to a session with Puffy and it's just Puffy: okay, so- Wilbur: *launches a speech about how he's changed and Dream is his hero and how he wants to apologize for what he's done* Puffy: ... Tommy, in tears: please help him

I WAS ROCKING MYSELF IN MY CHAIR WHILE WILBUR AND QUACKITY FOUGHT OVER WHO HAD MANIPULATED AND HURT TOMMY WORSE but then I remembered they were fighting on a stone d!ck with dirt for hair and I laugh

when Wilbur brought up the fiances and Quackity just ignored it </3

so much lore, not enough brain space to process it

Quackity, Wilbur, and Tommy give off older brother and his friend messing with younger brother while also hating each other, yes or yes

in other words, great job to the three of them, enjoyed the stream and can't wait to see what comes

[anothermouse]

Getcha oc talks ⬇️

Hi I'm gonna ramble abt the hunters cast bcus I'm not thinkin abt any particular story rn and they're my default

Gabby really loves older music, her mom let her have her record player and records since she doesn't use them anymore and that's basically where gabby gets all her music from. She only was allowed to get a phone like the year hunters started, so before that she'd just dance around her room with her records :)

Genny is actually a fairly chill person in her day to day life, she's just like hash and peter in that hunters pushes her way out of her comfort zone, revealing parts of her personality that aren't normally present! I mean genny is still internally very irritable irl and will kill someone if they fuck with her son, but generally she's more aggressive in hunters than her normal life just bcus she's in high stakes situations and thus feels way more obligated to make everything go right

Genny reminded me of the neighborhood so I'm pivoting to that now sorry I'm easily distracted 💀

Tol and jay both have aspd which means no empathy or guilt biatch. Most ppl wouldn't really guess with Jay, hes masking 90% of the time bcus he needs attention and to be liked (not that this is a bad thing, bein good is bein good no matter what the motive! :D) but he does have a general distaste for doing things because he's told to

Tol also needs him attention but he mostly gets it by fuckin yelling and shit lol. He's a good pal tho, he's TRYING to be a good friend even if he sometimes doesn't exactly understand ppls feelings

Mm I'd u want me to ramble at u more u can ask but I feel like I'm typing too much ummum yeah 💀 I have a chart about not a word worldbuilding I could show u if u want, it's p simple but I didn't think to have that be the first thing I shared since u asked for oc stuff not worldbuilding lol

Edit: BTW THIS IS JAY,,, srry I forgot u don't know my ocs names gagsgsgsgas I'm gonna hope u know the other 3 tho if not I am sorry 💀

Ogghh my fucking b o d y