#i would genuinely put money on those unnecessarily terrifying guides forcing at least one person back into the closet

[neproxrezi]

time for a new battle with the algorithm: watched a video or two on trans girl voice and youtube has decided i must be freshly trans or something and the recs it's giving me are just reminding me, no disrespect but god i hate how some people talk about like socially transitioning and all the little things you Have To Do to pass

when i was brand new to this whole thing i got so anxious about having a feminine gait i fucked up my hips trying to force it and one of them started dislocating when i walked, because all these guides are like 'you have to swing your hips when you walk and you need to piss into the bowl so nobody in public bathrooms can Hear Your Cocks Presence' (not making this one up it said you'd get attacked if someone heard you pissing like a man) and its just like. some of these guides create so much unnecessary fucking anxiety for new trans people. its fine. itll be okay