#i will add that Nihaar and Aryung (my favorite OCs. currently neglected) have a fun age gap lmao. (and older F which is rarer in stories)
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This is a bit aside from the actual topic but the way this poll is set up, with "the two on top" and "the three on top' as options distinct from simply voting for the second or third choice, implies something really funny to me.
It means that hypothetically the only reason you would vote for the second option is if you thought 4-6 years was okay but 1-3 years wasn't okay (because otherwise, you'd be expected to pick 'the two options on top' to cover both ranges, instead of picking '4-6 years'.) Likewise, if you voted option three it would be because you thought 7-10 years was okay but 1-6 years wasn't (because otherwise, you would pick 'all three options on top'). That's very funny. I have to assume people voting for those options didn't interpret the poll as such, because there's no way there are people saying "ugh, I can do a four year age gap but a three year one, no!!!"
As to the actual topic, gotta shout out one of the best replies on here being the one from @chiisana-sukima saying "If what you're worried about is what kind of fictional age gap your current friends would judge you for though, unfortunately no one can answer that except those friends. And that is entirely about their maturity."
Note from Anon:
“Please say your opinion in the tags! I’m asking cuz I have two oc ships and I’m afraid that the age differences might be a problem, the first is a 28 year old x a 31 year old the other is a 41 year old x a 46 year old.”
-submit your poll!-
#anyway. question submitting anon: you are FINE. it's FINE. my parents have more of an age gap than either of your couples lol#re my own work : i considered elaborating on some of my WaBe and BeVu age gap thoughts in these tags#but i'm not sure i like the over-under on a random person coming along and actually declaring any of them problematic lmao#(i can elaborate if any fellow sage ship enjoyers are sincerely curious though)#i will add that Nihaar and Aryung (my favorite OCs. currently neglected) have a fun age gap lmao. (and older F which is rarer in stories)#(Nihaar is bad at gender but distinctly masc and Aryung is definitely a woman so i'm counting it as roughly analogous to older F/younger M.#they're both well beyond the human life span (Nihaar is a fucked up undead human and Aryung is just a normally-middle-aged elf)#Aryung is significantly older. i forget exactly what i had decided but it's about fifty years.#nonmagically they might map onto like someone in his early 30s dating a woman in her mid 40s#oh this post reminded me i saw someone complaining that KabuMisu was 'like if someone in their 20s dated their mom's 38 year old coworker'#and guess what. guess what. babe. that is Allowed actually
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