#i was like oh my goddh...i thought i knew better
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looking thru old stuff finds like ..ok people lost interest in my stuff & wouldnt engage in it & i expressed my sadness with that & looking thru i realize why i started to dislike it it was cuz like...looking thru old stuff my friends WERE engaged...so i wonder wat happened. like idk what variable changed iti couldve been me or them who knows! time, boredom, being more vague, idk..ill never really know cuz i can only look thru old stuff that i have like (like my server). its just a little sad cuz i kept wondering why i missed these friends but i was like oh i miss them for what they used to be. & whatever reason they changed sucks whether it was my fault or the environment or social reason etc etc. i feel like my delusion probably did not help & at least partly led to the alienation which sux...i already feel rly lonely with whatever i have. not gonna use labels cuz idk what it is. but even when hes with me all the time it can still feel hollow sometimes. & people leave because they dont understand or theyre scared etc etc. it just kinda proves a point that i cant be open about whats happening to me cuz its scary to people. except maybe my partner who lacks a lot of judgment for not only me but for like everyone which i envy a lot i wish i could look at ppl neutrally like that. but i still feel guilt over this stupid thing i cant control & it sux cuz its not as easy as just ..stopping it (which idk how i would even do) i also need to tackle issues around it like how im like if i lose him i will die so like how can i be at a point where if i did theoretically did lose him i wouldnt feel so lost & miserable. im struggling to get back to therapy cuz i lack a lot of the tiime & im kind of in this era where im like if . i just ignore it. i can be normal!!! (my panic attacks have been increasing oops.
#i like..i wish i could go back & read al lthe interactions cuz i want to study the conversations#ermmm average communication studies major#no but rly ii wanna go back & criticize what i said#like omfg i found this screenshot of me where i said “i apologize if i” & i was like NOOOOO. I did the notorious cringe fail apology#IT WAS THIS YEAR TOO#i was like oh my goddh...i thought i knew better#(sick green emoji)#stuff liek that...#i know i said sooo much wrong#omfg. i can be a rly passive aggressive/aggressive bitch!!!#so i like looking back on stuff i did & critiquing it so i know what to do better next time#but it sux when ....i have very little of it#im like i get rreally um..“respectful”?? or i try to be of priavcy to like a kind of compulsive degree#where im like ok i know this is wrong but im not gonna screenshot cuz they deserve their privacy#but now im like ughhh idk what i said or someone said cuz my memory is bad & i dont wanna make up lies in my head about others or myself#i dont wanna be like “well i didnt do this!” if i did! or “they did this” if they didnt i think thats understandable#but bad memory. unfortunately i think i just need to get better about...gathering screenshots. ugh#idk. i feel horrible about. feels like im just building a storage of blackmail & it feels wrong. like i thought they were my friends & we#used to be but even though it was inevitable & slowly happening & it didnt come out of nowhere i dont think i really noticed it was going t#happen until it was too late#oh well....i know i did something wrong ill just have to think about it based on the stuff i have. & i know some unfortunate stuff happened#to me too so i still only have what i have#im not interesting in making this public call out material ii just wanted it for my personal improvement & to use in therapy so ya#GLOOMY.TXT#HOKO.EXE#11/07/2023
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