#i totally understand ur frustration idk how many posts i’ve lost due to a glitch

[throwawayasoiafaccount]

Hi this is my main account. It’s my sideblog you blocked, daenerysstormreborn, not my main. Or at least I think you did because I tried to start a response to you on my post re: Rhaegar and Elia and why people talk about Rhaegar’s role in her death versus Tywin, Amory, and Gregor. Maybe it was an actual tumblr glitch and not really being blocked but I started a response and when I tried to save it as a draft, I got the post failed notification, which is usually a sign of being blocked. Which was surprising because you also said you liked the post and respected the neutral tone (and I do try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt! I understand why Rhaegar fans would be frustrated if they only saw him being villainized when, between him, Aerys, Tywin, Gregor, and Amory, he is the LEAST responsible for the deaths of Elia and her kids). So maybe it was actually a tumblr glitch but I didn’t want to test it because it’s frustrating to write up a long response, try to reblog or save a draft, and then find out you’ve been blocked and thus lose literally everything you wrote.

You made great points and I thought you were very fair! I wish people could debate more in this fandom with respect for each other. I follow many different blogs that post things I don’t always agree with. Some even hate characters and ships I love or love characters and ships I hate! As long as a blogger shares SOME favorites and posts SOME things I like and agree with, I like to engage to get a good diversity of opinions and interpretations of things!

i thought you were talking about ur main bc i haven’t blocked ur sideblog. i’ll have to check my settings to see if i have something switched off 🤔

tbh i rarely encounter people who at least attempt to discuss rhaegar in a meaningful manner so i’m quite happy that you’ve taken the time to try to work around whatever’s going on with the reblogs.

i said this before, but i’m more of a blocker myself (mostly for my mental health), however, i really respect your decision to engage with more points of view :)