#i think my friend is also bisexual aswell??

[toutallyahoe]

I have a question:

Why are you gay?

because being straight is boring af /j

[holycrimin]

Hi!! Since it's pride month, i'm gunna be sharing my ninjago character hcs! :)

Kai

-He/him, is trying to experiment with they/them pronouns aswell

-Bisexual with a lean towards women, thought he was straight then realized he also liked men and other genders aswell

-Cisgender and incredibly supportive of transgender people

-will gladly kick and/or punch a homphobe/transphobe

Nya

-She/they queen

-DemiAce (Demiromantic Asexual) she didn't have a lot of friends growing up, which in turn also means she never really crushed on anyone aswell.

-thought they were Aromantic for a while until she looked it up on google and went "OHHH"

-Demigirl, and just like her brother, they will gladly kick and/or punch a homophobe/transphobe in the face.

Cole

-He/him/all, he prefers he/him but can go with any pronouns really

-Gay. I think a lot of us agree on that one

-Didn't have any crushes on girls but somehow didn't connect the dots until he was like 15-16

-Alot of internalised homophobia at first because he was scared his dad was going to be disappointed in him, he wasn't but Cole was still scared

-Idk but he's definitely not cis, maybe agender or non-binary?

Jay

-He/him

-pansexual, he does not give two shits

-growing up, he had a LOT of crushes like i mean a LOT, on boys, girls, androgynous people, just.. everyone really

-Ed and Edna just accepted it and even encouraged him to be whoever he was.

-speaking of which, he's transmasc. Idk why it just makes sense

-Had a "i'm not like other girls" phase, then turns out he wasn't a girl at all

-Is on T and had top surgery between S7 and S8

Zane

-He/they/it

-Panromantic Asexual, it just makes sense man

-When they met their father, he asked if it was normal for him to feel attraction at all

-ofc It's dad said yes, then they had an hour long conversation about attraction, the LGBTQ+ community, etc.

-Agender. It was built as a man, but since learning about LGBT stuff, he's found an identity he was comfortable with.

-also they made like.. little metal plates resembling a female and male chest just incase dysphoria hits

Pixal

-Goes by all pronouns

-Greyromantic Asexual, never thought he could ever experience attraction then Zane came along and he was like "uh oh i think i'm inlove"

-wasn't sure what it was at first, human emotions were confusing for her at the time.

-They eventually learned over time and she's proud of who she is.

-They're also Agender, not for the same reason Zane was, though. She was actually supposed to be an androgynous android, but then decided it would rather have a more feminine body, voice, face, etc.

-His father, Cyrus Borg, just kinda went "Okay whatever you want sweetie :)"

-if dysphoria ever hits, she just uses the different breastplates her father made.

Lloyd

-He/It, he just likes it

-demiromantic asexual, thought he was straight his whole life then he found out about the Aromantic and Asexual spectrum

-it told its mother and she was like "that's great honey, do you wanna drink some tea now?"

-was genuinely surprised she didn't have a reaction at all even though he hyped himself up the night prior its coming out, and also practiced in the mirror in which the others overheard and now he denies it ever happening

-he found out like.. way after his dad kinda yknow.. 💀.. so obviously he literally couldnt tell him

-Transmasc. Bc i'm transmasc and I say so.

-he has indeed beat up a transphobe/homophobe before. Multiple times, actually.

[aroaceconfessions]

So I’m abroromantic (which I’m not sure if it’s classified as part of the aspec but sometimes I’m aro) and ace. I’m out to my mum & stepdad, and my friends, and most of my class and my brother and possibly my stepsister know I’m some part of the lgbt community they just don’t know what, and my grandma on my mums side knows I’m ace coz mum accidentally outed me (but it’s fine coz I don’t mind abt her knowing there just hadn’t been a chance to bring it up previously soooo)

the thing is, my dad is a sexist mysoginistic piece of shit who has put me, my mum, and (a lot more mildly) my brother through a lot of emotional trauma, and I wouldn’t be surprised if he was homophobic aswell. But when I asked him what he thought about the LGBTQIAP+ community, he was being really cryptic. So then I was like ‘well what if theoretically I was to come out to you rn as bi’ and then he’s all like ‘well theoretically ur not old enough to know if ur bisexual yet’ like wtf is that supposed to mean I need an answer here honestly dude. He has watched a few shows/ movies that have some side gay characters in them, but it’s litterally just gay men, like no variety, and he could just be putting up with it coz he likes the show, or he could just b aphobic or any other type of LGBTQIAP+ phobic.

it’s really killing me that I don’t know because I want to be out to him because honestly if u don’t accept me for who I am bitch u can fuck of, and I don’t really care if he accepts me or not I’ll just go live at mums but the thing is I’d have to be here (at his place) to do it. Now that shouldn’t be a problem, but he’s so fucking scary. Like he’s so much bigger then me and like he could probably kill me with his bare hands if he wanted to especially because I have a disability which causes health problems. Ik that he probably wouldn’t hurt me physically and that in the few years he was with mum he never actually hit her but it was still a really bad relationship and he’s just so physically imposing and I am genuinely scared of him, especially since we already don’t have a very good relationship.

But my mums also been going through a lot recently, she just came out a major surgery a few days ago, and submitted her thesis and finished her honours degree a few days before that, and has her own mental health problems. And my stepdad also has some of his own stuff and on top of that is trying to support all of us (not necessarily financially, mum works aswell, but just like emotionally), and I think it’s really hard for him, my stepsisters mum is also tricky to deal with along with my dad and then he’s helping mum and my stepsister has some anger stuff and will just start yelling her face off at anyone for the slightest thing one moment, and then she’s all cupcakes and rainbows the next, and all my disability and stuff is quite new to him, like I’ve known him less then half of my life, so he does try to help out and stuff but sometimes he just has to step backs and leave that to mum which is hard on her and neither of them really need to deal with an extra angry dad atm so that’s another reason I don’t rlly want to come out to him rn but I do at the same time and I don’t want to ask them for help because they already have so much on their plates.

help, anyone?

[glamoureddreamer]

Hiya ♡⸝⸝

Im here to request two matchups!

I would like to request a matchup from Spooky Month and Eddsworld

Sorry if I have to much information in this I kinda got carried away ^^’

Here’s the rundown of me:

- Starting with the basics I prefer to go by she/her pronouns and I am a bisexual who is open to being in poly relationships

- My personality type is infp and I’m a capricorn sagittarius cusp

- Im Hispanic and I have some chub and am also smaller then average (I’m 4’11)

- I smell like strawberry pound cake 24/7 because I am in love with it (this is not sponsored by bath and body works I swear TT)

-I like pink an unhealthy amount

More in-depth look into my personality:

An introvert who has the skills to socialize but doesn’t use them cause they have a low battery when it comes to interacting with others. I’m rather dramatic or eccentric when speaking to those I feel more comfortable around but to others I look like I’m constantly annoyed due to my natural resting bitch face- if anyone does desire to talk to me though I am rather nice and lively in conversations! (Might just be confused why you’re talking to me though)

I am very in tune with others around me or someone that I know and can tell most of the time how they feel just by looking at them.

Affectionate (in my own way) and talkative are two words I would describe myself in any relationship (platonic or romantic)

Side note; I do struggle with clinic depression, anxiety, along with ADHD as well

Small quirks about me:

- I curse often

- Mainly active at night

- I am generally louder then most others

- I like to give people nicknames so I can remember them easier

- I mostly talk in all caps over text most of the time

- I threaten and be mean to people in a loving way/ out of love (goes for friendship and probably a relationship if I know they can handle it)

- I like my alone time

The bad about me:

I self isolate myself a lot from others and am generally bad at keeping communication with someone even if I like them or consider them a friend.

Low self esteem is something I struggle with and the biggest factor behind it being I don’t consider myself good enough.

Even though I am rather ambitious in life and want to do a lot of things but my depression drags me down for having any motivation to do them- which just leads to me doing nothing.

I tend to overthinking a lot

I have a very pessimistic and cynical way of thinking but it doesn’t come out much

Interest and hobbies:

There isn’t a lot I do in terms of hobbies but I do like to draw! Small doodles are usually my go to but I am trying to get better at anatomy so I am practicing that

I like to read aswell (manga, comics, and books in general) but I don’t think that’s a really interesting hobby

Singing is another thing I enjoy doing and I’m hoping to do something more with my voice in the future!

I really want to take on more hobbies in the future so I can actually do something in my free time TT

My interests are harajuku fashion, Sanrio, animation, stationary, picrew, baking, anything cute, nail art, plushies, cats, anything pink, calming video games, selfcare, dresses, singing, abandoned places, coloring, anime, makeup, history, witchcraft, learning more about myself, dark media, magical girls, writing, cafes, shopping, and flowers

Here are some of my kins if that can help you! ˊᗜˋ

Toast (Bee and Puppycat)

Sayaka Miki (Madoka Magica)

Vanellope Von Schweetz (Wreck it Ralph)

Mabel Pines (Gravity Falls)

Karen (Mean Girls)

I hope you still enjoy despite the minor inconvenience this was really fun to write! Thank you for the request

For Eddsworld I match you with EDD!

Edd is the type of man to love you no matter what shape/size you are he thinks you are perfect just the way you are. He doesn’t mind that you are bisexual he’s definitely not straight himself (e.g. him calling Tom hot). He will joke with you about your height though- in a playful way. If you are insecure or you start to get upset he will stop it immediately with lots of apologies.

While doesn’t completely understand why you run out of social battery he does know that it’s emotionally overwhelming so he would take you to your comfort place and make sure you have everything you need to recharge- if you want him to stay there he would be more than willing to cuddle you and just hang out doing whatever you want, but if you want alone time he also completely understands and leaves you alone (of course checking in on you every 10 minutes). Edd would be extremely happy and honored when you are dramatic around him, the thought of you being yourself around him because you trust him makes him very happy. Edd fully understands that just because you have an RBF doesn’t always mean you are mad (thanks to Tom).

Edd is also the time of man to hold you tightly during the days when everything is too much, he’d whisper sweet nothings into your ear and words of affirmation as a way of comfort. He’d also get you anything you’d like! You need candies? You bet. Need another drink? He’s already on it! He cares a lot for you and your mental health. Edd is a kind individual and definitely has his own type of humor and form of love (both platonic and romantic) Edd is rude to his friends but always cares about them in the end.

Prepare for a lot of teasing if you pick on him he’s going to do it back, but like stated before if you actually get upset he apologizes and stops. Edd wouldn’t understand at first why you are not talking to him and so you’ll probably have to explain it to him.

At that point, he’d tell you that it’s okay and that you don’t have to talk if you don’t want to. He will totally! And I mean totally draw you often, especially if you have low self-esteem about your body, and if it’s about you and your personality he’ll leave sticky notes all over the place with small words of affirmation or sweet little reminders like “you are more than good enough” “there’s always a bright side” “I love you more than anything” living with him will totally help with your motivation. He won’t allow you to sit around all day if you wanted to do something the day before he’s taking you to do it. But he does understand that sometimes you need a day off and will take that day off with you to cuddle and relax.

I think you two would totally bond over drawing and if you want to get better he will be more than happy to help you! He will totally listen to you sing! If you love it he’ll take interest in it, even if it’s just you talking about it. The same with reading he’ll constantly ask what you are reading and what it’s about.

Yes- you two will totally bond over animation, baking, cats, and coloring he loves and lives for anything to do art and crafts. If you bake he totally is trying everything or asking you to make him things. If you don’t bake he finds a baking book and plans dates where you to can try together.

Will let you try makeup and nail art on him but nothing too over the top. Will love to take you shopping for clothes, he loves to watch you come out of the changing rooms with a big smile on your face when you find something you love!

Overall I think he would be your perfect match because he is very kind and caring but is also playful/childish and loud. You two will never run out of things to do with each other. Edd will always take joy in the things you do and will always be willing to try things for or with you!

[no1monstersimp]

Salty ask list number 16

Thank you for the ask!

There are some things I would change, more specifically just small things I think that annoy me.

Some of these are probably controversial, but it's just what I think so no one take offense please!💕

Darkshine

For one, I would definitely want to change Darkshine's backstory. I know it's not intended to be racist, but it honestly does come off that way. I think the English voice actor chosen makes it worse too. The thing is, he's not a bad character, in the aspect that he's a cool guy honestly. He seems to genuinely care about Garou when the rubble of the MA starts to fall, even after what he did to the heros. He's an inspiration for other heros like Mizuki, encouraging others. The backstory just kinda makes it hard for me to like him, and it's really sad...

Kama

The other thing that annoys me is misgendering Kama. Some have said it's a translation error in the manga, however, in the "Going Fishing With Middle-aged Men" OVA, Atomic refers to Kama as "he". They even call her "Queer Blade" in the Sub version, instead of Okamaitachi. It erases her as being trans, and instead makes viewers think she is a gay man in drag. This is where most of the discourse came from a few years back and still today.

It just annoys me tbh. Especially when Iai and Bushi do it aswell, because it's just off to me. They're her friends, so I would think they wouldn't misgender her. Even Atomic doing it weirds me out. I can appreciate they haven't done anything stereotypical with her or mocking, I think she's very beautiful and funny, I love her character. I suppose that's why it gets to me so much.

Puri Puri

Puri Puri annoys me too, he's just a character I can't like at all if I'm being honest. The stereotype is just...eh. The only things I like that he did was let Maiko and EC Man live, also him motivating Darkshine into not giving up with Amai. It was a wholesome moment that I loved from them both.

LGBT Rep

And the last thing I obviously would change if I could, I would make some of the ships I like cannon. I wish there was other gay rep besides Puri. It's implied, to me, that there are some gay couples but they aren't said outright. Such as Golden Ball and Spring Moustachio aren't outright said to be dating, but there are moments I think would suggest it. There are many duos like that too. DO-S also seems to be bisexual, she clearly has an attraction to both Amai and Fubuki, imo.

Sorry if anyone gets upset over these, but I especially had the Darkshine one stuck in my brain, thinking if I should even say anything about it. It's been discussed before so it's nothing new, along with most of what I said.

[antiresperidoneclub]

i havent posted anything in awhile but happy pride month yall! and, very much in me fashion imma take this time ta make another informational post! this installment is called

why assimilation is overall harmful to the queer community + the damage of pseudo-right wing ideas spread thruout the trans community!

CW: queerphobia, transmedicalism, bl*ir wh*te, k*lvin g*rrah, violence against queer ppl.

so, where do we start?

assimilation, what is it?

assimilation is a deliberate effort made by a minority/ marginalized group to (instead of become free) join the majority/privledged, which is wildly more accesible ta abled nuerotypical cis white lgb folks.

now, how does that apply ta th queer community? before that, we hafta look at th stark distinction between th LGBT community and th QUEER community.

because sadly its now different

imma make this as short as possible but basically,

despite its intentions when it was formed decades ago, th LGBT communiy an th way it functions is percieved is different. case in point, th term LGBT has been heavily gentrified and commodified especially by corporations tryina sell it to non-lgbt audiences. youll notice a majority of LGBT voices an advocates are usually white cis lgb ppls or are assimilationists. th term LGBT aswell has been heavily diluted and decontexualized from its roots, such as fightin for rights wit riots an demonstrations, bein heavily tied wit black an indigenous liberation, socialist ideals and memorializing th struggle for our freedom. its also (as apart of its gentrification) is bein forced ta be more 'family friendly' in an effort of control an ta make cash off of us an further assimilate us.

the QUEER community is a somewhat niche nowadays as it sticks fairly close ta th original goals as th LGBT community once had. such as wantin an willin ta fight for liberation rather than succumb ta assimilation. its also seen as a threat as it directly challenges th authority (capitlism, cops/military, goverment, white supremacy, fascism) for its mistreatment an oppresion against queer ppl and other marginalized groups. if th LGBT community is th privledged assimilations that can be proffited off of, then th queer community is more alike 'outcasts' or 'rejects' that arent as palatable ta a cishet majority ie; trans women/ trans/queer ppls of colour, more radicalized queer folks, or those impoverished.

so, with that said, how has/does assimilation harm queer ppl?

as i said, assimilation is disspraportionatly accesible ta able-bodied, neurotypical, cis, non-poor white LGB ppls (shocker) meaning th majority of queer poc, trans people, impoverished, and diasbaled/neurodivergent folks get left behind and continuosly stomped on in an attempt ta eradicate us. and it should be noted theres 2 types of assimilation

1. forced assimilation; forced assimilation is where marginalized ppls thru cultural eradication/genocide r forced ta strip themselves of their identity an join th majority which results in oppresion, discrimination, an further erasure of th ppls themselves. this is heavily seen within th queer community wit th AIDS crisis where those who survived were later branded as 'brave' by th very system that sought their demise in th first place, leavin our community in shambles.

2. chosen assimilation; chosen assimilation is where usually a small group/ or a singular person will disregard their people in an a attempt ta be spared from oppresion or discrimination. in terms of queer ppl (especially trans folks) th main contendors r blair white, kalvin garrah, an buck angel. blair is a stellar example of attempted assimilation. she not only rejetcs, but constantly puts her own people on blast publicly ta her audince of white cishet conservatives an (more often than not) fascists. not only that but she deliberatly associates wit th very ppl who seek her erasure an oppresion in an assbackwards attempt at salvation. more concrete examples include 1. showin herself as 'one of th good ones' or 'normal' 2. acting as if shes cishet 3. constantly self-hating ta appease those mentioned above 4. spewing dangerous an misinormed rhetoric aimed at trans ppls which directly affects trans poc an non-passing trans women. next, kalvin garrah. i was gonna write a whole thing on him but instead ill (below) link copshatemoe's videos about him.

so, now that we know how assimilation both forced an personal harms queer ppls in general, what about trans ppls an th trans community?

transmedicalism and its disasterous effects towards the trans community.

transmedicalism is a belif system of sorts that follows ideals such as

beliving trans ppls must be suffering from dysphoria to be trans

a trans person must want to transition to be trans

being trans is a mental illness/ neurological condition/ birth defect cause by unbalanced horomone levels or th existence of "male and female brains"

belivies HRT or surgerys are a 'cure' for dysphoria/ 'transness'

that neopronouns or non-lesbian, gay, bisexual, or binary trans folks are invalid or 'wannabes' who see th "lgbt community as a club of sorts to join jus because"

borderline or blatant rascist, transmysoginistic, ableist rhetoric.

intentional or not, that assimilation is key an becomin 'as close ta bein cis as possible' is th goal of transition.

now, i could spend ages rantin about how these belifs are blatently wrong but however rather than disecting them lets jus go over th direct harm these belifs have caused th trans community.

lets start wit nonbinary folks. nowadays as ive seen transmedicalism has become more open ta acceptin nonbinary folks but regardless they were one of th first punchin bags. since bein nonbinary in any facet isnt exactly 'medically sustained' its already seen as bullshit, but past that it opens th gates for neoprounouns an non-convetional identitys. enby ppls would be attacked constantly or called "trenders" in an attempt ta discourage them from even existing. this 'highschool bully' type of mentality along wit th superiority complex behind transmedicalism created a stark divide between "normal" trans ppls an th "weirdo, faker" trans ppls. not only did these attacks further stigmatize an already oppresed minority but also forced ppl ta hide themselves from they own community ta avoid ridicule an bullying. this type of harrasment has left these ppls wit trauma an fear of they identity bein challenged not only online but also in IRL queer spaces while they already hafta stay hypervigilant around cis ppl, now it seems th same around binary trans folks. not only have nonbinary ppls have been impacted however, binary trans ppls were left wit insecurities, wonderin if they dysphoria is 'rlly that bad compared ta others' and worrying about things they usually didnt care about. probably th biggest of those is 'passing'. passing is th action of looking as cis as possible ta blend in an avoid general treatments sustained by cishet ppls. i as a transwomen was directly affected by this rhetoric which caused me years of my transition spent not becomin myself, but becomin as close ta a cis girl as possible. this lead me ta become embarresed by my own community also factored in by havin virtually no trans friends IRL. this was th shared experince of many binary trans folks an nonbinary trans folks i know an am friends with. in conclusion, transmedicalsim has not only ostrasized an traumatized queer folks, but has also left insecurities an damage ta binaty trans folks aswell.

so, with that in mind, how do we combat, well, all of this an much more?

liberation

liberation is th action of freeing a marginalized group from its oppresive chains. an how would this look/work for th queer community?

majority of cishet ppls think that queer liberation ended wit marriage equality but thats very much not true. multiple basic human freedoms have been stripped from not only cis lgb queers but also trans people aswell. rights such as affordable housing witout discrimination, medical options for trans people being completly accesible or downright free, safe spaces or areas where were able ta exist free of fear of persecution or discrimination, better healthcare treatment towards queer ppl, things sometimes neccisary ta ones transition bein more accesible such as name/document changes, and many more things. but remember, none of this is possible witout ingigenous liberation/land back, black liberation, or under capitlism

anyways, i have 0 way ta end this so happy pride month an a very happy juneteenth!! if ur black ur more than welcome ta leave any gofundmes, cashapps, venmos etc in th notes or reblogs!

also, if you have any additions or points/topics i shouldve made or covered pls reblog wit them!

-alexis

[harleyluvhorror142]

Random Van Helseing(2004) Theory (Van Helseing is bisexual or pan)

Right so i have been watching Van helseing again and when i was young i always seen it as a great flim which i still do even though it has it silly moments and not really base off the book it one of thoses horror flims that are very guilty pleasure so bad it good and enjoyable i love Hugh Jackman performance was brilliant as Van Helseing and yes very handsome with his longish hair and the other actors are amazing just sad that the like of anna chachter seem tough but she still was used as a damsel in distress but it was back in the 200s they still made woman look like girlbosses but they still were place as they could handle themself but half the time they don’t but if Van Helseing was made now then i think Anna would be more a strong woman that won’t take shit from anyone and can save herself without a man i would love to see a new version of this van helseing flim but again it was under one of the worst flims so this flim was underrated but i have watch it like 4 times because i enjoy it right now :)

Anyways getting to the point i am going to speak about Gabriel Van Helseing and his relenship with his friends that he gose with on his hunt and journey to stop Dracula and also to hint at that he is a pansexual chachter even though it nice to have these theory unlike in 2004 when i was still young at the point i knew nothing about LGBT stuff or even noticing chachters sexuality even if it cannon or none cannon.

1. He has a close friend Carl who he respects and get along well with eatchother both holy men even though Van Helseing is a bounty hunter and Carl is a friar which means he can still swear ect but this was the first time i notice Van Helseing was some what bisexual i mean he seem happy around Carl and he also got kinda playful with him so he likes teasing Carl now and then true he got angery as the wolf in him choke Carl but he said sorry to him and he appreciate Carl work true these two are more like close brothers but to me i feel like Van helseing saw Carl as a very close friend p.s this duo live to the end of the flim .

2. Now here the big one of them all we see more of Van helseing care side when he meets Frankenstein he stops anna from killing him trying to convince her that this man creature is not evil then he says sorry to him before putting him in hideing then of course the scene were Dracula finds him by god do you see the pain and shock on Van helseing face seeing his new friend get captured which you can feel the failure on Van’s face. Then when he see Frankenstein monster on the boat getting taking away to Castel Dracula there no words Van helseing just see him swims up to try and save him (Which he failed catching up to him) 

But anyways when the gates gose down to block his way he shouts out “I’ll find you I’ll set you free i swear to god” as he slams his hand on the gate this made me kinda slightly go (awwe this man is sweet risking his life to save a monster that misunderstood ) he get angery when carl tell him there boss roman says that Frankenstein has to die aswell and this make Van helseing angery thinking that it cruel how there judging this man and want to just kill him instead of a trail so yeah van helseing felt so piss off about this he now had more reason to save him and set him free. Then that scene were he dose save him calling him “My friends are doing it for me” which Frankenstein says “ Friends” and Van helseing that he can be his friend “ Yes you want one” telling him that he cares for Frankenstein and see him as a friend but i mean come one every scene van helseing has so much care for this so called monster then he ever did with other ones he met i mean no offense but i feel like he had more chemistry with Carl and Frankenstein then Anna (The true love interest ) 

3. I have no hate towards Anna x Van helseing or the chachter herself because i think she amazing just that it a let down how the flim make her look strong and girlboss but throughout the movie she always get her ass saved by Van helseing or even Frankenstein at the end of the flim and also we kinda knew she would die with that one quick kiss she gives to Van helseing to me it was more of good luck and do not get killed because i feel like van helseing did love this woman but maybe he also did with his other friends it just that again back in the 18th century it was hard for men to express there sexuality out loud since it was seen as gross or even worse same with woman if you want to see more of what i mean play assassins creed syndicate a chachter named jacob frye he was cannon as bisexual but us the viewers could see he had that bi vibe going and that he was bisexual but the chachter himself since it was during the 18th century he would keep it hidden and probbly only tell his sister so yeah van helseing may of kissed Anna  but it dose not mean he might not have feelings for men since in the end we do not know what his furture will be because i really dislike when people think that if a male chachter is with a woman first it mean there full on straight now when it like uh no just because you bisexual and you date a other gender or even the same gender dose not mean your now straight or now gay p,s i could go on all day about this but anyways overall.

I see Van Helseing as bisexual or even pansexual since to me he loves all his friends all three of them (Carl/Anna/Frankenstein ) he fight to keep his two boyfriends and girlfriend safe XD X3 

[mayabruhbruh]

Stranger Things 4 Analysis and Theory

I don’t know if anyone else has done posts on this stuff yet (it’s really likely, but i’d not want to take the credit if i’m not the only one who’s thought of this)

I know @kaypeace21 has made tons of posts on the s4 movies from Video Store Friday, and many others have theories and analyses, but back in July I took it upon myself to research more into the very last few scenes of s3. Specifically the three months later time stamp, where Steve and Robin are in search for a new job.

My main focus was the four movies that they mentioned for Keith at the counter. “Animal House”, “The Hidden Fortress”, “Children Of Paradise”, and “The Apartment”.

(reminder that if you read this, it could be spoilers for the final cut of the actual show if i end up being correct about some of this, so read at your own risk)

My first theory, which I’ve already discussed in a separate reblog, is about The Hellfire Club. But i’ll say it here too.

Basically,

(sorry for the sucky quality)

Animal House is about two awkward freshmen going into college and joining a fraternity of rejects. It matches Mike, Dustin and the Hellfire Club perfectly! Personally, my lowkey theory is that they’re going to have to go though an entirety of initiation activities (possibly drugs too, if what we’ve heard is correct) and Lucas and Max will be in their own storylines up until the supernatural threat brings them back together again. This could be wayy off, but still its my idea.

As for Max and Lucas...

I’m not sure about the entirety of the plot of this movie, but the last line sounds a lot like something that would happen between Lumax. Lucas is a basketball jock now, I think that’s crystal clear now seeing from the Pep Rally poster, and how he’s always been the one in the group to be able to mask his nerdy side. For Dustin and Mike, I know it’s much harder for them. Anyways, Max, I’m pretty positive by now, is going to be extremely distant and defensive from everyone just like she was in the beginning of s2, since she just had a big change happening in her life. It’s the same now, except with the grief and loss of Billy. My guess, from the hints of this movie and other stuff, is that Lucas is going to come face to face with his reputation as a popular kid, and his love for Max. Like the summary says, he must decide between the advancement of his career or the girl that he loves. Real hard hitting stuff.

Onto the next one. MIKE WHEELER. (or will byers)

I watched an analysis video on this movie, because I haven’t seen it yet, but again the very last line is what I’d like to focus on.

My. Jaw. Dropped.

I’ve read many analyses of Mike Wheeler being gay (courtesy of @kaypeace21 @hawkinsschoolcounselor and MANY others), but I dunno, I was always just so skeptical no matter how much it made sense. But when I saw this WHAT THE HELL?!?’);/&? It’s stupid of me to not have believed it sooner, but I hope this is the movie that foreshadows Mike’s storyline this season. I’m assuming Mike will have to “prove his expertise in battle”, or perhaps prove he can go through with all of the initiation shit for The Hellfire Club, while hiding his growing revelation that he might be gay/bisexual.

BUT a possibly more likely scenario would be that this movie connects with Will Byers’ storyline this season instead. Perhaps the hardships of a new school and a new town has Will shaken up, and he also has his sexuality awakening that he has to hide from new people. I say that it’s more likely for him, because Will has always been more heavily queer-coded (not exactly heavier, but just extremely much more apparent and obvious opposed to Mikes queercoded subtext that we really had to dig for).

I also didn’t mention this in my reblog from earlier, but I want to address my opinions on the apparent cheerleader that meets Mike and befriends one another. One of my friends on twitter said Chrissy (her name, or so we think lmao) might be a key component to Mike being able to discover and come to terms with his sexuality. But then again, a different friend of mine thinks that the amount of content were getting is oddly suspicious, and that the Duffers are feeding us all the wrong information to lead us to all the wrong conclusions. But, at this point, why not both. At the moment, everyone thinks that Chrissy is Mikes new love interest, but what if she really isn’t, and they’re pulling a Robin on us (i call it a robin because it was technically straight-baiting in s3 LMFAO). I’m not saying that she might be a lesbian (although 👀 it says on her character info that she’s 18 (robins got some game to work with now ahaha)) but it could be a straight-bait up until she helps Mike realize his sexuality (i would have said realizes his love for Will😍😍 but recently ive been trying not to input byler into everything i fucking say, so theres how that’s going). Anyways. Last movie!

Now, I’m currently not super concrete on this one to be completely honest. I have a few in mind...

Okay, so don’t attack me, but this could possibly be a mileven storyline. It sort of fits. They have an undeniable connection, but “their fortunes shift considerably and they’re pushed apart” aka the misfortune of the mindflayer and hawkins not being safe for them leads them to moving away and literally being pushed apart. I don’t know about the pursuing other relationships, but we still have no idea what’s going on with El Hopper tbh, i havent a single clue what’s going to be happening with her storyline atm. But either way, that could be it.

ORRRR the MUCH more likely scenario, Jancy :)

Bloggers on here have already predicted that they wouldn’t be endgame, and I was only slightly skeptical because although their relationship was built on shared trauma, a very unstable foundation to have for a ship tbh, i still hung onto the fact that they cared for eachother a lot :,( But the entirety of their season 3 bickering and this summary kind of sealed the deal.

Just like Mike and El, Nancy and Jonathan have been pushed apart aswell. It was already seen in season three that they’d be better of leading separate lives, aka Jonathan was doing fine at the internship, whereas Nancy could have been somewhere better for herself. I doubt they broke up at the end of season 3, but there’s bound to be new relationships for them seperately. It sucks bc I love Jancy, but s3 showed how badly they snap at one another when there isn’t a life threatening event at hand. Jopper on the other hand, I thought their bickering was adorable, but i’m getting off track, sorry lmfaoo.

Once again, I probably am not the first to talk about these, but jsyk if you steal this from me specifically i will track you down and end you. I’ve been speculating about these things since April and July, which is pretty weak tbh, but that was when i had nothing better to do LMFAO. i hope i got at least something right, but i haven’t seen many of the video store friday’s movies, which sucks bc those could really help. But whatever.

(i wrote this really late at night, and it’s poorly edited bc my eyesight sucks lmfao, but i hope you get what i mean)

And that’s it! I hope you like it, or had some sort of impact from it idk, just sharing my thoughts tbh. Anygays, if you have any questions/added ideas/thoughts of any kind, my inbox is always here, you can private message me, and comment if you want!! i love y’all sm lmfao, so excited for the upcoming content were about to get soon, byee!

[weirdthoughtsandideas]

Top 60 Violetta songs

I have nothing better to do. If you want the video version instead of reading, here is that

60. Solo pienso en ti. Not that I hate it or anything, it's just... not good. Especially when you compare it to Ven con nosotros or Are you ready for the ride.

59. Mil vidas atras. You're gonna find a lot of the boyband songs down here... this is just so generic.

58. Mas que una amistad. Also generic.

57. Mi Princesa. Not my jam.

56. Tu foto de verano. Like. The chorus is fine but the verses are so bland.

55. Es mi pasión. The music video is cool and all, but this is just one of those I don't listen to as often.

54. Te fazer feliz. Eh.

53. Entre tu y yo. Tomas's songs all sound the same but this is the worst one.

52. Te esperaré. A little better but still boring. Also it sounds like he's singing inside a glass.

51. Mas Que Dos. Nice and cute but a ripoff of "Two Voices, One song" from Barbie and the Diamond Castle

50. Peligrosamente bellas. They are iconic but the song is... meh

49. Tienes Todo. I like their voices together but the song is otherwise bland

48. Verte de lejos. I actually don't mind this as much as the other Tomas-centric songs. Because other characters sing it too and it sounds okay.

47. Ahi Estare. Would have been lower on my list if it weren't for the audition version where Francesca sings the chorus flawlessly.

46. Cuando me voy. Gets me for the "LOVE IS LIKE A THUNDER" part

45. Alcancemos las estrellas. Generic but catchy.

44. Algo suena en mi. It doesn't work as well without Juntos somos mas.

43. Are you ready for the ride. Like it, but I like other songs more

42. Entre dos mundos. I like how the metaphor highkey is about bisexuality even if they pretend it’s not

41. Ser Quien Soy. The song is good and all but I don’t listen to it much.

40. Quiero. Same with this one. Catchy song. Just don’t listen to it much

39. Euforia. Thought of putting it lower but it has grown on me during the years.

38. Luz, Camara, accion. It’s fine, but other songs are better

37. Ven con nosotros. It has grown on me. Also didn’t realize they sang about a party on the moon until much later

36. Abrazame y veras. Cool performance and nice song, but Leonetta has better duets

35. Descubri. Sweet and cute.

34. A mi lado. I like the vibes the song gives off.

33. Como Quieres. A real toung twister and screams bisexual energy

32. Destinada a brillar. This always has a soft spot for me even if it's not my favorite

31. Esto no puede terminar. Not the best final song but the performance brings good memories to me

30. Supercreativa. A cool and different kind of song than they usually do

29. Nuestro Camino. I love the change from different decades and their vocals together are good as usual

28. Dile que si. It's hard not to be happy when you hear this.

27. Te creo. This song taught me what "I love you" aswell as "I believe you" means in spanish.

26. On Beat. I'm sure I got some sort of awakening watching this as 12 year old...

25. Aprendí a decir adios. Francesca is a queen and I wish she got more songs

24. Voy por ti. Edgy and catchy

23. Algo se enciede. Always makes me emotional

22. Soy mi mejor momento. Also makes me emotional

21. En gira. I like it but don't have much to say more lol

20. Habla si puedes. Beautiful. I also love all the covers of it.

19. Ven y canta. Makes me feel so happy.

18. En mi mundo. Iconic song

17. Junto a ti. Always makes me want to dance when I hear this.

16. Rescata mi corazon. What a BANGER

15. Enceder nuestra luz. This song was inspired by ABBA and I think that's why it's a banger.

14. Juntos somos mas. This scene and this song is what got me hooked on the show in the first place!

13. Podemos. The best Leonetta duet.

12. Friends til the end. Of course the song is a little strange but the performances are golden (especially the one where Maxi is stuck in a chair)

11. Amor en el aire. Now THIS is some cheesy music that I love

10. Tienes el talento. I just love the energy they have when they sing this.

9. Hoy somos mas. So much happy vibes

8. Yo soy asi. Really like it as a solo, but I have a guilty pleasure for the Dieletta duet (except of course, for the ending...)

7. Underneath it all. A banger. Not much more to say.

6. Si es por amor. The subtext in this song is just... wow

5. Crecimos juntos. Aaah... just beautiful.

4. Veo veo. I never grow tired of this

3. Ser Mejor. Simply... amazing.

2. Llamame. Weird choice, I know, but it's just so wacky and corny and I love it too much.

1. Codigo Amistad. There is no secret how OBSESSED I am with this song. I never grow tired of playing it. Ever.

[arcadejohn127-9]

Thank you so much for the kind words!! I appreciate it so much bro 🥲, I know I might be overdramatic and I’m being serious when I say this I’m just venting right now cause I am MADDDD, but let me spill the beans sis (do ppl still say that?)

my community or my town is known for being “accepting” bs though. Because when I came out as bisexual immediately i regretted it I started saying or thinking “I wish I was gay or straight” because the amount of biphobia I received from both lgbtq+ individuals and straight people is insane and I feel really weird about it because now I’m questioning my gender and I’m like people are going to see me as this weird “pick me person or that weird jellybean” and all these stereotypes. EVEN when I came out as gay I wasn’t “gay enough” or I didn’t fit stereotypes for my group and lgbtq+ friends, I didn’t dress or act the part and I’m not saying everyone is like this or the whole community is. I’m just stating on what I’ve experienced for both parties and I’m just really scared a little bit more when I came out as gay because it felt awful not being accepted by a community that was supposed to be an accepting and a safe place for me. When I came out as bi I shit you not. It was as if I was being pushed out and people started saying stuff about me like what you said and when I said I was gay again or it was a mistake “haha!! Sorry!! Just kidding April fools guys!!” I’m not joking I’m not lying when I say, “my Friends” and my “gay or lgbtq+ friends” welcomed me back with opens arms it was fucking awkward asf, pretending like they never said shit about me or never did shit to me. It really left this shitty feeling inside me. GODDAMN I LOVE SAYING SHIT 😩👉👌😤

yeah it’s been a really eventful(crush) couple of months but I just needed to rant sorry for venting and crap I really needed those words you said to me I just want to get out of this countryyyy😩

This is fucking cringey so unless you want to end up like gumball and hot dog guy stay🤺 back 🤺 BACK 🤺I SAY🤺 “The Amazing World of Gumball: Season 6, Episode 7”

But orange soda(crush) was like the sweetest, kindest, did I neurona sweet but she was the sweetest thing to me even when I came out they treated me the same and she stuck up for me and all this cute shit, they’re so cute LIKE ASDFHKKKK.O I swear to THE LORDDDD and they switch to this cutie to this BADDIEEE. Ahem excuse mwah for ranting about this absolute GODDESSS I just *sniff* can’t control the *hornky love* damn this is cringey. If you’ve read this far thank you for your time and hasta la vista baby 🔫🔫🕴🥷 ( I just wanna hold hands 😩😩😩🥲🥲)

Thank you for venting and I'm glad I could help even if it was small!

I get you, I thought I was straight for the majority of my life - liking women was my big shock and then turns out - it was the opposite because I'm a guy.

Play with gender, it's a construct anyway and even if you find that you're comfortable the sex you are and your gender - don't feel like you have to stick to the binary. Cis white rules of gender and sex don't apply to the LGBTQ+ community and also the fact people wanna stick to a sexist and colonized idea of gender is just WACK

Biphobia is bad, there's just so much ugh around it but I do gotta feel bad for lesbian's. I've been finding so many posts about how their treated and the conflicts they go with the bi community and it just really sucks.

Like highschool musical; we're all in this together.

Despite the biphobia I've experienced from straight girls, I'm very proud of my sexuality and I hope you get to be aswell. Anyone that blows steam up their own ass about being an ally or supportive to Everyone - most likely it's a scam. They claim to be so great for being a decent accepting human but they're the issue.

Like with truscum/transmeds

nothing wrong with believing in dysphoria and wanting/needing to medically transition - I have dysphoria and present my identity as very binary. It's okay to want to be cis with your gender or out of binary - it's all about what makes you comfortable!

I want to medically transition but when you start saying that's how to be trans, there's only one way to be trans and you must want to be cis and get all the surgeries and hormones. No! No you don't. And being non-binary is completely fine and valid!

We don't need cis straight approval and if they can't take a community seriously because they show new ideas and concepts to how sexuality and gender work - then you're the problem.

The way truscum trans people wanna see gender is the social norm, the usual way. The way people are comfortable with and will be more likely to accept. It's the colonized way of gender as there's plenty of non white cultures who have a whole different view on how gender and sexuality is.

Sorry I got so oofed with discussing trans stuff I know the topic is biphobia but it made me think about as fortunately I've experienced more hassle about my gender than my sexuality. No one should get any hassle from anyone because fuck off.

Hope everything goes well with your crush! They sound great!

[blackjewles]

Two Nights Under the Stars//Pt.1

This is a short drabble that contains: brotp Kaminari and Kirishima, and shipped Kaminari and Shinsou. The first night is Kaminari coming out as bisexual to Kirishima, and the second night is months later when Kaminari confesses to Shinsou that he likes him. Sfw, no content warnings apply.

This post is about night 1, where Kaminari comes out while stargazing with Kirishima.

Night 1:

(past tense)

Kaminari had taken a lot of time to figure himself out.

It had all started one day in class. It was as usual, Kaminari sat staring around the room, admiring the girls in his class. It was a typical teenage boy thing to do. However, he then realized, he liked looking at the boys too.

This sudden realization had hit Kaminari at the velocity of a train. For days after, he tried to suppress it, however, the thought kept coming back.

“There’s a lot of cute boys, too...”

It would be an understatement to say the next month was hard. It was confusing, he felt as if he was wandering in his own mind, a sudden stranger to his own attraction.

It took him a month, but after researching and listening to other peoples stories online, Kaminari finally came to a conclusion.

He was bisexual. He liked boys and girls.

He found it nice to have a label, it felt good to have it figured out. However, he would have to tell his friends sooner or later. And that terrified him.

It was not that he didn’t trust them, in fact, he knew they’d be supportive. But nethertheless, whenever he thought of coming out, his heart began to race and his face would get unreasonably hot.

But after having known for two months, Kaminari wanted to tell someone. And that first person would be Kirishima.

Kirishima seemed like a very trustworthy person to Kaminari, he was always offering a hand and support. So that’s how he came to conclusion. He’d come out to Kirishima first. Then slowly he’d come out to his other friends, and maybe one day, his family.

And he knew exactly how to do it.

Kaminari had a habit of staying up late, way up into the night. With that, he’d get bored extremely easily. He couldn’t be loud, and all he would have was himself.

With this boredom, he’d eventually started wandering outside. There, he would watch the stars. He learnt constellation names and it seemed that every night, more and more appeared. It was his sanctuary that cured his boredom. Eventually, he would take others to star gaze with him. They would talk about nothing and everything. The world, deep fears, biggest dreams, darkest secrets, and their hope for a new day.

So tonight he would take Kirishima, and there, he’d tell him.

(present tense)

Kaminari is sat on his bed, phone in hand. He’s about to text Kirishima to ask if he’s awake. However, he can’t stop the shaking in his hands.

He grumbles, and tries to hold his hand still for a second. But alas, it doesn’t prevail.

With shaky fingers, he types

—

To: Kirishima 🥊🥊

“hey, are u up?? wanna go look at the stars with me? :D”

—

He watches the screen, soon, he sees Kirishima typing. He can’t help but feel his heart speed up. Is he really ready to do this? What if Kirishima isn’t as supportive as he seems? What if—

—

From: Kirishima 🥊🥊

“Sure man! I was bored anyways, I can’t seem to get any work done tonight ahaha, meet you outside??”

—

Kaminari isn’t sure if he feels relieved or the opposite, but none the less, he types.

—

To: Kirishima 🥊🥊

“okay 👍 meet me at the back of the building”

—

Kaminari inhales deeply and prepares himself. He feels unruly nervous, but he still gets up and grabs a blanket to lay on. Soon, his feet carry him out the back door, and there sits Kirishima in the grass, who greats him with a smile.

“Hey!” Kaminari says, but it doesn’t quite come out right. He’s still nervous. He clears his throat and tries again.

“Sorry. Hey!” That’s better.

Kaminari lays out the blanket for them, and they both lay out on it. Kirishimas hair is down right now, it lays sprawled out under his head.

And then, they talk for hours. They start with the weather, then go to constellations, then go to the meaning behind them, then to history, then to many, many other topics their words carry them too. They paint pictures with their words and creates story’s for the sky. Until finally, they lay silently.

It’s been two hours since they first came out here. The only sounds are the world around them and their breathing. Kirishima stares at the sky contently, he knows they don’t have to talk. Kaminari is sitting up, staring at the sky aswell. The difference is, he think that now is the time to talk.

He opens and closes his mouth, goes to speak, but stops again. He purses his lips in a line, and takes in a deep breath.

It’s almost like the words get caught in his throat, but miraculously, he makes a sound.

“Hey Kirishima... Can I tell you something?” He says, not breaking eye contact with the stars.

Kirishima tilts his head back at him, Kaminari doesn’t look down.

“Sure! Anything.” Kirishima replies.

Kaminari swallows, it almost feels like his heart starts pounding a little harder.

“Uh, well, i’m not really sure where to start.” Kaminari says nervously.

“That’s okay, take your time! I am here to listen.” Kirishima replies, nodding as he speaks.

Kaminari nods, and he looks down. Kirishima stares up at the sky still. Kaminari knows he wants to tell him, but it seems to be getting harder to speak. He grabs a fistful of the blanket underneath him and looks back away. He bits his inner cheek quickly then finally, he starts to speak.

“A few months ago, I was in class and, well, I was staring at the girls in class.” He begins, Kirishima giggles, and mutters under his breath. Something along the lines of “classic” Kaminari laughs lightly.

“But, that day was a little different.” Kirishima hums an affirmation for him to continue.

“That day I... Well, I kind of realized that I didn’t only like girls.” Kaminari says, now picking at the blanket underneath him. Kirishimas eyebrows raise with interest, and he sits up, now looking at Kaminari directly.

“What do you mean?” He asks. Kaminari still plucks at loose threads.

“I mean I realized that I...” Kaminari trails off, not knowing if he has the courage to continue.

Kirishima places a hand on his shoulder.

“Hey man, you can tell me anything.” He assures. Kaminari looks at him in the eyes now.

He’s going to tell him. Right now.

“I realized I liked looking at the boys too. So I started thinking about it more and I figured it out a couple months ago. I’m bisexual. I like...both” Kaminari mutters.

“Woah.” Is all Kirishima mumbles after.

It’s silent for a second. And Kaminaris beginning to wonder if he made a mistake, if he should apologize and go back inside, he can feel his own heart beating out of his chest. Kirishima blinks a few times.

Then, he gives Kaminari a huge smile.

“That’s awesome man! Thank you for telling me. You know, I was a bit scared you where gonna say you didn’t want to be a hero anymore!” Kirishima remarks. Kaminari giggles a little.

“I... Was scared to tell you.” He says, sighing with relief.

Kirishima continues, his voice softer this time.

“You know man, you didn’t have to be scared. I’ll support you no matter what you’re one of my best friends! No matter who you love, nothing can change that.” Kirishima squeezes Kaminaris shoulder as he speaks. Kaminaris eyes go wider, he bites his inner cheek again, and he suddenly realizes can’t suppress the rising bubble in his throat and the tears beginning to cloud his eyes.

“Love isn’t something we can control. And if you like boys too, that doesn’t change a thing” Kirishima finishes. Kaminari drops his head, and the tears start to fall.

“Woah. Man, you good?” Kirishima asks worriedly, placing his other hand on Kaminaris other shoulder.

Kaminari pulls his hand to his face and covers his mouth, he raises his tear ridden eyes and nods.

“Yeah. Yes. Thank you. It means a lot to hear you say that.” Kaminari says through small sobs. He doesn’t know why he’s crying, but he knows it’s not out of sadness.

“Like I said, man i’ll love you no matter what!” Kirishima replies.

“I... Don’t know why i’m crying. I just...” Kaminari trails off, and suddenly, he’s pulled into a hug.

It feels good. No, not good, amazing. Those words felt better than any other anonymous forum he posted on. He can’t help but cry out of happiness.

They stay like that for a while, until Kaminari finally unteses and the tears stop. Then, they’re just hugging.

“Thank you.” Kaminari mutters again into Kirishimas neck.

“No, thank you for telling me.” Kirishima says back, not an ounce of untruthfulness in his words.

Kaminari had done it. And it felt better than anything else he’d told someone under the stars before.

YAY that’s it! Hopefully part two will be up tomorrow! i hope you enjoyed reading as much as i enjoyed writing. also, did i cry while writing this..... yes..... a little... LMAO. good day!

[modsatan-writes]

May I request a match-up?

Hi! The preferred name i'd go by is Devora, bisexual, demigirl. I'm an Aquarius, apparently a ENFP-T personality type. I am loyal, caring and sometimes even protective of the ones I love, usually independent and always trying to be a responsible and reasonable-mature person. I struggle with confidence and self worth issues (writing anything positive about myself is a challenge). I am an absolute ambivert, shy around people of higher authority or importance but very open around people I care about or feel close to. Also very affection starved, daily hugs are a must. Cuddles are a dream. I don't care about appearances at all, and care about being healthy and for everyone to be in their best state. (Sorta struggle to do it for myself though, neglecting whatever health Issues I might have) Also rather minimalistic, not the biggest wardrobe. I have glasses and I myself am a bit of a short chub with a boy haircut. My way of exercising is longs walks, I listen to music alot which I end up daydreaming about. My mind is constantly thinking about a thousand things at once and I struggle to focus at times. Also a bit of a workaholic who can't really relax. I hold a strong love for animals, especially cats and reptiles (own a cat and a leopard gecko). I hold a massive sense of love any type of fiction/creative media. Movies, theatre, books, anime, video games, you name it! Though I do also love myself am occasional documentary about history or something. I hold a love for food, I love cooking but for the life of me can't bake, I do tend to be a bit picky at times and have a fuzzy appetite which can be problematic, add it with my workaholic tendencies and I tend to forget to eat or sleep - memory can also often be a bit iffy at times.

What I really want to do is become a writer, writer/creator for books, movies, tv shows, maybe even video games! I struggle with escapism sometimes and because of that I hold a massive fantasy world in my head, and it's constantly expanding nonstop.

Art is a small hobby on the side, as just another way of expressing the things I'd want to write about.

I struggle with fidgeting and little stims of mine. I'd say I'm a very understanding and open-minded person, always trying to see both sides of a conflict and trying to solve things through communication. I also hold a strong sense of patience but can have an occasional temper if you really do go that low - I also can be rather curious, another one of my dreams is to travel the world, to see new places, meet new people and be introduced to all types of culture (One of the places I'm most interested in is Japan, England is also a place I really wanna visit one day). I'm always thrilled to meet someone from a different backround and to listen to what they have to say.

Also I come from Estonia, English ain't my first language either, and I'm constantly aiming for learning more languages - I do often struggle with my identity aswell.

Also struggle with family issues, not gonna go into that, but just gonna say I've lacked a connected and loving family for a majority of my life, which just makes me more likely to get attached to someone. Can be very emotional and talkative at times (I'm the type who quickly cries during movies hahah)

Ps. I love the work you do, and I hope you the best! ✨

You sure can, sweety! You say you struggle with writing positive things about yourself, but honestly there's nothing not to love! Sweety, you're so cool and creative it's insane. Also, thanks for the love!

- Mod Satan

tw: none.

Requests are currently OPEN. Remember to always read the rules before sending in an ask.

Your romantic match is: Satan

Oh boy I have a lot to say about this one.

Well, what can I say? He literally loves how much of a creative person you are. He's silently impressed by your skills.

He will absolutely encourage you to follow your dream and become a writer – we know he is a massive bookworm and, well, his loved one writing? Magnificent. Stunning.

He can and he will read everything you write. Books? Scripts? Songs? You name it.

Also, a lot of your hobbies are the same as his – you bet he will lend you his favourite books and occasionally read for you before going to sleep. He would love to accompany you to theatre and watch movies with you (he's there to wipe your tears).

You want to visit England? Leave it to him.

He needs your patience – as the Avatar of Wrath, he loses his temper pretty quickly. But if you're by his side, maybe he won't be that destructive. Teach him how to communicate and convey his emotions in a non-violent way.

You're his voice of reason.

He's not that good with affection at the beginning – he doesn't dislike it, but he's a bit awkward (he just doesn't know how to react). Give him time, though, and he will eventually become more affectionate. Not fond of PDA though, so everything will be done in private.

He will constantly check on you. Did you have lunch? Did you sleep enough?

He will tease the hell out of you in your shy moments.

You said you have a cat? Now your cat is his cat too.

Your platonic match is: Leviathan

I think you and Levi are really kindred spirits – just like you, he has his very own fantasy world in his mind and he likes to live in it. He would love to share his ideas with you and, of course, he would listen to you, too!

Definetly the friend you can binge-watch anime and play videogames with. Satan doesn't like that because he keeps you awake at night and you need to sleep.

He calls you a normie when he notices you're crying for a sad anime scene. He's crying too.

Honestly, the boy is just so happy he found someone he can talk to about his interests – his brothers never take him seriously and he doesn't really have a lot irl friends. It's refreshing for him.

Please go visit Japan with him. Please.

He buys you figures of your favourite anime characters for your birthday.

I think he's a very good listener, actually – when you struggle with your family or anything else really, just text him and he'll be on his way in mere seconds.

He created a playlist to cheer you up (most of the songs are his favourite openings and endings from animes he loves).

He will definetly ask you to cosplay with him the characters of an anime you watched together.

He fell in love with your gecko. He's almost as cute as Henry.

[inyourfantasyfanfics]

So I really am interested in a matchup! Parts 2-4 please! Im bisexual although I lean towards men! My name is Courtney and I manage a liquor store for work! I also have a degree in Business! Aside from the occasional creep or asshole arguing with me about masks I really love my job! Im plus size and I get really down about myself and self conscious about it pretty frequently. I'm 250 lbs currently and 5'2" in height! I've got long light brown hair, hazel eyes (blue and green) and I wear big nerdy glasses because im mildly near sighted. My hobbies are cooking, playing video games, reading, writing, doing my makeup and listening to music! I have two cats and a bearded dragon! I've got a really big heart, I like to think of myself as very soft! I'm usually very shy when I first meet people and it takes me some time to open up but when I do you cant get me to shut the hell up! I'm a HUGE romantic and I'm very very passionate whenever I have a partner! My love language is touch and I'm incredibly affectionate! Sorry this went on so long but thank you! :)

You sound wonderful!!! Also I lovvveeee bearded dragons they are so freaking cute!

Joseph Joestar!

Specifically Stardust Crusaders! But I can see Battle Tendency aswell. I see him as a very passionate person, and your love languages match up pretty nicely. I see him as a touchy feely person and would love a plus size gal! He's super big himself so I feel he would want someone who he can get handfuls of when cuddling. Probably loves your height too easy to casually swing an arm around. Although he's probably a dog person I can see him warming up to cats super easy, all they would have to do is look at him and he'd spoil them, hell he was friends with Caesar who has a cat like feel to him. REALLY excited about your bearded dragon. Would want to hold it. He loves you for you and would defend you till the ends of the earth if you'd let him.

[tothemeadow]

🍍 anon: the way my brain loves to forget I live in one of the most homophobic places ever and will just continually say something and everyone around me will be like 🤨

Example:

🍍: wow that girl is really pretty she’s probably not interested in me though...

Insert person I’m with: of course she’s not into you you’re both girls why’d you think any girl would date you? Are you gay?

🍍: oh no! I simply meant she might not be interested in being my friend and I think she’s pretty aswell

Like at this point I’m not sure if everyone just thinks I’m a bit off or I’m a better lair than I believed like how have I not gotten myself caught I’m literally so bad at remembering to try and not out myself like I kept talking about dating girls to my best friends then quickly saying it was a joke I’m literally “straight as a ruler” and they didn’t question it??? (Minus that one girl who I had a crush on and she totally new it) and let’s not start on the way my mum keeps talking about me marrying the “perfect man” like who’s gonna tell her it might not be a man... and of course I don’t see a point in marriage

This reminds me of when I came out to my mom. Apparently she asked my sister a few times if I’m into girls are not, and this was based around how I acted, I guess. Plus she was like “you dress like a guy” and I’m like “mom, I wear sweats and t shirts all the time” (I like yo be when I’m at home uwu). I almost out myself constantly through jokes, but I somehow manage to catch myself. My sister and I also make “fruity” jokes and nobody picks up on them 💀💀💀

My siblings and I still live at home, and the only ones that know I’m bisexual are my sister and my mom. Both my brothers and my dad are homophobic as hell, and a lot of the time I have to bite my tongue around them >.> So I know how you feel!

[unravityexe]

Hello! could I get a matchup please. Pronouns are she/her and I'm bisexual so either gender is cool. My hobbies include roller skating and gymnastics (which I think might have stunted me cuz I'm 17 and still only 5,2'). My love languages are quality time and physical touch but I'm kinda embarrassed to ask for it lol. I'm pretty introverted and kinda hate the general public, I love nature though. I dont trust easily but with the few people I'm close to I love to laugh and have fun. I enjoy adventures and spontaneous walks to nowhere or trips. I listen to indie music most of the time. I would want someone who would want to be around me alot without getting bored or annoyed. I'm really loyal to those I'm close to but I only have like 2 friends lol. I would say I'm pretty brave aswell. My MBTI type is ISTP. Hope that's okay :)

Matching you with Mikasa Ackerman!

- For this matchup, I didn’t have to dig very far into your personality type and dissect that. Although I did and I found that the two of you have very similar personality types, which I think is why I immediately thought of Mikasa after reading your description. She is ISTJ, so she’s more judgmental rather than perceptual whereas you are more perceptual.

- I believe in a modern setting, your hobbies would align well with hers. Both of your hobbies require physical activity and I think gymnastics would be something Mikasa could take an interest in. If you train, she’s a perfect training partner as well.

- A dislike of the general public is not a problem. She’d much rather avoid it herself if she can help it. Mikasa also doesn’t trust people very easily either so there’s not pressure for you to interact with anyone you do not want to.

- She’s great at sensing when you are needing attention. You don’t really have to ask her. One moment you’ll be thinking about holding her hand and the next she’s gently grabbing your hand as if she’s read your mind.

- That being said, you probably shouldn’t expect PDA from her.

- There’s also no need to worry that Mikasa will get bored of you. She enjoys your presence and appreciates that she doesn’t have to talk much when you are together. If you’d like to fill the silence, she’s more than happy to lend an ear to whatever you’d like to talk about without getting annoyed. If you decide to spontaneously go on an adventure, she’s always down as well. More than likely, she’s glad she didn’t have to come up with something to do.

[that-one-over-yonder]

Hello to the very few people who see this, but I am trying to decide when my main character should have their first kiss with the love interest(who has there own perspective). I'll put down a few points without saying the whole plot.

The first option would be them caught up in the moment, celebrating, and perhaps drunk.

The second one is that one of them is injured and appears to be dying, the other is so distraught they can't help but kiss them.

Another option is that at some point in the story they have to share a room/bed because they are staying in a friend's house and they fall into it.

By the way for some background these are two women where the 'love interest' has been rescued by the main and they join together with the mains sister and a few other characters to save the world. With a few extra bits aswell.😊 I also think I should mention that the main is bisexual, white, she/her and the 'love interest' (who does have her own perspective, I couldn't think have another word) is a lesbian, black, she/her.