#i think freminet would like the toybox :)
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nahidasgarden · 10 months ago
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I-Ah. It....feels.....weird to be praying to you, but....I need some help. You're the god of wisdom and I.....could use some right now.
Do you....have any tips for starting conversations or making friends or just.....approaching other kids?
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Oh! Hello! Is the name.... Freminet? That's the name that just popped in my mind so I hope it's correct!
Making friends can be quite a tricky situation... My suggestion is to leave yourself open to opportunities. You don't have to force yourself to talk to people, but if you seem kind and you just make yourself mentally available then more outgoing people may approach you. Some humans seem to have a sense of 'good person' radar.
It's similar to being a flame in the blackest of nights. The little light may be lonely at first, but eventually it'll attract life! Bugs may use the light as navigation, or little critters may use the light as warmth. You can be that light. You don't need to thrust yourself into social situations, that will only make you uncomfortable!
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Of course, the easiest companions are the ones who share the same hobbies. So I suggest finding something in common with your target before attempting to talk to them.
For example: if you like to tinker then maybe have a few toys on you. If you happen to hear that someone else likes to tinker then that is a similarity that you can take advantage of! Or, if you like plants then keep in mind a few unique facts to bring up in conversation.
Attempting to be friends with everyone will only leave you scrambling, so it's good to start simple.
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