#i started on Tumblr shortly after turning 19 and I'm now 31

[jonathanbyersphd]

Happy 12 year blogiversary to me 🎉🥳

[enby-posi]

I posted 126 times in 2021

9 posts created (7%)

117 posts reblogged (93%)

For every post I created, I reblogged 13.0 posts.

I added 38 tags in 2021

#nonbinary - 10 posts

#lesbian - 5 posts

#art - 3 posts

#pride month - 3 posts

#pride - 3 posts

#laurits seier - 3 posts

#ragnarok - 3 posts

#positivity - 3 posts

#nonbinary lesbian - 3 posts

#coming out - 2 posts

Longest Tag: 63 characters

#it's definitely not today but i just wanted to put it out there

My Top Posts in 2021

#5

Beary proud 🌈

I was scrolling through twitter and saw a cat holding a rainbow flag and I thought "perfect" and then I saw the lesbian bear and thought "even more perfect" so I turned her into pixel art.

Feel free to check out my Instagram @pride.pixels for more pixel art as well as friendship bracelets.

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26 notes • Posted 2021-06-03 06:11:30 GMT

#4

I'm nonbinary (she/they) and tried coming out three times to my dad and mum, all times I ended in tears and them claiming "they would know" or "I think it's cause you want to feel special with your trans friends." They aren't phobic just confused by this, anyway I can come out easily and make them understand? I'm running low on ideas and I've hoping they get used to it once I started introducing myself as nonbinary

So you already came out to your parents three times but they are not believing you? I'm so sorry that this is happening!

I think it doesn't make much sense to argue against your parents' arguments, because that is most likely very emotionally exhausting and parents can be a bit stubborn.

My recommendation would be for you to be persistent as well. Ignore what your parents are saying. Bring up that you are non-binary as often as possible.

Your parents already know that you identify as non-binary, so you can just casually mention it in conversation without putting much effort into explaining. I think if you mention it a lot, eventually your parents will understand that it is something, that is important to you, that they see you the way you see yourself.

You could also wear pins, bracelets, shirts related to being non-binary or put up posters in your room. This way you don't even need to talk about it and still show that it is an important part of your life.

I know this probably isn't the best advice, but I hope it helps nonetheless :D

29 notes • Posted 2021-08-25 06:33:10 GMT

#3

There was a time shortly after I realised that I was a lesbian that I cried a lot about it because that meant that eventually I would have to come out to my parents because I would not want to be hiding my future love. Now my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost one and a half year. I'm still not out to my parents and sometimes I still feel like crying, but that's alright. Some things just take time and you have to give these things the time that they need but also take the time you need for yourself.

31 notes • Posted 2021-09-08 05:48:04 GMT

#2

Day 1 of the 30 Day Tumblr Pride Challenge

I am a non-binary lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and these are the flags that represent me:

Discovering that I am both gave me strength and confidence. It is important to me to show others that you can be both and that it is not a contradiction.

What are your pronouns and flags?

36 notes • Posted 2021-06-01 19:09:03 GMT

#1

You are a valid as a non-binary person, no matter how you present or how others read you!

You have to keep in mind that gender doesn't equal gender expression. If you are non-binary, you are non-binary, no matter if you present femininely, masculinely, androgynously or any other way. It's not about the way you present, but the way you feel inside!

I know it can be tough, if no one sees you the way you see yourself or reads you as the gender you are, but that doesn't make you any less valid!

190 notes • Posted 2021-07-21 13:29:52 GMT

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