#i love greysexuals and i will defend greysexuals and their place in the ace community forever

[aceofenbies]

you all will say "asexuality is about attraction, not action!" but as soon as an asexual isn't sex-averse, has sex, likes sex, you all will insist that they must be greysexual.

what the fuck happened to "attraction, not action" then? and what happened to "asexuals can have sex"?

as a zero-attraction asexual i fit the definition of asexual as a specific identity. you don't get to imply that i'm actually greysexual because i enjoy sex sometimes. i'm a black stripe asexual, always have been, and probably always will be.

it's "attraction, not action" until someone who identifies as asexual due to a lack of attraction does the action.

it's "asexuals can have sex" until the asexual has sex.