#i lived though and will NOT traumadump in the tags my bad

[paramcur]

wishing everyone a belated merry christmas and a non-denominational happy holidays!! and alternatively, if the holidays are hard for you like they are for me, i hope they pass quickly and that if nothing else, ya'll have enjoyed winter break and the stressful and tiring things that weigh heavy on your soul get left behind in 2023 as we move towards 2024.

[pretty-little-martyr]

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For Palestinians reaching out for me to boost their posts: Please provide verification either in your ask/message or on your top post! I don't have connections to Gaza or Palestine as a whole, and I have been receiving many scam messages. I'm very cautious.

I hate that I have to say this, I hate that people are using this as an opportunity to scam people, but I hate even more the idea of unintentionally supporting a scammer.

I will gladly post all vetted/verified fundraisers and reblog your posts. I add them to a queue so they continually show up on my blog.

I cannot guarantee my audience can help but I will do all I can. I do not have access to my own money but I will share fundraisers wherever I can. I'm sorry I myself cannot donate and all I can do is provide additional visibility. I do not want to go into the details of my financial situation but I do not have money of my own to give.

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For other things;

this blog does not tolerate racism, homophobia, aphobia, queerphobia, transphobia, intersexism or exorsexism.

no TERFs or SWERFs allowed, if i reblog from one let me know. radfeminism is dogshit.

transunity or bust.

pro-contact MAPs do not interact, please.

transandrophobia is real, i have personally faced transmasc-specific threats of violence, medical discrimination, etc, so it'd be pretty weird to pretend i haven't. and it will be weird as fuck if you come onto my blog pretending the same. your mileage may vary on the verbiage itself but pretending transmascs and trans men don't face unique transphobia is just foolish to me and i won't entertain the topic.

i don't discourse i just exist. if you disagree with my existence i won't be letting you stay. simple-as. don't block-evade you will not be more stubborn than i am.

i am bad at tagging things in an organization sense but you are always free to shoot me an ask requesting a trigger-tag and i will do my best to comply. i have memory issues though and if i keep forgetting please do unfollow me.

im bipolar w/CPTSD and sometimes i will be mentalillnessposting on main but if im talking about something heavy i always put it under a readmore with CWs. so you won't be sniped with random traumadumping on your dash, promise.

I have OCD/guilt/morality issues, do not guilt trip me.

if i reblog something shitty, or post a fundraiser that's actually a scam, please let me know! everyone has blind spots and i am not exempt. i would rather know than live in ignorance.