#i just saw a reddit post where this girls boyfriend said her pussy was ugly

[spiffyflypie]

starting to suspect that a lot of cishet people just arent attracted to each other

not only is there that thing where cishet men seem to hate everything fun and real about a cishet woman (body hair, rolls, tummy, sagging breasts, genitalia that aren't a certain way)

but ive also noticed a thing where cishet women aren't attracted to cishet men either, and treating sex as a thing they have to put up with/something that cishet men "naturally" want more than cishet women. there's the idea that cishet women think penises "look like thumbs" and find balls unattractive.

maybe you specifically just aren't that into cishet men? you don't have to tolerate mid sex with people you aren't into! you don't have to have sex with anybody at all, or you can find someone you're genuinely attracted to to have sex with!

no genitals are uglier/less worthy of attraction than any other

and whats sad is i Know there's cishet people who love each other's bodies, but the ones who don't treat it as this universal thing, and this idea has spread into larger cultural zeitgeists

when you've seen how hungry and reverent queer people can be for each other, how can you accept begrudging tolerance in your sexual relationships?

maybe being t4t has spoiled me but cishet people do you even like each other's bodies???