#i have lots of hcs ofc but my mind goes blank every time someone asks me about them

[y-trulysemi]

semi eita as your boyfriend hcs.

a/n: ngl, i loveee semi sm </3 if you were on my blog when i started this blog, you could see i posted a lot about semi :// OKAY NOW LETS BEGIN THE SEMI EITA AGENDA

he’s a hopeless romantic oh god i just can see it! he receives a lot of love confessions from girls especially 

but he never really knows what to do with them?? 

he’s just like uHHH thanks ig

SOOO when he catches feelings for you, his mind goes blank. like totally blank. he doesnt know what to do with the feelings he has for you

“what should i do?” he asks himself when he finally realizes he has feelings for you

he wants to be the boyfriend everyone wants and ofc he wants to be the best boyfriend for you bcs u only deserve the best 

he has a little sister so he’s a bit protective of his partner. pls he would be the sweetest guy ever???? WHY IS HE NOT REAL

like he cultivates his mind to always protect the ones he loves dearly

when you guys are on the talking phase, he always ensures you get back home safely. even offer to drive you home and pick you up instead of taking the public transportation

and this has become a tradition for him. he will never let you go out alone unless he’s with you

good morning/night texts are COMPULSORY. no room for discussion. he thinks it’s important to make someone’s day.

pls he will remind you that you’re loved and appreciated always

HE SINGS TOO IF YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY

i bet 100% he plays guitar ever since he’s in high school. bet.

when he knows you’re having a bad day, he sends a voice note just him singing for you 

facetime is good too so maybe he would facetime you but he knows you want some alone times

he pulls up at your house just to give you a hug and comfort you

gifts aren’t his first love language, quality time is!! 

always gets excited over meeting you even though you guys just hang around to get ice cream 

night dates are often w him. i can see him as a night owl?? so yeah he’ll ask u to tag along

stargazing, carpool karaoke ANDD arcade dates!!!

musician!semi will make you as his inspiration. the lyrics are all about you

when he lacks ideas, he will watch videos or photos of you to gain inspirations 

your smile and your voice and everything about you inspire him!! 

he loves you so much that every love songs in the world is related to you

his fans will admire the love he has for you pls the whole world will 

never forgets to thank you for being by his side 

posts about you not the entire time but on days that are important such as birthdays, anniversaries

he hates seeing someone hitting on you. he’ll pull your body right away

“i know they are beautiful but i’m their boyfriend so no, thanks” and right away snatches you away from them

pls he drinks his daily respect women juice. would totally spoil his s/o w love

one more, he’ll definitely put a flower in your hair and says you’re the most beautiful human being <3 

[kae-karo]

I'm having a hard time figuring out how to be nice/respectful and shippy/enjoy demon moments. Sometimes I wonder if analyzing DnP interactions so closely might be crossing a line. I'm not coming after anyone, I just respect you a great deal and think you'd have insight into how to have fun with shippy stuff and also respect them as people. What are your tips?

hey b! i think a lot about this honestly, like probably more than i should tbqh but here’re my thoughts (i’m enjoying the fact that this is apparently a valid contraction lmao)

first and foremost: being a demon means we inherently exist in a morally grey zone. i don’t want to stand here and say ‘oooo yeah we’re pillars of morality bc we say we’re being respectful’ like we shouldn’t ever get in the mindset that there’s nothing wrong with being demon (the term is what it is for a reason....we ain’t callin ourselves angels)

here’s the thing. and i talk a lot abt being respectful of dnp, so like. idk search ‘respect’ on my blog or smth i have lots of opinions lmao. but to me being respectfully demon means

not purposely/directly bringing relationship/shipping/etc stuff to the attention of dnp. it exists, they know it does, but it’s rude and disrespectful of us to throw it in their faces or give them them impression that all we care abt from this vid or that is ooooh dnp you were sitting so close and ooh the heart eyes dan you’re so in love with phil etc etc (examples: it’s disrespectful to ask if phan is real! esp during liveshows! or to @ mention dnp on phanart - the phan kind - that isn’t yours!)

enjoying the cute moments - so long as that’s not all we care about! i think this is where things get tougher, bc we love their relationship and we enjoy doing these little analyses (or big analyses) but we should always be checking ourselves: is the reason we’re here/posting this thing/reblogging this post primarily bc we like to overanalyze their relationship? or is it bc we enjoy their content, and looking at their relationship is a bonus? (examples: this is harder, but it’s more an internal thing and thinking abt why you loved a vid/piece of content - was it purely bc they almost touched in that one part? bc there were a lot of heart eyes?)

acknowledging that dnp aren’t stupid. they’re quite aware of the things we harp on (heart eyes, touches, innuendos, etc). within their videos and the non-live content they choose to post, i firmly believe they know when they’re including smth that might catch our attention. maybe not every time, or every thing, but some of the big stuff, and they’re choosing not to cut it out. i’m not saying this is express permission for us to pick apart every vid without care, but again, there are ways to be respectful and enjoy these moments without letting them take priority over the entire vid/content ahem trying to live my truth (examples: the pizza thing in the google feud vid! they chose to keep that in, so if we talk abt it being adorable and domestic, nothing exceptionally harmful there!)

being cognizant consumers of phanfic - dnp are well aware phanfic exists, and it’s been years since they’ve felt the need to actively address it, but that doesn’t mean we should assume they don’t care. it’s really really important to remember that phanfic is fiction. even the hcs and blurbs and stuff like that, they are not dnp. if you’ve not watched it, i highly recommend pj’s vid on fandom (x) as it hits some v good points about fandom in general and this specifically (examples: watch the vid srsly but apparently people have left him angry comments abt things he as a character did in a fanfic? it’s important and healthy to regularly go ‘yep okay that was a phanfic/hc, not reality’ and take time to ground yourself - esp with hcs, we sort of fill in the blanks from stuff we don’t know in their lives, and it’s really easy to forget that we don’t actually know)

being cognizant consumers of dnp-related content - we see funny posts cross our dash all the time, some more demon than others, and it’s important to encourage the behavior we want to see and not encourage the behavior we don’t want to see. we can police ourselves, ofc, but there will always be phans out there that take things too far, and we can have an effect on toxic or problematic behavior by not giving it the same attention we give to other more positive/respectful dnp-related content (examples: i mean i honestly just straight up unfollow people who post too much stuff like that, but really it’s just a matter of taking a second and assessing your reaction to a post and going ‘okay, is this smth that might be a bit much?’)

checking ourselves regularly - and i know this is smth i need to work on myself sometimes, as it’s very easy to get drawn down the rabbit hole on something and not realize that we might be digging too much, taking things too seriously or too far. fandom is meant to be fun, if we’re getting in an argument or too involved in discourse, it might be time to take a step back and consider whether this is something we should even be discussing, or something that we should be discussing in such detail (examples: discourse, esp about coming out or sharing a room or who tops or their behaviors with regards to a relationship together or w.e and i’m trying to minimize it on my blog - although i do want to get through everyone’s asks - bc, while i want everyone to be able to express their opinions, there are def times it goes too far and, bc we exist in a grey zone, it’s hard sometimes to realize when we’ve wandered from the light grey to the dark grey)

not taking anything too seriously - this sort of goes along with the last one but we want to enjoy being here! we love dnp, we love their vids, we love the friends we’ve made and our fave blogs, our fave writers and artists and gif-makers and edit-makers and content creators, so we shouldn’t take anything too seriously (and we should be able to tell, or be on the lookout for signs to indicate, whether a blog is posting something good-naturedly/jokingly or posting something in order to cause a stir/be disrespectful) (examples: someone makes a really dumb shitpost that we think is hilarious but is also very clearly a shitpost with no serious meaning? cool, probably not immensely harmful to reblog it. someone makes a post that seems to be seriously commenting on smth that might be a bit too private/personal or we think is taking things a bit too far? leave it alone. unfollow the person if we feel they’re going too far too often)

moral of the story here: we aren’t perfect angels, but there are ways to be mindful of what we’re doing/saying, mindful of what we’re consuming, and mindful of how we’re interacting both with dnp and with other phandom members. we should try to be cognizant and aware, ask ourselves if something might be propagating something that could be harmful to dnp in some way, and regularly ground ourselves in reality - because, at the end of the day, dnp are real people and, while it’s fun to take things out of the realm of reality for a bit, we’re fans of the real dnp and we definitely want to show that!