#i have a feminist lit reading list that i slooowly churn through and then on here i just meme and goof off | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

watermelinoe · 2 years ago

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Recently I deleted my tumblr acc for good and yet I'm here camping in your inbox for some reason @_@ not even logged in, on anon lmao. Gotta say leaving radfem spaces was a good decision. It took me 10 years to do this so now I'm like... it's 2023 wtf why can't I let ppl go easily. Is it bc I'm a Taurus 🤧 life would be so much easier if I wasn't this angry (idk where this is from... Aries Mars?) and stubborn all the damn time. don't really believe in astrology btw, just for fun. what's ur sign?

this is why i leave anon on lol. good for you! i curate my tumblr experience pretty heavily so i mostly sidestep the nonsense (although sometimes i wanna gawk at it... i'm nosy...) but going to my first women's festival last summer completely changed my perspective. like if this place isn't fun for you, totally just bail. i'm on here to vibe w women that live thousands of miles away from me :'( and then hopefully see real live women right in front of my face in the summer

i don't know like anything abt astrology, i always wanted to get into it but then i realized i had my sign wrong for like 16 years of my life. let's say i'm a scorpio

#answered #i think these spaces can be a huge drain on your mental health #i was a lot more... active? in the first few years of having this blog #like formulating arguments and reading studies and masterposts and debating transactivists etc etc #i do still think that's important bc even if you don't change their mind i leaves a trail for other women reading your blog to follow #that's how i ended up here lol #but it feels like slamming yourself against a brick wall repeatedly. it's tiring.#i have a feminist lit reading list that i slooowly churn through and then on here i just meme and goof off #infighting is also exhausting bc it's the same discourse over and over and you just gotta start cutting ties if they can't be normal #however most of you are a delight and i appreciate that

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