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watching-pictures-move · 3 years ago

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Put On Your Raincoats #21 | Double Chinn Double (Double) Feature (with Hyapatia Lee)

By the time the '80s rolled around, Bob Chinn, best known for his collaborations with John Holmes (the inspiration for Boogie Nights), had been directing movies for over a decade. For much of that time, he'd been making them for peanuts (in an interview with the Rialto Report, he recounts being once asked to make a movie for five thousand dollars, which was handed to him in fifties on the spot), but in the early '80s, he was directing for Harry Mohney's Caribbean Films, working with respectable budgets (by porn standards). Some of these films starred Hyapatia Lee, one of the most popular porn stars of the era and one of the first contract girls. Now, I suspect these aren't necessarily the defining works of Chinn's career, and I do intend to get to some of his movies with Holmes. But Vinegar Syndrome had a sale and there were two double features of their collaborations going for dirt cheap, and because I am weak and foolish with money, they ended up in my cart and a few weeks later in my grubby little paws. How did this happen? Through the magic of Canada Post, of course! Anyway, what I found was that these didn't represents any extremes of artistic ambition. They were neither seeking to elevate the genre, nor were they hackwork. Rather, they represent a happy medium, movies that seek to deliver the genre's goods in a polished, diverting package. Slick cinematography, courtesy of Jack Remy. Catchy theme songs that wouldn't sound out of place if you caught them on the radio. Flashy titles. Lee recounted the atmosphere on set as one of professionalism and engagement, where everyone present wanted to do as good a job as possible. Chinn claims to have been losing interest in his work at this point, but the results onscreen are the result of confident execution by somebody who had been doing this kind of thing for years and knew how to put the production's resources to good use.

The first one I watched was The Young Like it Hot, where the operators at a phone company worry about being replaced by computers. To keep their jobs, they scheme to go the extra mile in helping their callers. As this is a porno, most of this help is sexual in nature, as when Rosa Lee Kimball stays on the line while an obscene phone caller played by Bill Margold finishes. (In an interview on the DVD, Margold says after shooting his scene, he was invited to record additional dialogue. Being the method actor that he was, he insisted on whipping it out during the recording session despite the lack of cameras.) Sometimes they are informative, as when Bud Lee (real life husband of Hyapatia at the time) explains why the perineum is referred to as taint ("cuz it taint cunt and it taint ass"). But the highlight of their efforts are Shauna Grant's increasingly life threatening home improvement advice to one poor sap played by Joey Silvera. Hyapatia Lee is ostensibly the star, and has a certain charisma, playing the supervisor, but this is really an ensemble piece, and she's joined by more experienced actors like Kay Parker and Eric Edwards. The latter I've occasionally found bland elsewhere, but he has a nice obnoxious quality that serves him well as the villainous manager whose idea it is the automate the operators' jobs. The movie reflects a very real concern (that's very much still an issue in the modern workplace), but overall this is a breezy, affable comedy.

A bit more serious in tone is Sweet Young Foxes, a coming of age story whose dramatic parts are more sensitively realized than I expected. The screenplay was written by Deborah Sullivan, Bob Chinn's wife at the time, and this is a case where a movie definitely benefited from having been written by a woman, and it seems like an earnest effort to capture the anxieties and yearnings of its young women protagonists. Lee moves closer to a real starring role, and is joined by Cara Lott and Cindy Carver as her friends, who aren't quite as strong actors as her but do have decent chemistry. I can believe they're friends even if their line delivery can be stilted. (That the movie has a good ear for genuine sounding dialogue also helps.) Kay Parker is especially good as Lee's mother, hitting some of the same notes as Taboo, and has a credibly emotional masturbation scene in front of a mirror that did not leave me unmoved. (In what way? That's none of your damn business.) This was shot by Jack Remy, the same cinematographer who worked on The Young Like it Hot. That movie looked nice and slick, but this one is a little more stylish, with the solo sex scenes in particular resembling magazine centerfolds. There's also some nice new-wave-ish music that shows up on the soundtrack, which I certainly didn't mind. I do wish some of the sex scenes didn't run quite as long (the previous movie kept them refreshingly concise) as I'd prefer more of the runtime was dedicated to the dramatic elements, but what's there is still good.

Body Girls goes back firmly to comedy territory, where Hyapatia Lee and the members of her gym are trying to win a bodybuilding contest despite a rival gym's attempts to undermine them. This comes in the form of a pair of schlubs in yellow tank tops who break into the gym after hours to sabotage their equipment, only to be foiled by Hyapatia and her girls who just happened to be having sex in the locker room as people do. Of course, despite Lee's attempts to teach them a lesson (which depending on your proclivities, may have the opposite effect), they don't give up, and during the contest threaten the judge at gunpoint. Not one to take things lying down (okay, poor choice of words here), Lee finds a way to influence the judge back in her favour. (The judge is played by Francois Papillon, bringing a dopey charm to the character as he fumbles through his lines in his French accent.) Her method is pretty ridiculous and certainly in service of genre requirements, but I did laugh.

Now, there's probably a dilemma in audience sympathy here as both Lee and her rivals are cheating, but Lee's methods are more agreeable and directed at the judge instead of her rivals so I guess we ought to root for her. She's also buoyant, charismatic and has a real star quality, and is joined by such fan favourites as Shanna McCullough and Erica Boyer, all of whom sport wildly different hairstyles. As can be expected given the exercise theme, most of the ladies have toned, athletic bodies (and given the decade, voluminous coiffures), with the exception of Tigr, who brings a wiry punkish energy that stood out to me despite her limited screentime, and she also performs the miraculous feat of making a mullet look cute. (I'd previously been moved by her work in Kamikaze Hearts, the great mockumentary about a porn production and her relationship with Sharon Mitchell. She didn't stay in the industry for too long, but I'd be interested in seeing more of her work.) The screenplay was written by Lee with her husband Bud (who plays the judge's assistant with an agreeable presence that's neither too alpha nor too schlubby) and is full of exercise-related dialogue. Most of this is pretty clunky and calling it wordplay might be a bit generous ("sexercise" features at one point), but I did appreciate the effort. Also as is requisite for the premise, the longest set piece in the movie is an orgy in Lee's gym with the various participants snaked around different pieces of equipment. I must note that one of the male actors resembles Barry Gibb and that Francois Papillon is shown to wear a tiger-striped speedo. Did I enjoy the movie? Yes, but not for reasons cited in that sentence.

At the end of Body Girls, Bud Lee suggests to Hyapatia, "Let's get physical", which is the title of the next movie. (Body Girls also features a character looking at dirty magazine with stills from Sweet Young Foxes and ends with a plug for some of these other movies, anticipating the MCU's narrative and marketing strategies by a few decades.) Now, all of these movies have had decent theme songs, but the one in Let's Get Physical has lyrics that are plagiaristically close to those of Olivia Newton-John's 1983 hit. (The delivery however is more shrill but not unpleasing.) This movie is a drama where Lee plays a dance instructor trying to put together a ballet performance despite her strained relationship with her impotent husband played by Paul Thomas. (In the interview I listened to, Lee speaks well of almost everyone she worked with on these films, with the pointed exception of Paul Thomas. If there was bitterness behind the scenes, it arguably helps their performances.)

Lee wrote the screenplay for this one, and unlike Body Girls with its surface level references to bodybuilding and exercise, the dialogue here feels packed with knowledge of the real thing, which is understandable given Lee's real life interest in dance going back to her childhood. (I looked up "Luigi jazz dancing" after finishing the movie and was pleasantly surprised to learn it was a real thing.) This movie goes all in on her star power, and features a number of dance numbers that seem genuinely interested in the form rather than just leering at the performers. (There is one scene where the song Lee dances to sounds suspiciously like "Beat It".) I did appreciate that the sex scenes were kept relatively concise and tied into the dramatic aspects, although in some cases, the choices made could be goofy, like the scene where Lee makes love to her student Shanna McCullough while Thomas, in a dramatically justified but still awkward gesture, watches from another room and jacks off. (I assume he's playing the audience in this scene. Also, McCullough's character remarks "I've never done this before" when going down on Lee, and yeah, okay Shanna.) Other highlights include a car stunt that may or may not have been lifted from elsewhere but still looks decently executed, as well as a dream sequence where Thomas (or his character at least) plays the piano and sings a song. This is held back a bit by the genre's demands, like when it places a completely superfluous sex scene at the end after Lee's reconciliation with Thomas, but on the whole this is probably the best one of the lot.

#film #put on your raincoats #movie review #the young like it hot #sweet young foxes #body girls #let's get physical #bob chinn #hyapatia lee

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thesextheorist · 3 years ago

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External Male Genitalia

(Warning: One very shit side diagram of the male genitalia, and one computer generated image showing the difference between a circumcised and uncircumcised penis).

Hello my lovelies,

Sorry for such a long wait, I’ve been struggling with my mental health and motivation in general. However, I’ve had a mini holiday and I feel re-energised. I’m going to set myself a goal of posting a new ‘lesson’, if you will, on this blog every Friday. I just want to say another big thank you to all those who are supporting this blog and are wanting to learn more about your fun parts.

My first two posts were centred around the female genitalia (of which I am very familiar seeing as though I have one). We are now going to give some love to the guys and talk about male genitalia – I have done as much research as I can. Unfortunately with male genitalia it seems to be a case of…what you see is really all you get, externally anyway. I will do my best, but if something does seem off just let me know (remember this is a learning journey for all of us – myself included). Ok without further ado…

Mons Pubis – The area of fatty tissue that covers the pelvic bone, however it is not as prominent on males as it is females.

Onto the actual penis, which is split up into three main sections:

The root – this is internally attached to the wall of your abdomen, and connects the penis to the pelvic bones via ligaments to offer support. Colour coded Green (I’ve included some on the actual penis to help give the idea of how it supports the penis).

The shaft/the body – This is the tube like part of the penis. This is the area that swells with blood due to the three internal chambers which contain spongy erectile tissue (corpus spongiosum) which themselves are filled with thousands of gaps which fill with blood as the male becomes aroused. When the penis becomes erect, it lengthens and thickens, shifting positions as it lifts towards the abdomen – where the rather cringy term ‘standing to attention’ is aptly applied. Colour coded Orange.

The glans – this is the ‘blub’ or head at the very end of the penis, which can be covered with foreskin. There is the urethral opening at the end of the penis where both urine and semen are expelled from the body. Yes men only have ‘one hole’ and both urine and semen are expelled from the urethra. However, internal reproductive organs block off the ability to expel urine from the urethra when the penis is erect. The glans is also filled with thousands of nerve endings (4000 to be exact), meaning if you want a reaction – give it some special attention, don’t neglect the other areas, but this is the external pleasure centre. Colour coded Red.

Foreskin – This is a sheath of skin that is attached to the head/glans of the penis when males are born. It helps to keep the glans lubricated, mainly in older males. It is fully attached to the glans in these early days, meaning it can’t be pulled back. It starts to separate around age 2 but it can start partially detaching later in life. No matter what age you are, please for the love of God do not try to pull your foreskin back further than it will naturally go – you will hurt yourself. If you have foreskin it is important to gently pull it back and wash under it, if not a cheesy like substance delightfully known as ‘smegma’ can build up and potentially lead to infections. The foreskin can also be removed at a young age for religious beliefs. The removal of the foreskin is known as circumcision. There are also different forms of circumcision for different religions, but I am not qualified to talk about them. If anyone belonging to a religion that practices circumcision and the belief behind it would like to share their story please feel free (I will anonymise you of course and please do not post your experience unless you are 18+). Colour coded Red. There is an image below which shows the difference between a circumcised penis and a non-circumcised penis.

Scrotum - The scrotum is the sac located behind the penis; it is literally a sack of skin to hold the testicles. There is a left and right testicle, and like female breasts they are rarely symmetrical – if there is one thing to learn about nature is that she hates symmetry with a passion. In fact, one side of the human body is bigger than the other. Anyway back to balls. The purpose of the scrotum is to hold the testes which produce sperm and hold them until ejaculation (the physical effect of an orgasm). Hormones, such as testosterone (clues in the name) are produced here. Testosterone is the main sex hormone found in males, it plays a key role in the maturing of the male during puberty – focusing mainly on the sex organs, secondly on bone mass, muscle and body hair. In some cases a male may be born with one testicle. This is normal, but I would always advise that you check with your doctors if you are worried about something (I’ll share a story about my asymmetrical tits and the doctors at the end to make you guys and gals feel better). Others may lose a testicle to a medical issue – remember all bodies are different and there is beauty in our imperfections. Colour coded Blue.

Perineum – Which is also eloquently referred to as the ‘Gooch’, which is located behind the balls and before the anus – it’s in-between the two. Much like on the female, the perineum can vary in size, between 1 – 2+ inches. It can also be stimulated during sex, again, just be careful. (see my second post on female genitalia for reference).

Right story time:

So I’m telling you all this to help with my own body confidence and to help anyone who may be going through the same thing either with their tits or balls, or anyone who may be struggling with body image in general. So during puberty my tits started growing in fairly even, until my left decided to be a bitch and outgrow the other. And this isn’t a ‘little’ difference – it is incredibly noticeable, and I have to wear special shaping and compacting bras to help with my shape and make it less noticeable. Now a lot of things can affect this, diet, hormones and genetics being some. I went to the doctors for two reasons, one to check that there were not any underlying health problems such as breast cancer. Thankfully that was a negative, but I still make sure to regularly check my breasts in the bath to be sure (I’ll include a post on this too). Two, to see if anything could be done to even them out, but the NHS said no as it wasn’t a real medical concern (which to be fair, it isn’t a medical concern if there is nothing causing it other than nature hating symmetry). I’m now in my 20s and still suffer with this problem. I’ll be honest with you, I’m self-conscious every day, I’m scared of getting naked and having someone laugh at me. However, at the end of the day, if someone laughs at your body doing something that it can’t control, then they’re a piece of shit who doesn’t deserve your time and you should wait for bigger and better things. No one is lesser because of their body, no matter what it looks like. Coming to terms with your body does take time, it is still taking me time, but talking to your loved ones (or complete strangers on the internet if you’re like me) is the first stepping stone to acceptance.

Alright, that’s a wrap on my external genitalia series! Over the next few weeks I’ll be covering erogenous zones, internal pleasure centres, masturbation, consent and safe sex (not necessarily in that order)! I will cover the reproductive systems at some point, but I will let you know that it is not my main concern as most education systems around the world teach sex ed with the purpose of reproduction. To say sorry for being so late with this post, I will let you guys choose what I next post about, just reply to this post and I’ll tally it up. Your choices are:

1 – Erogenous Zones

2 – Internal Pleasure centres

The runner up will be posted a week after the winner. I’ll stop counting the results on Sunday, 11th July at 9 pm (UK time/GMT +1).

The next post will also be a lot better than this one as I get back into the swing of it. I hope anyway.��

Take care and stay sex positive my lovelies!

- Love, TheSexTheorist xxx

#Sex education #sex ed for grownups #Sex Positive #sex positivity #thesextheorist #male genitalia

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midwifebeth · 6 years ago

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Day 2: Labour Ward

Today was my first day in the hospital, and the last day for one of my housemates, Miriam, (a 4th year medical student/volunteer), so we went to labour ward together. It was good for me, as she was familiar with the environment, and good for her as I was able to explain what was happening.

They are apparently quite strict at this hospital about volunteers only observing, and due to our last minute change of country (I’ll explain in a later post), we do not have a visa that allows us to be hands on. My style of practice is very different to what I saw today, so I think that is for the best.

The Ward.

See the picture for my rough drawing of the layout of the ward. Between each bed there was a curtain, this was left open until the woman was delivering, then it would be pulled halfway, so the woman next to her wouldn’t have a clear view, but the staff around the room could see what was happening. A curtain would also be slightly pulled at the end of the bed so the women opposite couldn’t see ‘everything’.

Staffing

The ward is staffed by a number of nurses and midwives, a few healthcare assistants (that do the cleaning and sorted equipment), and a sister. The nurses and midwives wear green scrub knee-length tunics, or short-sleeved scrub gowns that go over clothes/uniform like a theatre gown does (this is what volunteers and students wear). Shoes are supplied, with the role of the wearer written on them. They are white leather cloggs. I will try to get a picture when I return. Today there was also a male SHO present at all times on the ward, and a couple of female medical students (I think).

Routine Care

As far as I can tell, all women are kept on a CTG, Synto infusions are routine (5iu, I couldn’t read the amount of dilutant). Infusions are given through a bottle, rather than a bag (which is what I’m used to) and if drugs are added, a needle is stuck into the airspace at the top of the bottle. I think I also saw the active management synto dose given IV, there was about 5mls in the syringe they were using, I am not sure. All babies are given Vitamin K IM, it did not seem that maternal consent was required. The women are alone on the ward, with no birth partners allowed.

It is difficult to ask questions as very few of the staff speak any English, and those that do, speak only basic English. The doctors learn in English, so they will be my source of information when I can catch one having a free moment.

The Experience.

We were on the labour ward for 3 hours, and witnessed 3 births within an hour (2 within a minute of each other!), then another just before we left. The main thing I learned today is that at least in the hospital I’m based at, (I’m not sure if it’s country-wide), all women have episiotomies, this is done during second stage, when vertex is visible. Most, but not all, were done with a contraction. None were done with anaesthetic.

When we arrived there were 3 women labouring, and one postnatal, her baby was on a resuscitaire across the ward while she waited to be sutured. Only doctors do the suturing here. The SHO did the suturing, with me and the other volunteer, and the 2 medical students, observing, and a nurse/midwife assisting. The suturing method was the same as in the UK, commencing with infiltration of local anaesthetic (through a needle manually bent by the doctor). I have to say I’ve never seen someone suture so quickly! It was textbook style.

Afterwards, the mother was handed her baby, and she lay with her for a while. They were concerned about bleeding, so a tampon swab was left inside her vagina for about an hour. The doctor came back and removed it, and a few clots, then she was dressed while on the bed, and left to rest, with the baby back on the resuscitaire.

Soon after the suturing was completed, the lady in the middle bed on the left (see pic) was given an ARM with a pair of surgical scissors. Synto was commenced. All three labouring women were occasionally vocalising in pain, but were mostly left to it. When the staff feel that a woman is reaching second stage (they did not always do VEs), they get them into the ‘birth position’. This is like McRoberts, but with the legs held out to the side, and the woman holding her feet in a particular way to keep the position. It looks quite uncomfortable, and having tried it myself (at my host house) I know I would not be able to hold it for very long. They are then left to push with each contraction. Once vulval gaping is seen, or the staff feel birth is soon, the woman is attended by 2 midwives/nurses, one on each side. An episiotomy is given, baby delivered, covered in a small sheet, while one midwife gives the active management dose via IV (who then takes the baby to the resuscitaire), and the other palpates and massages the uterus, delivering the placenta quickly (I think the longest 3rd stage I saw was max 4 minutes). She then changes the sheet under the woman and takes the placenta, any swabs used, and the used linen out to the sluice/back room. Meanwhile, the midwife caring for the baby weighs it, measures length, head and chest circumference, gives Vit K, then dresses it in about 3 layers before swaddling and leaving on one side of the resuscitaire with a temperature probe attached to the resuscitaire.

While the first woman was pushing as described above, the two that delivered simultaneously had their bladders emptied with a catheter into a steel kidney dish that was then rinsed.

While the other 2 women were reaching second stage and starting to push, a 5th woman was brought into the ward on a wheelchair. Hearing the noises the ladies were making, and observing the environment, her fear was visible and Miriam and I both noticed her attempting to hide her tears as she climbed onto the bed. The woman pushing on the right was opening her bowels frequently, this was left exposed for most to see until each movement had finished.

The two women delivered within a couple of minutes of each other, directly opposite one another. The one on the left was given an epis, and we could see the scar tissue from her previous birth (P2), they have the bent episiotomy scissors here, with the guard on the side that goes inside the perineum, which we don’t have in my hospital in London (we use standard surgical scissors). Her perineum was then guarded with a swab, and the midwife encourage her right leg into McRoberts position. Once the head was delivered they did nuchal cord cutting.

The SHO assisted in the delivery of the lady on the right, doing forceful fundal pressure, which I have only seen once before and not to the same extent. Miriam and I were concerned as after the baby was born the right shoulder seemed lower than the left, and the arm floppy (indicative of Erb’s Palsy or another injury), however the baby was moving her right arm around freely by the time we left.

Soon after they delivered a 6th lady was admitted. The consultant came for his round soon after. He did a VE on this lady (with minimal if any communication with her), conveyed his findings to the SHO and promptly left. A couple of minutes later the lady started to haemorrhage, so all the nurses and midwives worked together to get her onto the gurney and rushed to theatre (which is in another building, up a ramp). I estimated about 600mls on the bed.

Reflecting on the experience

It was an interesting, and rather uncomfortable experience for me. I felt like I wanted to help. I have been trained and work with a woman-centred approach, and my team specialises in women with previous birth trauma, which I was concerned all these women could experience. Particularly when they were calling out in pain I wanted to be there with them to provide at least a little comfort. But I had to be careful, as I’ve said previously my role here is mostly observational, and I can only provide minimal assistance, and it has to be when given permission by the midwives or doctors.

After the first woman was left on the bed to wait to be sutured, with her baby by the resuscitaire, being examined and dressed by the midwife, she caught my eye, she looked so worried I went over to her. I said your baby boy is beautiful, to which she showed she understood by repeating ‘beautiful’, I said he looks big, while making hand gestures, and she said ‘big boy!’ with a smile. She then reached for my hand and held onto it tight until a midwife came up to the bedside to get her ready for suturing. It was one of those ‘warm midwifey feeling’ moments, a ‘this is why I do this’ moment. Just by giving this woman a smile, and holding her hand, I hope I’ve made the experience a little more positive for her. It was heartwarming to see the look of love and pride on her face as she cuddled with baby after her suturing had finished.

Picture key:

1: Drs/Sister in charge office

2: Labour bed

3: Resuscitaire

4: Staff desk

5: Door to sluice/back room

#midwife

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instantaneous--indulgence · 7 years ago

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Kinky Questions

Per request...

1: Kitchen Counter, Couch, or on top of the dryer?

I’ll say dryer, since that’s the only one of the three I’ve yet to do.

2: Your last sexual encounter: Good or Bad and why:

Wonderful. And I got some great pics to show for it. J

3: A fictional person that you think would be good in bed:

Myra Monkhouse, from Family Matters lol. She desperately wanted to put that thang on Steve Urkel, and she gave off a vibe that tells me that she would have worn him out. Her being cute and busty didn’t hurt either.

4: Something that never fails to make you horny:

Having my dick grabbed. Simple, effective.

5: Where is one place you would never have sex:

A church. Yet I’ve seen some clips of a woman masturbating inside of a church that absolutely got me off.

6: The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when

I lost my erection and all feeling in my dick due to wearing an “extended pleasure” condom that apparently had a numbing agent in it. And it was my first time ever having sex smh.

7: Weirdest thing that ever made you horny:

Nothing stands out.

8: What is the best way to sexually bind someone: Handcuffs, Rope, or Other [if other please explain]:

Probably rope, but cuffs get the job done as well.

9: What is the fastest way to make you horny:

Being directly told with urgency that I am yearned for and/or that my body/dick is needed. Also, receiving or seeing a nude image of someone I’m in lust with.

10: Top or bottom?

Top

11: We were about to ____________ but then ______________ [example: we were about to have sex but then his mom walked in]

We were about to take some photos of us in doggystyle from her POV in the hotel hallway but then our room door shut and we were suddenly locked out, naked.

12: Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary?

One is enough as long as my partner is satisfied. Multiples are great when they flow naturally. As for myself, I often go sessions without cumming and still enjoy the sex immensely.

13: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:

The two large containers of sex paraphernalia I have under the bed.

14: Weirdest nickname a significant other has ever called you:

I had a previous partner call me Wolfie, due to a patch of hair I have on my lower back.

15: Two things you like [or dislike] about oral sex:

Two likes: The physical responses. Feeling the vagina tightening around my inserted fingers while I’m teasing the clit with my tongue and lips. The clenching and contractions that build up and precede an orgasm. The body jerking, having my head grabbed, or being pushed away when the sensations are too intense. And so on. Secondly, I enjoy the taste and messiness of the flow of her fluids and my saliva comingling

16: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:

I can’t think of anything that I would consider weird. My partner and I both enjoy analingus, and I don’t mind a finger in my anus while receiving head or a handjob. Some might say those are weird.

17: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]

I can’t say that I have

18: Is it ever okay to not use a condom

Yes.

19: Who was the sexiest teacher you ever had?

I honestly can’t think of one that stands out.

20: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:

Cake frosting, maybe.

21: How big is too big:

Depends on what we’re talking about lol

22: One sexual thing you would never do:

One-on-one sex with a male.

23: Biggest turn on:

Natural sexual chemistry.

24: Three spots that drive you insane:

Nipples, dick head, perineum.

25: Worst possible time to get horny:

Prior to any work interactions or on public transportation

26: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans:

Absolutely

27: Worst sexual idea you ever had:

Trying that damn “extended pleasure” condom.

28: How much fapping is too much fapping:

When you’re sitting in the same spot six hours later with multiple tabs of porn open and you’re still searching for the “right” clip to finally let yourself cum to. Or you wind up late to work or an engagement because you just couldn’t stop stroking.

29: Best sexual complement you ever got:

“You have me all turned out”

30: Bald, landing strip, Jumanji:

Landing strip is fine. I don’t mind hair though, so Jumanji certainly wouldn’t be a turnoff.

31: Is it good sex if you don’t nut:

For me personally, yes.

32: Fill in the blank: “If they ____________, we are fuckin”

Desire me, and I desire them, have good personality and sexual chemistry with me, are into (most of) what I’m into

33: What your favorite part of your body:

My mouth.

34: Favorite foreplay activities:

Kissing, groping, dry humping.

35: Love (>,

36: What do you wear to bed?

It depends on the season. When it’s warm, I usually wear nothing. In the colder months, maybe a shirt and underwear. It varies.

37: When was the first time you masturbated:

I remember pulling my pants down and humping large baby doll my older sister had after we went to see the movie Mischief. I was maybe five at the time. I didn’t start really masturbating until I was 16-17. I didn’t masturbate to completion until I was 17-18, but I had definitely had some wet dreams prior to that.

38: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?

Tons.

39: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?

Last summer, mid-day, in a public park. Got pics of that too. J

40: Have/would you ever have sex outside?

Yes, and I’m looking forward to having more of it when it gets warmer.

41: Have/would you ever had a threesome?

I have not crossed that off my list…yet.

42: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?

When I was first figuring out how masturbating worked I once tried using a tissue paper roll.

43: Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school?

At work, but never to completion. It was mainly just to take pic/video to send to a partner.

44: Have/would you ever have sex on a plane?

I have not. I have received a handjob on a Greyhound bus before.

45: What is one song you’d like to have sex to?

That I haven’t already done so to? I can’t think of one.

46: What is something nonsexual that makes you horny?

The smell of Palmer’s Solid Formula Cocoa Butter, because it was my go-to masturbation lube for years lol

47: Most attractive celebrity?

I suck in this department. I don’t have any celeb crushes or anything like that. All-time though, I would say for me personally, it’s Vanity.

48: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?

Not much. Most of the lesbian porn I watch tends to be the short clips I see on tumblr.

49: If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be right now?

I just had sex a few days ago so, embryo?

50: Has anyone ever posted nude pictures of you online?

My partner, and photographer who has taken some photos of us.

51: What is one thing that NEVER makes you horny?

Scat.

52: Do you have stretch marks? (How do you feel about them? Has anyone ever had a problem with them?)

My knees are the only place I can think of. I don’t think much of anything about them, and no one has ever had an issue with them. That would be weird lol.

53: Do you like giving head? (why/why not)

See #15

54: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?

I don’t mind them either way.

55: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?

I don’t know that I would want to be some random person’s first. I’ve never actually taken anyone’s virginity. I think I’d feel okay if the person really wanted me to and we had a relationship of some sort (friendship/acquaintance/partner)

56: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?

Acidic fruits might not be the best choice(s).

57: Is there anything you do on Tumblr that you would not like your significant other to see?

Nope.

58: Do you own any sex toys? (what is it? (how long have you had it?)

See #13

59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day?

I could. But why? lol

60: Would you be offended if your significant other suggested you get plastic surgery?

Would probably depend on what for.

61: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?

Probably prostitute. With porn there are variables like having to maintain an erection for long periods of time, having to cum on demand; as well as the fact that it will likely be accessible to the entire World. Being a prostitute seems a more discreet and little less messy, in theory. But there are safety concerns with prostitution as well. Still, I’ll go with prostitute.

62: Do you watch porn?

I do.

63: How small is too small?

Again, depends on what we’re talking about.

64: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?

I don’t believe so. If I have it wouldn’t have been due to my try-sexual nature, more so than any particular act that I perform or enjoy.

65: Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything?

My partner kissed me on the cheek this morning before she left for work. It meant plenty.

66: Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day?

No, because my family group texts too often for me to be out of the loop, and I also don’t remember anyone’s phone numbers lol.

67: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”?

Yup. I just did so at a sex party my partner and I attended last weekend, and it proved to be the right decision. J

68: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair?

Not at all.

69: If you could give yourself head, would you?

Technically I could, but I’ve yet to try, and I don’t believe I ever will lol.

70: Booty or Boobs?

I guess I have to go with boobs. I do love the booty, as it makes for a great visual while in doggystyle. Plus I really enjoy “hotdogging”/assjobs. And it just feels wonderful having my hands on some booty in general. But with boobs, there’s the nipples, and the areolas. You can mash the boobs together and fuck them, which is one of my favoritest things in life. As is gripping the boobies and simultaneously sucking both nipples. Plus they’re right below the face so they allow for the ability to have my dickhead licked or sucked while tittyfucking and slapping the tits with my dick, plus you’re in great position to conclude with a facial. So yeah, boobs it is.

71: If you had a penis, what would you name it?

I do, and it does not have a name lol.

72: Have you ever been on an official date?

I sure have.

73: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)

No. I’ve never felt compelled to.

74: If you were a stripper, what would your name be?

Male stripper names are so cheesy or skeevy. I’d just let someone else choose for me.

75: Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?)

No, and no thank you.

76: How would you react if you found out your parents had sex in your bed?

I’d be beyond shocked because my parents have been separated for decades.

77: What was your reaction the first time you saw a penis/vagina

I cannot recall.

78: If you had a penis/vagina for a day, what are five things you would do?

If I had a vagina for a day I would, try some Ben Wa balls, use a hitachi on my clit, I’d get a large dildo and see how far it could go, I’d attempt to make myself squirt, and I’d try a Sybian.

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“Once postpartum, always postpartum.”

A woman’s body begins to change the moment she conceives. She’s the baby’s only source of food, shelter, and comfort for the next 40 weeks. By the time she delivers, her body is changed forever.

If you’re a trainer or nutritionist who works with women, you need to understand what those changes are, and how they affect your female clients from pregnancy to menopause and beyond.

We asked six experts—Erica Ziel, Jenny Burrell, Sarah Ellis Duvall, Rachel Cosgrove, Yusra Es-Haq, and Lulu Flores—to help you navigate the challenges of coaching clients at every stage of motherhood, and to offer solutions.

Part 1: Pregnancy

Part 2: Nutrition for new moms

Part 3: Postpartum recovery

Part 4: Returning to serious training

Part 5: Emerging from the fog of motherhood

Part 6: Menopause and beyond

Part 7: Final thoughts on coaching mothers

Part 1: Pregnancy

Pregnancy affects every aspect of your client’s physiology. Every organ, every system, every ligament.

Her metabolic rate increases and her heart pumps more blood. Most pregnant women experience nausea in the first trimester, which is probably the body’s way of warning her off foods that might damage the fetus.

By the final weeks of the pregnancy, the baby is pulling calcium from her bones and protein from her muscles. Her own body is running on a higher percentage of fat so more glucose can go to the baby.

Most trainers focus on the hormonal surges that increase joint laxity, particularly in the lower back and pelvis. Those changes are apparent almost immediately, especially if the client has given birth before, says Erica Ziel, a core exercise specialist, author of The Knocked-Up Fitness Guide to Pregnancy, and mother of three.

“You’ve got to be a little more cautious about keeping this client from injuring herself,” she says.

But increased laxity doesn’t always mean your client has increased ranges of motion.

“You get some who become more flexible, but also some who get tighter,” Ziel says. “I think it’s the body’s way of protecting itself from overstretching.” It’s up to the trainer to monitor the client’s movement quality, making sure she’s in control no matter her range of motion.

Another way pregnant clients differ:

“An athlete might need to do less exercise because she doesn’t have the energy,” Ziel explains. That client can easily become overtrained if she continues her normal routine throughout her pregnancy.

“But when you get a woman who was previously sedentary, she can become quite a bit stronger as her pregnancy progresses,” she adds, as long as you start slow and gradually increase volume and intensity.

Every pregnant client, Ziel says, “should always feel better after a workout than when she started. Exercise doesn’t have to be excessive to be effective. If she feels tired and depleted after a workout, we overexercised her, and that increases stress.”

The key is to ensure there’s a purpose to everything you do in the program, the most important of which is to prepare her body for pregnancy, birth, and recovery.

In particular, you should take advantage of what Ziel calls her “superpowers”: “From a core perspective, she has this amazing feedback to make these muscular and fascial connections she’ll never have at any other time.”

What’s not important, Ziel says, is how many calories she burns in your workouts. “We have to get her mind off the scale. If she’s fit and she’s smaller, she’s likely to gain more weight, because she needs it.”

But, like everything else when it comes to motherhood, there’s nothing simple about pre- or postnatal nutrition and weight changes.

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Nutrition guidelines for pregnant and lactating women are relatively straightforward, says Yusra Es-Haq, a Level 1 Certified Online Trainer and nutrition coach mother of four who has multiple certifications in pre- and postnatal exercise:

First trimester: no additional calories needed

Second trimester: 300 to 340 additional calories

Third trimester: 450 additional calories

Breastfeeding: about 500 additional calories

But that doesn’t mean you should encourage a pregnant or breastfeeding client to count calories. “It’s added stress that a mama doesn’t need,” she says.

Coaches should instead focus on “building healthy nutrition and self-care habits they can practice postpartum, like consuming high-quality nourishing foods, eating slowly, listening to their body’s hunger and satiety cues, and resting as much as possible.”

Which would be wonderful if all your clients lived in a world where they can focus on themselves.

“Many mothers with newborns do not have a social or family support network,” says Lulu Flores, a nutritionist, certified lactation educator, and mother of one. “They’re alone with the baby at home—and, on many occasions, other young children.”

The consequences of that isolation—combined with stress, fatigue, and sleep deprivation—can go in two extreme directions, she adds: “Some mothers finish the day having eaten almost nothing, and some eat what they can, when they can.”

In Flores’ experience, many of them end up gorging on packaged baked goods. They’re easy to consume with one hand while holding a screaming baby and require no preparation or cleanup.

Another challenge: When pregnant or nursing women do focus on themselves, it’s often in unhealthy ways, Flores says:

Fear of excess weight gain leads some pregnant women to restrict calories. Sometimes that fear is reinforced by trainers and nutritionists giving them targets for daily calories and overall weight increases.

Lots of new mothers feel an urgency to drop their baby weight, with a few turning to crash diets.

If you think your client is going down a risky path with her diet, the best tactic is to show you care.

“You have to have a lot of empathy,” Flores says. “Let the mother know what the current recommendations are without making her feel judged, or that you despise her beliefs.”

Part 3: Postpartum recovery

Your client has recently delivered her baby, and she’s ready to start training again. Kind of.

If she had a C-section, she’s recovering from a surgery that penetrated her skin, muscles, and connective tissues to reach into the uterus and pull the baby out.

If she had a vaginal delivery, she probably experienced some degree of tearing along her perineum. It’s typically worse for first-time moms, those who have larger babies, and those whose delivery involved forceps or a vacuum.

And no matter the type of delivery, she almost certainly has some amount of diastasis recti, a stretching and weakening of the linea alba, turning her six-pack muscle into a couple of three-packs.

“Diastasis is normal,” says Sarah Ellis Duvall, DPT, a physical therapist, mother of two, and creator of the Pregnancy and Postpartum Corrective Exercise Specialist certification. The severity is partly genetic, and partly due to how she trained—or didn’t train—during pregnancy.

To avoid making it worse, you have to know what to look out for, and use appropriate precautions, as explained in this article on training new moms.

Incontinence, though, is not normal. “Incontinence should be a wake-up call for women, especially younger women,” Ziel says. If your client is peeing every time she runs, jumps, or even laughs, it’s a sign of pelvic floor dysfunction. “Those muscles are either too tight or too weak, or a combination of both.”

But it’s not just the core and pelvic floor. “Diastasis is a full-body issue,” Duvall says. “It’s how you move, breathe, and load your body. The whole kinetic chain matters.”

Makes sense, right? That’s why, if you train clients in person, you probably use a movement screen, postural assessment, or both. And whether you train them in person or online, you surely focus on their exercise form.

But even then, things can go wrong. No matter how diligent you are with a pregnant client, or how cautious you are in your postpartum workouts, she may still end up with severe diastasis recti—or, worse, pelvic organ prolapse, when her bladder or rectum literally falls down into her vagina.

“It’s emotionally crushing,” Duvall says. “It’s your very sense of who you are.”

She speaks from personal experience.

Part 4: Returning to serious training

Duvall has been a dedicated athlete her entire life, with a string of injuries almost as long as the list of sports she’s pursued.

That’s on top of her professional knowledge and experience as a physical therapist. Her doctoral project focused on the pelvis. And she still developed a prolapse after the birth of her second child.

“Nobody thinks it’s going to happen to them, until it happens,” she says. “Prolapse made me respect my body a lot more. Every injury teaches you something, and I like to learn the hard way.”

The problem begins when the pregnancy and delivery stretch out the tissues of the pelvic floor. But then it’s exacerbated by the way a new mom puts pressure on those tissues.

“People bear down to get the last rep,” she explains. “When it comes from the wrong place, it can make prolapse worse. It can make diastasis worse. Some people just have patterns of movement that inherently create pressure out or down. It’s hard to use the right mechanics when you don’t have the patterns in the right place.”

Duvall was one of those people, and had to learn how to do everything again, despite a lifetime of training and competing at a high level.

Athletes and fitness enthusiasts like her are often the highest-risk postpartum clients. They want to get right back to where they were. Ironically, she says, “it’s easier to work with someone who was on bedrest. They’re out of shape and feel out of shape. They’re more willing to start with the basics.”

With any postpartum client—whether they feel strong, weak, or anything in between—you need to identify their weakest link and design the program to address it, rather than building the workout around what the client can get away with it.

It’s the trainer’s job to find those weak links, and do it in a way that shows the client where she’s vulnerable. These are the tests Duvall uses:

1. Breathing pattern

Does she breathe into her belly? If she does, that’s a pretty good sign she’ll put pressure on her most vulnerable tissues if she tries to move a heavy load.

What you want to see, Duvall says, is a 360-degree breathing pattern:

Have your client sit upright on a chair or bench.

When she breathes in through her nose, her torso should expand in all directions—front, sides, back.

When she exhales through her mouth, her entire abdominal wall should flatten, not bulge.

2. Dead bug

“Can they stabilize their spine and pelvis,” Duvall asks, “or do they shift all over the place?”

And when they stabilize, can they breathe while maintaining a braced core?

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3. Hip hinge

Duvall wants to see if the client can maintain a neutral lumbar position during a hip hinge, which requires eccentrically lengthening her glutes. If she needs to hyperextend her lumbar spine to bend forward, work on that before loading any hip extension exercise.

Also see if she can brace her core and control her hips. If her stomach bulges out, or if her hips move laterally, spend more time on stability work before jumping into deadlifts and squats.

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4. Push-up

“I don’t assess a push-up in everyone because it’s hard,” Duvall says. But if the client passed the first three tests (and if you assessed her for diastasis recti, as shown in this video by Jessie Mundell), see how she does in the push-up position.

Can she load her core while continuing to breathe? As she lowers her body toward the floor, can she hold an abdominal brace?

What about her shoulder blades? Can she control them, or do they look like they’re trying to fly away?

5. Landing and loading

The final test, for a client who wants to return to high-level training, is “to see what happens dynamically at their hip, knee and foot when they land or load,” Duvall says.

If they can control those joints during a squat, kettlebell swing, or depth jump from a low box or step, they’re cleared for takeoff.

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Part 5: Emerging from the fog of motherhood

Not every new mom gets right back to the gym. For some, it’s just not feasible. Many return to work soon after giving birth, and it might be years before they can squeeze a workout program into their schedule.

When they do come back, they’re most likely to do it at one specific time of the year:

“For us, September is like January,” says Rachel Cosgrove, co-owner of Results Fitness in Santa Clarita, California, and Results Fitness University, a coaching business for gym owners. “The kids are back in school, and they can start putting themselves first again. The mom’s like, ‘I have a few hours here. I can do this.’”

Those moms present unique challenges for coaches:

1. They’re deconditioned, but they’re not all deconditioned in the same way

Some have maintained a high activity level from keeping up with their kids. Others have been mostly sedentary.

Some are former athletes or gym rats who want to get back into what they were doing before. Others had never been in shape, and still have pregnancy- and delivery-related injuries like diastasis recti or prolapse to work around.

And if you do a postural evaluation before you start training, you’ll often see imbalances caused by holding their kid on one hip—usually on their dominant side—while they multitask, Cosgrove says.

They also have two things in common:

“They’re obviously motivated to get back in shape,” Cosgrove says. “They’ve gotten to a point where they’re tired of feeling the way they feel, and they want to do something.”

They can’t activate deep muscles in their core and pelvic floor. “The nervous system doesn’t know how to switch them on anymore,” she says. “You have to wake those muscles up again.”

2. Many have used crash diets

“If they’ve tried to lose weight after pregnancy, a super-low-calorie plan seems to be the default,” Cosgrove laments. “The older they are, the more likely it is they’ve done that multiple times.”

You know how those diets are most likely to work out for your clients:

They lose weight fast, much of it from lean mass.

They regain the weight they lost, plus a few more.

They end up heavier than when they started, with less metabolically potent muscle tissue and a higher body-fat percentage.

That leads to perhaps the biggest challenge for a trainer working with these women: They measure progress with a scale. If it’s not going down, they assume the program isn’t working.

“Because they’ve had success with that diet in the past, even though it didn’t last, they think they have to do it again,” Cosgrove says. “We have to convince them to be consistent, fuel their body, and do strength training to build back their muscle while using a different form of measurement than the scale. And if they do those things, they won’t ever have to do a crash diet again.”

Part 6: Menopause and beyond

You might think that the pre- and postnatal issues we’ve talked about so far no longer apply to women as they enter menopause. Mild forms of diastasis recti and prolapse typically resolve themselves within a year of giving birth, while more serious conditions have probably been addressed through physical therapy, if not surgery.

But you’d be wrong.

“For so many women the physiological legacy of their birthing years really do become apparent as they head to menopause,” says Jenny Burrell, founder of Burrell Education, whose education programs include a certification in peri- to postmenopause coaching.

The problem, she explains, is the decline in estrogen, which reduces the production of collagen by about 30 percent in the first five years of menopause. That, in turn, lowers both the quality and quantity of the connective tissues that hold their pelvic organs in place.

That’s why the risk of prolapse rises among postmenopausal women, including about 50 percent of those who’ve given birth. The drop in estrogen also leaves them metabolically wired to add visceral fat, while the loss of collagen makes it harder to build or maintain muscle tissue.

“This is also a time when women in general start moving less and eating and drinking more, both of which are really the opposite of what their bodies need,” Burrell says.

For those reasons, Burrell says two practices are non-negotiable for any coach who works with late-middle-aged women:

A detailed health and movement screen, including an assessment of pelvic floor function

A fully customized training program

Burrell uses herself as an example: “Although I’m a mother, I’ve never given birth. But if you screened me, I’d tell you that I have pelvic health issues usually associated with birthing.”

She’s had multiple surgeries, including a hysterectomy. That leaves her with significant complications and challenges:

“Hysterectomized women have an increased rate of pelvic organ prolapse,” she says. “So I avoid the exercises that I know make me symptomatic—running, skipping, and ballistic jumping.”

Her post-surgery scar tissue and adhesions necessitate a lot of mobility and soft-tissue work, which make up nearly half her workouts. This applies to any clients who’ve found themselves supine in an operating room, but will be more prevalent among your older moms.

The prolapse risk limits how much weight she can train with. “I look strong and probably could go heavier,” she says. “But will 80-year-old me thank me for that?”

That last question is an example of the “could/should math” every trainer has to do with every client in this demographic.

“We need to stop with the ‘beasting’ message,” Burrell says. “More exercise alone isn’t the fix. It’s hugely valuable and relevant to address their mental well-being, not just their physical well-being.”

Lots of women in this stage of life are what Burrell calls “the meat in the sandwich”—taking care of their parents while also helping their kids. “Women at this time are generally time-poor and exhausted,” she adds. “Whatever programming you create for them has to be sympathetic to the reality of their lives.”

And here’s a radical thought: Even though they come to you for fitness training, what they need most may be lifestyle coaching, Burrell says. Or just to be heard.

Part 7: Final thoughts about training new moms

If we had to summarize what we just learned from our six experts on training and feeding mothers, it might be something like this:

Address each client’s issues as thoroughly as you can, as early as you can. Every injury, complication, or dysfunction you address now will help your client enjoy a healthier, more active life for years down the road.

You can’t help your client unless you listen to her, and meet her where she is, rather than where you think she should be.

“We need to work with the person in front of us,” rather than viewing them through the filter of our own preferences and biases, Es-Haq says.

“Pre- and postnatal women are more than a collection of muscles, tissues, bones, and tendons. They’re individuals with goals, hopes, dreams, beliefs, and history, and as trainers we need to acknowledge that. We need to help them in a way that serves them, not a way that suits us.”

So even though you’re helping them through the awesome and difficult process of creating and nurturing life, you’re also on a journey of your own.

“We shouldn’t be afraid to ask questions,” she says. “We shouldn’t be afraid to be wrong and admit it. Growth comes from a place of discomfort and uncertainty. That’s how we get better at what we do, and that’s how we serve and empower our clients.”

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Twelveswood. Age 18.

The sound of Zuri's mother clicking her tongue was not good. It meant, as it always meant, that Zuri had done something wrong. This didn't bother Zuri, as she expected to do something wrong. Even Zuri's mother still made mistakes, at her age: only the elders could be expected to hold standards of perfection. Zuri was a long way from there, even in something so simple as the process of preparing the fish for smoking.

"Here, girl," her mother said, knife flashing as she moved it with a deft precision that Zuri could only marvel at.

Zuri wiped her cheek with the back of her hand, leaning over to watch her mother's movements. In, out, scrape.

Zuri tried again.

"Look.. Your wrist is limp."

Zuri tried again.

Her mother clicked her tongue.

That was how it went for the four baskets of fish that sat before them, aunties sitting in a circle with sisters and cousins and nieces, chattering about the weather and the patterns of animal behavior that predicted how winter would come. A few ribbed Zuri for her mistakes, but no more than the other girls who yet learned. One of the grandmothers sat nearby, checking all of their work, setting it to dry just so with the aid of two of her daughters; they were nearly grandmothers themselves. Would be, come spring.

Zuri glanced sidelong at one of her older cousins, muscled stomach just beginning to show the baby that grew within. She looked down at her own stomach: empty. Flat. She chewed at her lip, worrying that she'd not yet attracted one of the wandering Keeper men to lay with her. Always, always, it was one of her sisters or cousins; it annoyed her that she was not yet given the chance to be mother while the others had many dances to boast of, much less little ones toddling along behind.

Her mother made a sound, and Zuri looked up, and then looked down. She winced. She'd bruised the meat.

"You won't catch a full belly that way, girl," Yhas, one of her aunties, called. She'd the most wicked tongue on her. Zuri darkened as kith and kin around her laughed for her mistake. She ducked her head, salvaging what she could, and focused on her work.

____

The sun was rising by the time Zuri had finished the evening's chores. She should turn in, but after her bumbling foolishness earlier, she'd a need to be by herself for a little bit before she tumbled into the furs with the rest of the women and children. Right then, she didn't care for the thought of sleeping alongside nieces and nephews and sisters and cousins, and all the lingering jibes from the day's messups.

Instead, she wandered away from camp and the smell of food stores and leather and woodcraft, away towards one of the nearby pools formed by a slow creek and some post-winter detritus that had caught at just the right spot. They went there for swimming and bathing. It was awfully childish of her to go swimming when she should be sleeping, but she'd made too many childish mistakes that day for her to feel that bad about it.

She was sulking. She couldn't help it.

A quick strip, and she was hip deep in startlingly cold water. She sucked in breath as it hit her groin, sending icy aftershocks deep into her core. The extreme change in temperature vitalized her mind, and set her nether regions to aching. Well, that was something else she couldn't exactly handle in bed, and perhaps it made the extra effort to be alone worthwhile.

Shivering, Zuri waded towards the deepest part of the pool, edging close enough to force herself on tiptoes before she stopped. She didn't care to get her hair wet, but she wanted to feel the water's icy touch, let it cleanse her of all the bitter heat that had stained her during the long evening.

"Zuri."

Her ears flicked backwards, temper flaring at the sound of her friend. Kith, not kin, for all they were raised with the same aunties and grandmothers scolding them for every misdeed. She kept her back turned, hoping the silence and body language was signal enough to tell the other to back off. Dawn was coloring the water with the barest hint of pink and orange, destroying the cool shadows of night. Zuri didn't want to be seen like that, not right then.

The sound of someone slipping into the water made it clear her wishes had not been heeded. She sighed, but didn't move.

Strong, slender fingers gripped her wrist, pulling her back from the edge. There was gentle chastisement in that grip, in that pull, and Zuri resented it, resisting as Suva pulled her back and around -- her greater height and weight making it easy for her, and Zuri was not going to disgrace herself more with an ungraceful struggle.

Warm arms wrapped around her waist, pulling her into shallower water and a soft embrace.

"Shh," Suva said, as Zuri bared her teeth. "I know your frustration."

Zuri looked down, brows furrowing. Oh, the words stung. Suva would know. She'd been visited a full week.

Jealousy stole through Zuri, of a stripe she couldn't quite name. Didn't want to.

She pushed away from her friend, the movement harsh and sudden. A sharp sense of abandonment sliced her, and she wanted very dearly to stomp out of the pool and fetch her things and go running through the morning. Away.

"Dearest," Suva whispered, wet fingers combing through Zuri's hair, sliding down the sides of her face. She tipped it up, resisting Zuri's slight resistance. There was hurt in fair Suva's eyes, hurt that did not stop the taller woman from pulling Zuri's face up to her own.

Suva's lips were the softest things Zuri had ever known. Not even Suva's breasts were so soft; they were high, and small, and firm. Beautifully shaped, though the grandmothers (when tutting about the future of the combined tribe) had worried Suva would not make a competent nursing mother. Zuri'd never cared, she loved them: took pride in her friend's looks. She couldn't help but melt against Suva, not when they were so close. She couldn't even resent Suva using that fact against her.

Suva was smiling as they broke their kiss, even despite Zuri's resigned glare. Her hands drifted lower, dipping under the water.

Zuri glared harder.

"Shh," Suva said.

Those fingers slid down the small of her back, over her rear. One hand gripped one cheek, pulling Zuri up tight against the other woman. It started a soft sound from her, and she looked away, reddening, as Suva's slow smile spread into a grin.

The other fingers had slid between Zuri's cheeks, trailing down over her cold-tightened asshole and over her perineum, until they settled within her labial folds. They began to move, slowly there, teasing the cool flesh with light pinches and squeezes and tugs. Zuri's breathing quickened. Suva broke contact, hand sliding around to the front and dipping back down. This time, her fingers divided onto the flesh surrounding her clitoral hood, pushing and pressing into, pulling back and up, down and sideways. Slowly, firmly, with a knowledge born of many moons, Suva worked the flesh. She worked Zuri, until her breaths became pants and small frustrated moans escaped her every other breath. Suva toyed with her, until Zuri began to whine with need, at the unfairness of the deliberate teasing.

Suva withheld Zuri from orgasm.

Held it.

And then forced her into one with a sure flick and push of her fingers, before withdrawing from the other woman entirely.

Zuri’s body screamed with the need to be touched.

Not even dawn's light could detract Suva's beauty, as she stood there, tall and full of confidence.

"Now," she said, "you come to me."

Zuri didn’t think. She moved. Water sloshed around her, speckling her as she waded to her friend, her lover, and knelt before her. The water was shallower; kneeling, it only came up to her shoulders. It still felt cold, back over her skin. She didn't care. Not with Suva's thighs before her.

As thighs went, Zuri had always privately held that Suva's were the best. They were corded with muscle without appearing too large for her elegant frame. Perfectly shaped, perfectly proportioned. Her legs were long, her torso short by comparison -- but it worked for her. It might not have worked for another, but for her... for her, it made of her a goddess. And if there was any place on her that Suri might hope to touch and kiss, it would be her thighs.

And their apex.

She knelt between Suva's thighs, looking up as Suva looked down. Zuri rested her hands on the lower end of Suva's hips, pressing kisses up those sensitive inner thighs.

Suva's labia were small, and plump. Her inner labia spread out, like a flower, deliciously textured and lush, made more so by the water slowly dripping off them. Ah, and there, her scent: musky, earthy, with just a hint of salty sweetness. Her clitoris was large and round, like a moon peeking out of its hood, divine and serene and Zuri pressed her mouth to it without any more thought.

Suckling, she slipped her tongue over and around the fleshy hood, pushing into it. She lavished it with attention, careful to not give too much direct stimulation to that sensitive pearl. She felt Suva's hands on her head, one gently gripping and squeezing her ear, the other curling through her hair. Caresses for caresses. Love for love, given freely in equal measure.

Zuri's fingers dug in as Suva moaned, and felt an answering jerk from the other woman, felt her trembling. Felt her appreciation, for those efforts spent. Zuri released a hip to slip a finger down, tugging on those plump labial folds and massaging them with her palm. Ground into them, as she felt that slippery beginning of Suva's readiness to fuck. And, after Zuri moved in to lick and suck on every bit of her lover's vulva, she gave in to the impulse.

One finger, two. She thrust in hard, knowing it was time, knowing Suva's trepidation and hesitation, and her want for the roughness even as the thought of it made her heart flutter. Suva was slick, inside. Zuri shifted where she knelt, giving herself a better angle to pump her fingers in and out of Suva's pussy. It smelled heavenly, and it was an even toss whether Zuri would lick her fingers clean, or smear it over Suva's lips. The expressions Suva wore when she did... Zuri bit her lip. Bit it harder, as Suva grew wetter, and started to squelch lewdly with each renewed thrust into her pussy.

Zuri hooked her fingers inside, pressing hard to the front, seeking out that delicious spot, chasing down the orgasm she knew she could bring. The one she could bring best. Only her.

"Promise me," she said, pulling her wet mouth away, staring up, hard, "promise me nothing will change, Suva, promise."

Suva was gasping, bent, legs splayed as she tried to remain upright. More and more of her weight was levied against Zuri's head as she fought to retain balance. She looked down, face contorted with her pleasure. With love.

"I promise," she gasped out, staring down.

It was enough.

Zuri hooked, and twisted, and pulled, and rammed her fingers in.

Suva came with a choked off scream, both of her hands flying up to cover her mouth, to strangle down the sound before they might wake anyone. Zuri pulled her fingers free and, unable to resist herself, sucked them clean as she let Suva slowly come down from her orgasm, standing up to lead her back to the edge of the pool. Dawn's light caught the droplets on Suva's form, and for one of the only moments in her life, Zuri appreciated what the illumination did. Suva sparkled like a gemstone, all tawny skinned and flushed with her excitement. It was a good look for her. Everything was.

Suva reached for her, as Zuri laid her down, and Zuri kissed her way up Suva's body, laying over the other as she shared the flavor on her tongue. They kissed, sloppy, but neither much cared. They both sought each other with need, and received it in return.

"I wish I could give you a baby," Zuri muttered, burying her face into Suva's neck.

"Shh," Suva said, tugging Zuri up. And up. ...and up.

Suva pulled Zuri into place so Zuri was straddling her face. Yeah, it was official: best dawn ever. Zuri ground down as Suva's tongue found every ilm of flesh, every bit of pleasure that could be wrung out. Suva's tongue cleaned it all up, working against Zuri just as her fingers had, drawing out her pleasure. Her hands gripped Zuri's hips, dragging her down, encouraging Zuri to grind against her, to chase her own pleasure as much as Suva gave it to her.

Over, and over, and over.

It was Zuri's turn to gasp, and moan, and tremble as she finally sagged and slid sideways, collapsing into a breathless heap next to Suva. This time, it was Suva who pulled Zuri in for a kiss, trading the taste back.

They lay there, for a time, hand in hand, body pressed to body.

"Promise me," Zuri said again, some emotion making her voice tremble.

"I promise."

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