#i got a 100% on that squid project btw

[boyblundering]

based off a real life experience (i was tim) (it was my biology project) (my boyfriend had to listen to me spew squid facts)

[eulchu]

As someone with ADHD and that has problems people pleasing and double booking if I falted Dream and got mad at him for trying to do more than it's realistically doable, I'd be a huge hypocrite because I do that all the fucking time!

And I'm older than him so the "he's an adult he should know better" argument doesn't fly either.

He's human, he's gonna make mistakes and disappoint people. It's normal. The only difference is that a lot more people are looking and noticing his mistakes. When I agree to be in a friend's project at the same time as a family dinner on the night before an important exam at university, I'm disappointing 5 to 15 people at most.

Dream's audience is way larger than that, but that doesn't mean his mistakes are any different than mine. And if my friends can understand and forgive me, same as when they do the same to me and i forgive them, why wouldn't I extend that sentiment to him? Just because he's famous?

"but it's his job" well, what are you gonna do? Fire him? The other stuff he's busy with is probably work related as well so yeah, squid craft is probably just lower on his work priority list. And he's still trying to attend, he didn't say he's 100% not participating. Chill

Feeling disappointed is totally normal and valid, but that's where it's stops. Being disappointed doesn't give you the right to lash out, be rude or agressive towards Dream. Because even tho his actions caused you to feel that way. It's not his responsibility to cater to it, to compensate you or anything. It's not his fault.

If you're angry and crying and throwing a fucking tantrum over some change in plans, that's a you problem fam. Go to therapy to learn how to deal with frustration, idk.

(this is all @ the crybaby anon btw)

IT'S NOT HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO CATER TO IT SAY IT LOUDERRRR ANON