#i gatekeep stuff i really love sighsigh

[circe-butbetter]

hi! i hope it’s okay to ask, but i was curious if you’d be comfortable explaining what your queerplatonic relationship is like? no worries at all if you’d prefer not to share!

Oo ofcourse you can love!

Mentioning my qp partner just because i can rn ( @garden-of-runar )

It feels like having a best friend but on a deeper level because runar isnt my best friend, they're my partner- i've got someone who i know will always be there for me and support me when i feel like shit, and someone who calls me out on my bullshit when im acting idiotic. I wouldnt say its romantic- because its not, lowk it feels like i know rue on a different level than just romantic. Its a queerplatonic relation ship because its queer- its not within societals normal standards and its different for everyone but for me i get to be her partner and get to be his and know that i will always have someone with me and someone i can share stuff with- we talk alot and i dont think i can genuinely get tired of talking to them, she makes me happy and safe. It might seem romantic but honestly? For me i dont frel like- like when i like someone or love someone romatically its different and it feels differentand idk lowk i dont know if i can be the one to say it but i love rue on a different maybe deeper level and i think its basically all platonic. I trust that i have someone to talk to at 3 am when i dont want to bother anyone else and idk sighsigh

Its hard to describe and the thing is its different for everyone

But for me its like having a best friend except its not just having a best friend and its different, and its having a partner but its not romantic, and i feel free to love without feeling restricted? Scared?

I find it hard to describe stuff without specific questions like that i can answer properly- so if you wanna know anything feel free to ask im open to it as long as its not too personal?