#i dont want you feeling unwelcome here xx

[publicaccessgirl]

This is probably weird to be asked but like we're still working with like, a safe word right?

I know you're into rape play, but I'd still insist on a safe word.

Cause no matter the BDSM scene, consent and boundaries have to exist somewhere

Quite genuinely what are you talking about? There's no one here. I am looking around, there's no one in my house. There is no one touching me. I am dealing with a nebulous cloud of horny men who, based on how many DMs I get despite saying I don't talk on DMs in my bio, all have terrible reading comprehension. Who am I going to safe word to?

If I were negotiating meeting up with someone then sure, but I am not. This is all just chat. And I control it, mate. I delete asks I don't like. I've even blocked a couple people here and there (although not many, people are overwhelming respectful) (not respectful in that they're kind to me, I get a lotta juicy rape threats, but respectful in that they stick to what I'm asking for on this blog. Which is rape threats)

Like, when do you think I should be safe wording? I'm in absolute control here. It never goes beyond my comfort level. I regularly log out of the entire blog to go about my actual life. Like rn, I have a cold so I'm not present much cos I feel gross and headachy :(

If you're talking about like roleplaying the administration of setting up a genuine cnc scene, I don't wanna do that. Admin roleplay is, I think, not a kink of mine. Negotiating boundaries is obviously required if you're meeting in person, but I just ain't doing that! So I'm just carrying on about the fun bits, like getting fingered in public by someone I've never met before while I cry

I don't have a list of kink dislikes because piss used to be one and I've learnt it's kinda cool to be exposed to new things. This is a very safe and controlled environment for me and I like to explore

I realise my approach to this blog is fairly selfish, but I'm totally comfortable with that. I log in when I'm horny and want to interact here. I log out when I'm done. In turn, y'all get free pics of my tits and the occasional piss vid. That's the deal, and I think people are mostly okay with that! (Except the few I have blocked, who mostly were just getting annoyed that I didn't respond personally to them and tried to spam me lol. Block, babey, watch me)

My photos are real, but I'm in control of them. The text stuff is plain fantasy. I don't need to safe word cos I can just log tf out. This isn't real, there is no threat to it, it is just a blog. You're welcome to stick to cnc fantasy that involves a safe word, but I like to feel it like it's real. Cos it's not real, it's all just in my head here

I have an ex who wasn't into rape play at all, but insisted we have a safe word. I was like, "would you ever continue to fuck me if I said no or stop?" And he was like, "absolutely not! I'd stop immediately babe" and I pointed out that means we don't need a safe word. A safe word is for when we take away the meanings of no and stop.

He didn't really get it, he wanted a safe word. So we had one that I never used cos I'd just say like I don't feel like fucking tonight and then we wouldn't. I think it made him feel cool to tell people we had a safe word. He was a bit of a loser tbh

I have replaced the idea of safe wording here with the power to a. Not reply to a message, b. Block people and, c. Log out

You have a kind heart to consider safe wording necessary, but sometimes consent and control can take a different form. This interaction, like all on this blog, is one sided and I am in control of it ❤️