#i dont understand how riding can be described as something the penetrator does but whatever

[nopeferatu]

og nopeferatu followers will remember that one time i made a post asking if other people had ever heard the term "riding" in nsfw works used to describe the act of penetrating a person instead of someone being penetrated cowgirl style, because i see it a lot in brokeback mountain fanfiction, but i had never ever seen it used that way anywhere else before. i'm pretty sure i got two yeses, but like. they'd basically only heard it once themselves too

well i can confirm that it really and truly isnt just limited to brokeback mountain fanfic lol?? there's this artist who's getting big on tiktok lately bc he keeps making gay pop punk and country songs, and he's used "ride me" in his songs a few times even tho he makes it explicit that the narrator is the one being penetrated:

anyways. just an update on my findings.