#i didn't apologise which i would've done previously

[soreheadinamblemood]

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[byemizumikahago]

There's this one dude that's been spamming anti-Komahina and anti-Nagito shit recently. Goes by doomsminion. It's kind of uncanny to me just how very similar they are to mizumi. Dude is obsessive to the point of dredging up posts about Komahina from as far back as 7-10 years ago to reply to.

How did you ask this question anonymously? I could've sworn I had that feature disabled.

I've looked into them a bit more, and, if I'm being quite honest... they aren't like mizumi. like, at all. I don't even think I need to dm them to ask them, it's just plain obvious that they're two different people. For one, their typing styles are extremely different. I've analysed mizumi's manner of speech in many posts previously, so you can look through those. But looking through @doomsminion's most recent post about komahina (from last sunday), their language is WAY more respectful than mizumi would've ever been had she responded in their place. Either way you sling it, doomsminion's only similarity to mizumi is the fact that they both hate komahina. That is not a valid reason for me to write mountains upon mountains of callout posts about, because doomsminion's done nothing wrong and is well within their right to hold that opinion. mizumi didn't invent the concept of hating komahina/nagito, she was just the most vocal one about it back in the day.

In the case of them "dredging up posts about komahina from [...] 7-10 years ago to reply to"... rirururu's ova essay is the most popular komahina essay in terms of google searches. Like, it's the first thing that pops up when you search "komahina essay" on google. As such, it being outdated and in need of an opposition to argue against it is a perfectly valid motivation for doomsminion to make all of these posts about it. And, if you want my opinion, something being old or outdated doesn't mean it's suddenly not allowed to be talked about. Sure, someone can do something years ago in the past, change for the better, and realise that their actions back then were wrong and apologise for it, and that's all well and good. It does NOT mean, however, that now no one is allowed to critique or reference those actions the person took in that past for, say, educational/awareness purposes. Also, doomsminion literally stated right at the start that these essays are old and do NOT reflect rirururu's current opinions. This directly discourages people from going to harass rirururu, since rirururu doesn't hold the opinions stated in the og essay anymore. (which is another point to them not being like mizumi! Mizumi NEVER shows the opposition in her arguments. In her "Why Komahina (and Kamukoma) isn't canon and never will be" essay, she states at the start that part of her essay is a response to another person's pro-komahina essay... yet she never says what essay she's responding to. This allows her to make up whatever shit she wants in order to paint the opposition in a negative light, because literally no one can contradict her! She never credited the original author! This can also be applied to the real life situation with mizumi's grooming victim, and her numerous responses to them. mizumi never once shows the screenshots where she displayed obvious behaviours of manipulating/grooming [Victim], only all of the bad that [Victim] did. This is a common tactic from abusers, painting others in a bad light by never showing/letting others hear their side, in order for the abuser to paint themselves as the true victim. The one being wronged. The Hero saving the day and expelling all the evil grooming victims/komahina shippers out of their perfect little world. As such, because mizumi never offers leniency, or acknowledges that people can change, or properly credits the original authors, she fully invites harassment to any and all parties she opposes. Compare all of this to doomsminion, who directly credits rirururu, shows screenshots of all of their arguments so that there's no chance of lying or painting the opposition in a negative light, and discourages people harassing rirururu.)

This is my final point, and the most important one for anyone visiting this blog in the current day: I don't care about komahina haters. I've gotten so many dms from people asking me to "cancel this person!!1!" or "cancel that person!1!!!1". Why? Because the person they want me to """cancel""" (heavy quotes) hates komahina. They look at this blog, see ALL of what mizumi has done, and conclude that the worst crime she's committed is NOT grooming a child 9 years younger than her, but instead hating komahina. That, without a doubt, is the single most disrespectful, pathetic, and disgusting thing I've seen from people on this website. People don't care about the victim, people don't care about stopping a criminal in her tracts who's gotten away with grooming a child for the past 3 years now, people only care about their ships. Also, to all the people who see this blog as a """cancellation""" blog, it's not. That's what mizumi thinks it is. To cancel someone, the person being cancelled has to be someone who has done nothing wrong, or has done something so trivial (bonus points if they did it 10 years ago and have changed as a person) that it isn't worth being talked about anymore, such as your favorite pop idol saying pineapple on pizza is the best pizza. Mizumi thinks she's done nothing wrong, and so she thinks she's being cancelled, as opposed to called out. She isn't being cancelled. She groomed a child. That is not something to be cancelled over, that is something to be arrested over.

In conclusion, stop trying to drag random bystanders into my blog because they hate your favorite ship. Report mizumi on any and all social media sites she's on in order to get her banned, and to stop her from potentially grooming more children. Stop trying to ask me what my favorite [X] is, or what games/movies/books I like (like what the fuck? this is actually a real dm i got), I am not a celebrity. I am an anonymous user on this platform, sharing my experiences, and using this blog as a safe space for other victims to share their experiences THROUGH ME out of fear that they will be targeted by mizumi. Please only think of me as this blog, and as my words. Not as the face behind the monitor, typing all of this out. After all of this is over and Mizumi has been successfully expelled from the internet, I do not wish to be perceived anymore. I want to move on and live my life comfortably. After all of this is over, I want all of the victims to move on and be safe and happy and no longer afraid for their lives or experience nightmares or panic attacks over what mizumi did to them. After all of this is over, I want the fandoms mizumi was in to move on, but never forget mizumi's actions, and to warn newcomers to the community about her/people like her, in order to keep all of these young, naive children safe from being taken advantage of all over again, and restarting the cycle of abuse. After all of this is over, I want the world to be a slightly safer and happier place than it was before (But I can never wish for it to be fully safe and happy; that is far too idealistic. But I can settle for just slightly).

And to @doomsminion, sorry you're getting cancelled over this! I wish I knew who anon was so that you could block them, but if you have any clue who they are, I'm sure you can handle this yourself.

[v-hope]

Someone speaks badly about you on a show

—and they defend you, ofc.

Pairings: OT7 x Reader

Genre: I guess fluff for default, angst

Request by @ally22042000: "Hey, I saw that request for reactions are open. Can I have one with the boys ( just Yoongi and JK if all of them are to much), where they are at an award show or interview or something like that and someone talks disrespectfull about the reader? Thx so much💜 and have a nice day."

A/N: I hope this is what you had in mind, I enjoyed writing these 💕 Also, you're an idol in a couple of them and in the rest you're not. I hope you like it!

Kim Seokjin

Your boyfriend absolutely lived for whenever he got asked to be an MC at award shows.

So, naturally, he was very hyped up once he was handed his lines and had to go up on stage with two other idols – one of them being his good friend of many years, and the other one being a new artist who had debuted last year.

It was simple. Read the cards. Just read the goddamn paper notes you had been given and that was it. But, apparently, the idol by his side was way too new to this whole thing, for instead of reading what he had been handed to, he fixed his eyes on Jin to his side.

"Thank God I got to be with the fun one of your relationship".

Seokjin's eyes went to lock with his out of instinct, having not really processed what had just happened yet.

"The fun one?" his eyebrows furrowed.

"Yeah" the idol nodded his head. "Y/N would've made this so boring".

Jin glanced for a brief second to his friend, as if to verify he had heard just the same and his mind wasn't making it up – his awkward expression itself doing that for him.

Nonetheless, as much as he wanted to snap at him, he decided to be the better one, maybe just because he knew he was still live and didn't want to make a scene right in front of everyone.

That didn't stop him from putting him in his place though.

"Then you clearly haven't had the pleasure to meet her and witness her high class humour" Jin spoke into the camera, later placing his eyes on his friend. "Don't you think, hyung-nim?"

"I have never laughed harder than with her, Seokjin-ssi" he replied immediately.

And then out of nowhere, Jin dug his hand in his pocket, throwing multiple heart shaped red papers that had everyone screaming in a second. "Love you, baby. Don't let anyone tell you you're not funny".

What's the saying? Kill 'em with kindness? Well, Seokjin had just slayed that poor guy's soul.

Min Yoongi

"Hey, it's BTS!" the MC greeted cheerfully once the seven guys came on the shot.

One by one, they went up to her to give her a quick hug before they took their place standing next to her.

Up until then, everything was fine, and maybe things would've remained that way if she had just said nothing after Yoongi hugged her. Instead, she laughed, catching him off guard.

"At least you are polite" she shook her head in amusement.

Yoongi pouted naturally because of his confusion. "Who of us hasn't been polite?"

"Oh, no. Not you" she shook her head one more time, only to clarify: "Your girlfriend".

"Y/N-ssi?" Hobi was the one to ask on his hyung's behalf, being just as puzzled as everyone else by that statement.

At the nod of confirmation coming from the MC, Yoongi brought the microphone up to his lips. "But you've never even met her, where'd you get that from?"

"The video of her not even looking at the paps taking pictures... when you were at the airport the other day".

Yoongi's hold on the mic tightened, suddenly becoming protective of you. "So just because she's a private person she's impolite?"

"She didn't even acknowledge your fans. Come on, that was just very–"

"She's not an idol" he cut her off. "She doesn't have to put up with all of this, especially when she's not comfortable with all the attention".

"She should've known this would happen when she decided to date you".

"Guys…" Namjoon tried to stop both of them from arguing any further, for they had apparently forgotten they were still live.

But Yoongi was already done, slightly shaking his head before he put an end to it for once and for all: "She's given up enough for me already, I'm not asking her to be all bubbly around paps or our fans when she clearly isn't comfortable with it. If that's impolite to you then go off, I guess, but I'm the one dating her and I know better".

On to the next topic now.

Jung Hoseok

"Hoseok!" the girl interviewing them read effusively on her phone.

They had been interviewed person by person that day, since a few influencers had gotten the chance to record short clips with BTS to upload to their social media. This one, so far, had been one of their favourites, for its dynamics consisted in nothing but the young woman going through her Twitter reading fan questions or just letting them know about cute comments they had made.

However, that was soon to change when she caught Hobi's attention, continuing: "I loved you in the concert last week, I got to meet Y/N and she was the cu– oh, irrelevant much?" she mumbled with a small, breathy laugh, before dismissing the topic and scrolling down in search of another tweet.

Hoseok's eyebrows knitted together. "Wha–"

"Oh, here's a good one" she smiled as if nothing had happened, as if she had not heard him; having the seven men exchange uncomfortable glances. "Jimin, you and your girlfriend are such couple goals, I can't w–"

"Um…" Hoseok cut her off, stealing a quick glance to Jimin, who looked just as out of it, before his eyes fell back on the girl's. "How come Jimin's girlfriend is worth talking of and mine isn't?"

"She's an idol" she answered as if it was evident.

His jaw tightened. "So people are only worthy when they're famous now?"

"Well, no..." she uselessly tried to fix it.

"Then I believe you should respect her enough not to call her irrelevant or skip comments at the mention of her".

"But there's nothing interesting about Y/N anyway, so…"

That was all Hobi needed to turn his head to look at his members before he shook his head in defeat. "We're done here, guys. I'm not listening to any more of this nonsense".

Neither were they, which is why they were all soon to follow your boyfriend out of there.

Kim Namjoon

"So, Namjoon-ah" the entertainer's eyes focused on him, "I watched a few pictures of you at your girlfriend's graduation the other day" he smiled. "You guys looked so cute!"

A big smile spread over Joon's lips, recalling the pride he had felt that day because of you, being the happiest to have been able to be there for you.

"Aw, thank you" he said truthfully, his dimples making their appearance. "I'm really proud of her".

"You are?" the man asked.

Now, there were two ways to say those words. One with a genuinely intrigued tone, and one that was looking to offend. In this case, given not only his tone but also the way his eyebrows had raised in impression, it had been clear to everyone present that his intention had been the latter.

"I am" he stated simply, hoping that would be as much as the host would say about the topic before he moved on to the next one.

It was not.

"Don't you ever wish you were with someone more successful though?"

Namjoon's jaw tightened visibly, his eyes turning colder. "What does that even mean?"

"I'm just saying, you're Kim Namjoon" the man shifted on his seat. "Worldwide known idol, producer, rapper… whereas she's just… ordinary".

The way he had said that last word made it seem like being like that was the worst of things, and Namjoon did not like it one bit.

"Her achievements are just as important as mine" he was fast to talk in your defence. "Just because she isn't a part of the idol industry doesn't mean her dreams and passions are any less worthy of recognition than mine".

That alone had the interviewer apologising in a second, realising then how bad he had messed up. Because, in all honesty, Namjoon couldn't really care any less about you being famous or not – he would always be proud of you and your achievements no matter what.

Park Jimin

"Ah, Park Jimin!" the host exclaimed after a picture of you had popped up on the screen in between them. "You really got lucky with this one, didn't you?"

That sure did bring a bright smile to his lips, for he absolutely lived for these moments, when people acknowledged how beautiful you were.

Nonetheless, that smile of his was soon erased when the same guy added: "You should control her more, though".

With that and a frown adorning your boyfriend's face, the picture previously displaying on the screen was gone and replaced with one of you in a night dress from two days ago instead.

"Control her more?" Jimin asked through gritted teeth.

"Yeah" he nodded his head. "She has a boyfriend now, she can't go around looking that hot, it might get the wrong attention".

Now, Jimin himself hadn't really liked it when you went out dressed like that, but he was your boyfriend, so he did have some kind of right to feel a little jealous of other guys thirsting over his girlfriend when she was out alone with her friends, didn't he?

This guy, however? Neither what he said was appropriate on so many levels, nor did he have the right to talk about you and your outfit like that.

"I think you should think before you speak and induce people to have unhealthy relationships" your boyfriend spoke in a low, calm voice.

Controlling you? What kind of bullshit was that?

"Come on now, I was joking" the man brushed it off with a laugh, and a very nervous one at that.

"Were you really?" Jimin raised one of his eyebrows, not believing a word. "Even if you were" he went on before the guy could open his mouth to reply, "you should maybe reflect on yourself and, instead of telling me how to treat my girlfriend because of how provocative she looks, think of why you, a guy who's over his forties, thinks that way of someone who could easily be his daughter".

He had not been rude. He had not raised his voice. Yet he did somehow manage to look so fucking scary to the man in front.

Kim Taehyung

"Y/N?" the interviewer asked in disbelief, only to scoff after receiving a nod of confirmation from Tae. "Of course she'd end up with one of you guys".

Not only did Taehyung's eyebrows furrow in that moment, but so did everyone else's – his members exchanging dumbfounded looks as your boyfriend looked to the guy in front dead in the eye.

"One of us?"

"Mhm" the guy replied simply. "She always seems to be with whoever is the most famous at the moment, so..." he shrugged.

"She's only been with other two people?" Taehyung raised one of his eyebrows.

"Who just so happened to be the moment's sensation" he reminded him. "And now she's with you".

"You can't help who you fall for" your boyfriend's stare became colder by the second.

"She's just going to break things off with you as soon as your moment of fame passes".

That was it.

"Okay, no" his voice came out like pure venom. "If she broke up with them, it's merely because they were both complete assholes to her".

"Taehyung…" Namjoon discreetly squeezed his wrist from his side.

"No, hyung" he shook his head before fixing his enraged eyes back on the interviewer. "She's the sweetest person there is, it's not her fault us guys fall for her. And it's not her fault either to have dated guys who don't deserve her. She did well to dump them, and I know she won't leave me just because of my fame's status".

And then, as everyone in the room remained silent, being absolutely perplexed by such situation, he shook his head in disappointment once again at the sight of the guy's desperate attempt to come up with something else to say.

"You know" he beat him to it, "for such an overrated interviewer, you are so goddamn misinformed".

Good thing this would get bleeped out by the editors later, that if they ever wanted this to air at all.

Jeon Jeongguk

"It's been a while since we last were together, hasn't it?" the host spoke after they had all sat down on the sofa placed in front of her. "A lot has happened since then…" a cheeky grin curved up her lips when her eyes fell on Jeongguk, "like the maknae finally getting himself a girlfriend?"

A shy bunny smile didn't wait to part Guk's lips, meanwhile his six hyungs started being chaotic like they, by this point, always were.

"He did" Namjoon was the one to answer for him, fondly patting his shoulder.

"Well, congratulations! It was about time you got someone" the woman said with a smile. "Though I must admit I never thought I'd see you with someone like her".

Your boyfriend's previous smile was replaced by slightly parted lips. "Someone like her?"

"I mean" the woman tried to get her point across, "you've said multiple times that IU is your ideal type, and Y/N's just…" she scrunched her nose in a displeased manner, "she's not exactly…"

Oh, no. There was no way in hell Jeongguk was letting her finish that sentence; the idea itself making him mad. That was the reason his shy side was long gone, being replaced by his protective one instead, which had quickly taken over him.

"She's stunning" Guk spoke in a low, determined voice. "IU is just a celebrity crush. Y/N's the woman I am in love with" he established without hesitation. "I really don't understand why you're bringing this up".

Although taken aback by Jeongguk's sudden way with his words, not having expected such outburst coming from the quietest member when it came to interviews, the woman went on:

"I'm just sayin–"

"No" Guk cut her off, shaking his head hastily, "you have nothing to say about my preferences, you don't get a say on us".

End of conversation.