#i bring a sort of “this is platonic/queerplatonic” vibe to my hamuko and shinji cuddling fic that the amatonormativity believers do not lik | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

faradaykay · 1 year ago

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actually thinking about this more bc ykw. i think amatonormativity is genuinely so boring. sometimes i will see people act like a relationship between two characters has to be romantic bc of a certain way affection was shown and it's like. do you even have fun in your friendships or do you let amatonormative beliefs haunt you out of non-romantic intimacy

i am so obsessed with the concept of relationship anarchy. i think more people should give up entirely on the concept of traditional relationships and blur the lines between friendship and romance with all of the people they love

#srb #squishy talks too much #legit never forgiving those of yall who decided cuddles are romantic btw #hugs literally improve our health by giving us happy chemicals to the brain. why would we reserve cuddling for only if you have an s/o #i saw a meme on twitter today that was like #boys will be like “we're just friends” and then do this (a pic of boys cuddling)#it was clearly ironic but like. what if they ARE just friends and doing that. what if twitter.#is that too radical for yall in 2023 #(it's not that deep i am not mad at the meme btw sometimes those memes are funny and sometimes relationships are obviously romantic coded)#but like. some of you could do to tear down the rigid boxes of relationship types you've built up #and accept the complexity of human feelings #don't let the tiktoks telling you that queerplatonic love is made up by aroaces to be special get to you #and i cannot emphasize enough that queerplatonic love isn't an aroace exclusive experience #i bring a sort of “this is platonic/queerplatonic” vibe to my hamuko and shinji cuddling fic that the amatonormativity believers do not lik #i also wanna add in hindsight that i think there’s something to be said about the way yall act differently #if it’s two boys showing affection

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