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Iâm thinking about the misguided advice in Marabel Morganâs 1974 book Total Woman, which came out in 1974. Those were the days of tumult over feminism versus traditional womanhood, both rather muddled and culturally driven concepts. Quite a few of us young military wives on the base read that book, touted as it was as a Christian perspective, and young and naive as we were, I know some of my friends and I adopted some of her suggestions. But the book always smacked a bit to me of manipulation. Responding to a nudge today, I looked her up on Wikipedia, and this is a quote they had from her book, and reading it now makes me shudder at the downright ungodliness, not of her suggestions in and of themselves, but of the motivation behind them:
âIt taught that âA Total Woman caters to her manâs special quirks, whether it be in salads, sex or sports,â[2]Â and is perhaps best remembered for instructing wives to greet their man at the front door wearing sexy outfits; suggestions included âa cowgirl or a showgirl.â âItâs only when a woman surrenders her life to her husband, reveres and worships him and is willing to serve him, that she becomes really beautiful to him,â Morgan wrote.
So ⌠my husband is so brain-dead and flagrantly self-indulgent that the only way I can appear beautiful to him is if I make myself scantily clad slave Princess Leia on a chain to Jabba the Hut? I remember something in the book alluding to the way to get your husband to buy you new luggage, or whatever you wanted. Manipulation, idolatry, slavery, groveling, demanding, yech!
Where is true love, loving each other for the person on the inside? Where was Marabelâs truly biblical advice, rather Godâs commandment, to worship and revere God alone, and serve God first and before all? Out of loving God, honoring and grateful for the sacrificial love God showed us in Jesus dying on the cross for our sins, we give love to those around us, not to manipulate them or finnagle their love, but to truly love THEM as unique individuals created in Godâs image, valuable because they are, and loved by God. I was willing to serve my husband, but not willing to enable or encourage him to do what Godâs Word calls sin. Iâm sorry, Marabel, but If personal integrity made me âunattractiveâ to him, then was his love truly love, or was it also self-driven manipulation for selfish motives?
The Bibleâs âposter girlâ for self-driven unscrupulous manipulation is Queen Jezebel. From her example, her name now means a conniving, seductive, manipulative woman.
King Ahab, indifferent to Godâs commands to only marry a Jewish woman who worshiped God Almighty so he would not be led to worship false gods, married a foreign woman who worshipped other gods than the God of Israel, Yahweh, Olam El, the Lord God Almighty. Here is a summary of Jezebelâs life, from https://www.thoughtco.com/who-was-jezebel-2076726
âJezebelâs story is recounted in 1 Kings and 2 Kings, where she is described as a worshiper of the god Baâal and the goddess Asherah â not to mention as an enemy of Godâs prophets. As King Ahabâs wife, Jezebel mandated that her religion should be the national religion of Israel and organized guilds of prophets of Baâal (450) and Asherah (400).
As a result, Jezebel is described as an enemy of God who was âkilling off the Lordâs prophetsâ (1 Kings 18:4).  In response, the prophet Elijah accused King Ahab of abandoning the Lord and challenged Jezebelâs prophets to a contest. (Elijah and the One True God won the contest, and fire from Heaven burned up the prophets of Baâal)
Although Jezebel was one of King Ahabâs many wives, 1 and 2 Kings make it apparent that she wielded a considerable amount of power. The earliest example of her influence occurs in 1 Kings 21, when her husband wanted a vineyard belonging to Naboth the Jezreelite. Naboth refused to give his land to the king because it had been in his family for generations. In response, Ahab became sullen and upset. When Jezebel noticed her husbandâs mood, she inquired after the cause and decided to get the vineyard for Ahab. She did so by writing letters in the kingâs name commanding the elders of Nabothâs city to accuse Naboth of cursing both God and his King. The elders obliged and Naboth was convicted of treason, then stoned. Upon his death, his property reverted to the king, so in the end, Ahab got the vineyard he wanted.
At Godâs command, the prophet Elijah then appeared before King Ahab and Jezebel, proclaiming that because of their actions, âThis is what the Lord says: In the place where dogs licked up Nabothâs blood, dogs will lick up your blood â yes, yours!â (1 Kings 21:17).
Elijahâs prophesy at the end of the narrative of Nabothâs vineyard comes true when Ahab dies in Samaria and his son, Ahaziah, dies within two years of ascending the throne. He is killed by Jehu, who emerges as another contender for the throne when the prophet Elisha declares him King. ⌠According to 2 Kings 9:30-34, Jezebel and Jehu meet soon after the death of her son Ahaziah. When she learns of his demise, she puts on makeup, does her hair, and looks out a palace window only to see Jehu enter the city. She calls to him and he responds by asking her servants if they are on his side. âWho is on my side? Who?â he asks, âThrown her down!â (2 Kings 9:32).
Jezebelâs eunuchs then betray her by throwing her out the window. She dies when she hits the street and is trampled by horses.â
Uh, itâs clear to me that God is serious about being the one and only object of our worship, reverence, and first obedience. Bad things happen when we put anyone or anything else on the âthroneâ of our lives! And no, God is NOT a narcissist; God is the Creator, Author of the Universe, Holy, Good, Righteous, Merciful, Powerful, Authority, Kind, Just, and Loving, all together and no aspect of His character ruling out the others.
You open Your hand And satisfy the desire of every living thing. The LORD is righteous in all His ways And kind in all His deeds. The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth.âŚPsalm 145:16-18
Righteous and Kind, Just and Merciful, Holy. Here are clear directives from the Bible on Who is to come first in our lives:
And he (Satan) led Him (Jesus) up and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. And the devil said to Him, âI will give You all this domain and its glory; for it has been handed over to me, and I give it to whomever I wish. âTherefore if You worship before me, it shall all be Yours.â Jesus answered him, âIt is written, âYOU SHALL WORSHIP THE LORD YOUR GOD AND SERVE HIM ONLY.ââ Away from me, Satan!â Jesus declared. âFor it is written: âWorship the Lord your God and serve Him only.'â
⌠Luke 4: 5-8, 10
âI am the LORD your God. You shall have no other gods before Me.â Exodus 20: 3
âYou shall fear only the LORD your God; and you shall worship Him and swear by His name. Deuteronomy 6:13
âfor you shall not worship any other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous GodâExodus 34:14
âYou shall fear only the LORD your God; and you shall worship Him and swear by His name. âYou shall not follow other gods, any of the gods of the peoples who surround you,â Exodus 6: 13-14
Then Samuel spoke to all the house of Israel, saying, âIf you return to the LORD with all your heart, remove the foreign gods and the Ashtoreth from among you and direct your hearts to the LORD and serve Him alone; and He will deliver you from the hand of the Philistines.â 1 Samuel 7: 3
For great is the LORD and greatly to be praised; He is to be feared above all gods. For all the gods of the peoples are idols, But the LORD made the heavens. Psalm 96: 4-5
âBut an hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for such people the Father seeks to be His worshipers. John 4: 23
For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus EVERY KNEE WILL BOW, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2: 9-11
Yes, I am to love my husband and respect him. Equally true, my husband is to love and respect me as his wife. Mutually we submit ourselves and our wills to God and what He wants for our marriage and family. Thatâs the way God intended marriage to reflect His unity, integrity and upright love that calls the beloved to purity and righteousness.
âDo nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped⌠Philippians 2: 3-8
So Marabel, no; husbands should not seek to be revered and worshiped and served, but as Jesus showed us all to serve one another out of humility and giving love, and wives should do the same.
https://www.biblegateway.com/resources/all-women-bible/Jezebel-No-1
No matter from what angle we approach the life of Jezebel she stands out as a beacon to both nations and individuals that the wages of sin is death. Further, from this great tragic figure of literature and of history we learn how important it is for the influence of a wife and mother to be on the side of all that is good and noble.
If I truly love another person, I ought to be about encouraging and enabling the best, truest, noblest, most upright, God-honoring choices and attitudes in them. I go back to 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 to the definition of genuine love: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
So, Truly Total Woman, honor and worship God first, and your respect and love for you husband will fall into proper place. Total Husbands, same goes for you. Total Singles, same thing: call forth, encourage, support and enable the best and truest, most righteous and kind and good in others. Thatâs what we all should be about, regardless of relationship to each other.
   Marabel or Jezebel Or Godâs Total Woman? I'm thinking about the misguided advice in Marabel Morgan's 1974 book Total Woman, which came out in 1974.
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