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johndonneswife · 9 months ago

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WOW congrats on your wedding! When are you getting married? And if you have advice to give how do I feel comfortable in a long term relationship as a depressed and anxious gay lol my biggest fear is that my girlfriend will cheat on me or get bored and I don’t know how to overcome that

thank u 🤍🥹 we are getting married this summer :)

i don’t think i have any helpful advice tbh i am way too trusting and have always worn my heart on my sleeve so i honestly can’t relate to feeling anxious or fearing that my partner will cheat on me…but because you have already identified these patterns in yourself that means you can work on them and maybe heal your inner child/attachment issues? and like…just let yourself be loved and stop questioning why?

#im sorry haha idk what else to say really…#i make most decisions this way: accepting life is short and doing whatever is in my power to grab whatever love comes my way #and have as much fun as i can / do as much as i can / try as much as i can #while i still can #in the end you are the only one holding yourself back and depriving yourself of comfort & pleasure #idk i know that way of thinking doesn’t just make everything better and doesn’t just make your fears go away rofl #just like. think about the possibility of everything going right instead of thinking abt what could go wrong #wake up every day and think about that. wake up every day and tell yourself you are deserving of love and not everyone is out to hurt you #neural pathways babe - you gotta rewrite the script here #positive thinking / feeling / acting #it might sound like bullshit but that’s the only thing that’s worked for me. for what it’s worth #anyway now im done i wish i had something more helpful for you!!!#i am also just incredibly lucky to have found someone like ayesha who has always seen all my flaws and shortcomings and has loved me anyway #and has loved all the parts of me without hesitation. and has been so patient.#it was lucky. im lucky!!!#anonymous #me: idk what to say #me: keeps talking #classic #not ‘loved me anyway’ but she has just loved ME for everything i am/am not #and i hope you find that too

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