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An alloromantic just explained crushes to me + gave me dating advice and i’m like… no to all that?
#damn i’m aro as fuck#i HATE ITTTT UGHHEHHET HEJEWISJEK#LIKE I HATE THAT I’M NOT FULLY ARO BUT STILL VERY BERRY ARO LIKE BROOOOO FUCK YOU CHOOSE A SIDE#they said a crush is like. just a fascination with someone from far away. a curiosity. wanting to know more about them and i’m like…#that’s not romantic bud i get that too but it doesn’t make me do a twirl and kick my feet and get a burning desire to get freaky#they said no it IS romantic cuz they like them and stuff. but would like to get to know them better to see if the feelings stick. which likw#yep i’m aro as fuck but i get it now. it’s like wanting to be friends with someone but freaky edition /j#no no not like that i’m kidding but i do get it. that’s why they call it a talking stage…#but still i just don’t understand how someone would giggle and blush over an interesting stranger but i get that like yeah okay go ahead#we LOVE not experiencing primary attraction#and the dating advice was: dating is like making friends. it doesn’t have to be so complicated. and that is what made me go nope to all that#I don’t play around when it comes to people’s feelings. I don’t fuck around and find out with that. because i know how serious#romantic feelings get. like what if the other person is so enamored and in love with me and i just eventually realize that i just can’t like#them back (demiromantic moment) like what then? that’s so fucking cruel. no…#like glad that worked for you and other people since i know most people don’t take dating as serious as i do but like. kinda wish people did#whatever it’s whatever. i knew from the beginning that i’d never fully understand the allo experience but i do understand it better now ig
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