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Chapter 5

Introduction: Whitney Goodwinson was planning on inheriting one of her deceased grandmother's properties, but not a little house off the coast of North Carolina.  As she struggles to meet new people, fix up her new property, deal with troublemaker JJ Maybank, and perfect her grandmother's infamous lemonade she might just find that the Outer Banks has more to offer than it seems.

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Turns out JJ had been working at the “Lemon House” since he was 12 years old. The local kids had apparently been calling it that since before the dawn of time. The house belonged to Grandmother and her family, it was the only property that had ever been completely hers. During the summertime to make extra money, they would sell fresh-squeezed lemonade. I hadn't noticed it before but in the trees to the right of the house was a small greenhouse with a lemon tree grove inside. After Grandmother married Grandfather she would only come for the month of July and her lemonade stand would be packed. JJ said that it was the best months when “Vicky” would come stay at the house and make fresh lemonade for all of the kids. Apparently, the house was “neutral territory” from the two sides of the island, Figure Eight and the Cut. Figure Eight was home to the Kooks, the rich side of Outer Banks. Apparently, Kooks are stuck up, rich, ruthless brats who never had to work a day in their lives.

“You’d fit right in with them, sunshine,” JJ laughed reaching for another beer out of the ice chest. We were sitting on the dock in front of the Lemon House. After our little confrontation, JJ made another joke about my ass, and then I decided he was alright. Grandmother trusted him, so I trust him. Grandmother had a way of figuring people out. Some called her two-faced but she was just trying to survive. So I decided to give JJ and myself a break by day drinking. I honestly hated controlling people, who didn’t deserve it of course and just wanted to test JJ and see how he would react. 

“Please you don’t even know me,” I stated, sipping some of my beer which had gotten a little warm. I still couldn't believe the heat of this place, it was excruciating. 

“We could fix that you know, get to know each other a little better. I could even think of a few boning exercises we could, uh, participate in,” said JJ with another smirk. He’d been making these kinds of jokes all day and it was getting old. The first few times I felt something in the pit of my stomach, but then realized this is just probably how JJ acted all the time.  

“Ha, ha no thank you. Please continue your East Egg, West Egg story.” 

“I still don’t get your references, but whatever. So the Kooks think that they own the whole island just because they can use their daddies money to buy anything they want.”

“Ew.”

“Ew?”

“Yeah ew that’s gross, why would their parents let them do that? They won't learn anything about the real world and hard work if they piggyback on their parents' wealth.” 

“What and you’re not like that, miss ‘this is my house, my rules,’” said JJ mimicking my voice to sound like a prepubescent boy. 

“Oh shut up, I was just seeing if you would pass the test.” 

“Oh what test, you just wanted an excuse to get close to me.”

“Shut up and finish your story!” I said impatiently. 

“Nuh not until you explain your ‘hard work makes you a better person’ bullshit.”

“Hey hard work does make you a better person, look my family is very well off, obviously, who just gives away houses, but when I turned 18 I was on my own, cut off from my parents and grandparents money. My grandfather grew up in a small mountain town in California with a population of maybe 500 people. During the wintertime, these rich families would come and stay at these fancy resorts where he was a waiter. He worked at that place for eight years. He worked his ass off through college and medical school where he showed he had talent, not because of his parents’ bank account or by how many boats he owned, but by pure talent and it paid off. He had it all: a beautiful wife, three children, and a whole lot of money. Then when my aunt turned 18, she was cut off and had to start over just like he did, but my grandfather taught her and the rest of his children about hard work and dedication. My father taught me the same morals, so growing up while my boarding school friends got to go to parties all the time and go to Vegas for three day weekends I was working as our librarian's assistant. 

“Wait, you went to boarding school?” 

“Really that’s what you got from my story, really?” 

“Yeah pretty much also you were a librarian?”

“I was an assistant librarian, anyways you still need to finish your story! You already told me about the Soches I need to know who the Greasers are.” 

“Are you even speaking English? Anyways the other side of the island, The Cut, is home of the Pogues, the greatest people in the world,” he said with a smirk.

“Oh I’m sure.”

“Anyways we’re basically the bottom of the barrel, low life troublemakers according to everyone else. I don’t really mind it. I like the life I live and wouldn't change it for the world. We get to do what we want whenever we want” 

“Hm sounds nice, but what are your plans for the future” 

“Honestly I thought I would be in jail at this point,” he said completely honestly.

“You’re joking.”

“No, I’m not! I mean two years ago there was this hurricane and some friends and I kinda caught a break and stumbled upon a treasure hunt kinda thing that was supposed to change everything, but it turned out to be a bust,” he said sipping more of his beer. He had a sad look in his eyes so I decided to hold back my Goonies joke and changed the subject. 

“So, Pogues basically live like there's no tomorrow?”

“Yeah, basically. After this summer things are gonna change though.” 

“Why’s that?”

“Well my friends and I all graduated, some are even going to college, but me and my friend John B are just gonna work for a while.”  

“Wait, you graduated high school?” I joked 

“Yeah, I’m not as stupid as I look”

“You sure about that?”

“You’ve known me for, what, a day? Even less? You don’t know me,” he had a satisfied look on his face so I decided to keep my observations to myself. There were still some holes to fill, but I had a pretty good idea of who JJ Maybank was. I was guessing a single household and judging by his crude behavior and drinking habit he probably lived with his father. Past tense, of course, the way he talked about his friend John B’s house made it seem like it was his as well. What I really didn’t want to bring up was the obvious abuse from his father. From the way, he joked, didn’t care about his future, and faded scars suggested that he had either gone to war or had an abusive relative. If he was smart he would go into the Army or the Navy to do something with his life, but JJ seemed more free-spirited than that. So for now I guess he’ll mow Grandmother's lawn. 

“Ha, you’d be surprised how well I can read people,” just then I got the dreaded text saying that Rafe was picking me up in 20 minutes, “ugh I have to go get ready for dinner before you go can you tell me your work schedule?” 

“Oh right yeah,” I wanted to believe that there was disappointment in his eyes, but quickly pushed those thoughts down, “Um I usually mow the lawn once a week, trim the hedges every other week, and weed the garden and pick lemons every other day” 

“What have you been doing with the lemons?” 

“Oh I just take them to the farmers market and sell them”

“Ah, so you’re stealing from my property now?” I teased. 

“Oh no, no it’s not like that I just didn't want them to go to waste I mean I didn't-” 

“JJ it’s okay I’m glad you didn’t just throw them away and put them to good use”

“I tried making her lemonade, but it just didn’t seem right,” he said with a sad tone. I really hoped he was being genuine.  

“Oh well, maybe we can try it again? I’d like to continue the tradition for now. Anyways keep to your regular work schedule and I’ll make up a new one for you by the end of this week. Would you be willing to help out with maintenance work? I’d pay you extra.”

“Yeah, yeah that sounds great and I think I can do that” 

“Okay perfect, when will I see you again?”

“Well I’m free tonight if you want to practice those bonding exercises?” he asked, wiggling his eyebrows and smirking like a fool. A cute fool. Stop it, Whitney! 

“I meant your work schedule dumb-ass, when will you be by again to pull the weeds?” 

“Oh um what day is it again?” 

“It’s Friday.” 

“Oh then I’ll be here tomorrow” 

“Alright see you then,” I said, extending my hand for him to shake. 

“Yeah, um see you then,” JJ awkwardly took my hand like it was a dead fish. 

“Is that really how you shake a person’s hand?” 

“Sorry, you just caught me off guard, who shakes hands anymore?”

“Professionals do JJ, next time I extend my hand to you better have a proper handshake”

“I’m on it your majesty,” he said as he saluted me. 

“Goodbye JJ,” I finally said walking back up the stone path.

“Good luck in Kook Land Whitney,” He yelled to me, smiling like a fool. 

It was the first time he had actually said my name and I had to say I liked the way it sounded. 

I quickly got ready for what was going to be the most awkward dinner of my life. Since I didn’t have time to shower or anything (gross) I pulled my hair back into a sleek bun and pinned up any loose hairs. For make-up, I put on my normal country club look and slipped on a white babydoll dress. I kept jewelry simple small diamond studs, with a matching bracelet, and a silver chain necklace with a wave pendant. The necklace was a gift from Grandmother, the last thing she gave me in person. She said that it was special to her and that it would bring me good karma. A lot of good it was doing now, I was on a divided island and was about to have dinner with a bunch of robots. Just then I got a text: 

Rafe: I’m outside when you’re ready 

A true gentleman.

The drive in Rafe’s truck was silent except for the music playing from a local music station. As we drove through Figure Eight I couldn't help but look at all of the beautiful houses. They were huge compared to the small cottage that I was currently living in. They weren't as big as the mansion my parents had just inherited or even my childhood home, but they were beautiful. We drove along a long driveway that came open to the Island Club. When Rafe finally spoke he told me that the club was also a hotel. It looked like it was out of a fairy tale with its peaked roofs and white windows. We pulled into the valet and a man in a white button-down shirt opened the door for me. I was half expecting Rafe to offer me his arm, but he just trudged ahead. We came to a big dining hall where other rich and important families sat. The Camerons were sitting by the front of the dining hall at a rectangle-shaped table next to a ceiling to floor window. It was dusk and the sun was just starting to set outside. It was weird not seeing the sun sink into the ocean, but the sky looked amazing. I was pulled from the stunning view of Rose Carmen's caked face. 

“Whitney! You look exquisite in that dress,” said Rose standing up to greet me with a hug. She was sitting to the right of Ward who was at the head of the table Next to Rose was a young teenage girl with glasses and dark hair. To Ward’s left sat a girl who looked about my age. She had long straight hair that I would die for and tan skin. She held an uninterested look on her face that told me this was the last place she wanted to be.

“You are too kind Mrs. Cameron, I simply cannot compare to your family tonight,” was my rebuttal to the compliment. I wasn't lying this time, the Camerons were a good looking family. I noticed the sour look on one of Rose’s daughters, wait, step-daughter, as she rolled her eyes at me. 

“Oh honey please just call me Rose and you are too kind,” she sat back down and gestured to an empty chair on the other side of the table. I nodded to Ward and took a seat next to the older looking sister and Rafe sat at the other head of the table. 

“Whitney I’d like to introduce you to the rest of our family, this is Wheezie,” she said gesturing to the glasses-wearing girl to her right. 

“It’s nice to meet you Wheezie,” I said, trying to keep the shock/amusement out of my voice. 

“And this is Sarah,” continued Rose now looking at the girl that was seated to my right, unaware of my struggle to stay professional, “I believe you two are the same age.” 

“It’s nice to meet you, Sarah,” I said, turning to look at the girl trying to be nice. I really did want to try and make friends, even if I was only gonna be here for the summer. 

“Likewise,” replied Sarah. Yup, she definitely wanted to be somewhere else. 

“So Whitney, how are takin’ to the OBX?” Ward asked me. Ah so, the interrogation began. 

“It’s been nice. It’s a lot more humid than California, but I think I’ll get used to it” 

“About California, has your family lived there very long?” interrupted Rose, causing a look from Ward.

“Yes, my father’s company headquarters is in San Diego so I’ve lived there all my life.” 

“San Diego?” Sarah surprisingly interrupted, “that’s where SeaWorld is right?”

“Oh that must be so fun to go too, seeing all of those fish and dolphins,” Rose added innocently. Sarah gave her a look of disappointment and was waiting for my answer with anticipation as if this question would shift the way the rest of the night went. I’d have to be careful with my words. 

“Um yes, it is, however my family and I are not supportive of the company. The captivating of Killer Whales is a huge controversy where I’m from. I don’t believe that those creatures should be held in captivity.” There was a pause of silence. 

“That’s really interesting Whitney,” said Rose, not sounding interested at all.

“Thank you, Rose,” I continued pretending I ignored her dull sounding voice, “the abuse of sea life for public enjoyment is not discussed enough in our society. My father's company has donated annually to charities in support of taking care of these issues.” 

“Ah yes interesting indeed,” said Ward taking a long drink of his scotch. I knew it was time to change the subject. 

“So Mr. Cameron do you like fishing?” 

The rest of the night went like this, chatting back and forth about the weather, food, and other things to do in the Outer Banks. The food was amazing: a three-course meal of an appetizer, entree, and dessert. The conversation at the table was basically just Rose, Ward, and me. Rafe would make a few comments when we would talk about fishing and Sarah would bring up the best beaches to go to for tanning. 

“Do you by any chance know of any good beaches for surfing?” I asked. I had been dying to get back in the water and the internet only suggested the most popular beaches. I figured a local would know of the best spots.

“Oh um I’m not really an expert on those beaches, but I have some friends who would know some good places!” said Sarah, at the mention of Sarah’s friends the rest of the table fell silent, “here give me your number and I’ll text you when the next time they go out!” She handed me her phone and I put my number in.

“Thank you so much! My board should be coming on Monday, so anytime after that, I’ll be free,” I said, handing her phone back to her. 

“Cool, how long have you been surfing?” 

“All my life basically, my mother grew up surfing and taught me at a young age and I’ve been surfing ever since” 

“Awesome!”

“Anyways girls we should get going, Whitney, it was so nice to catch up with you,” said Rose coming around the table to give me another hug. 

“Oh the pleasure was all mine,” I said standing up, “it was so nice to get acquainted with you all.”

“Oh, Whitney you must come by our house for brunch some time!”

“Yeah we'll see,” I said trying to lean towards the door not planning on taking her up on the offer.

“Alright Rafe take Whitney home and we’ll see you-“

“Actually,” interrupted Sarah, ���I was thinking I could take Whitney home? She’s been hanging out with Rafe all afternoon and she needs some girl time.” 

She said it as if her parents had already agreed to let her take me home. Before they could say another word Sarah took my hand and pulled me out of the Country Club. 

“Goodbye!” I cried out as Sarah almost pulled my arm out of my socket and out of the restaurant. 

a/n: A little longer chapter and I wont be posting again today :( . Also who didn’t think Wheezies name was kinda ridiculous like I hope I’m not the only one. I’m going to start uploading longer chapters from now on because I just can’t wait for you guys to read more! Thanks again for reading it really means a lot and I’d love your feedback! 

Edit: Also next update will be Monday!

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Learn How to Style for Fall from the Pros

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Pumpkins are popping up in local grocery stores, daisies and daffodils are being swapped for sunflowers and chrysanthemums, and the morning air has a crisp chill that can only be tolerated with a spiced drink in hand. This can only mean one thing: Fall is on its way!

In the fall, the days get shorter and the nights longer. The combination of less light and cold weather causes us to recluse inside of our homes, seeking warmth, comfort and intimacy. Think of your home décor as a response to these instincts.

This season is all about comfort over style and function over form, and here to show us how to transition with grace are professional interior designers and decorators.

Balanced Fall Colors

Fall décor, like most seasonal home décor, follows the example of outdoor colors to influence its style. Think of the colors found in fall trees: deep brown and green, orange and yellow dance into our minds.

However, as you may have noticed, these are all very loud, powerful colors – especially when paired together. That’s why decorating your home with traditional fall colors can be a balancing act – especially because color is known to affect your mood.

Abra Landau, a design expert at Fashion Furniture Rental, suggested balancing the warm, earthy fall tones with complimentary cold neutrals, like light gray. If you’re looking for a more dramatic contrast, Jessica McRae, co-founder of SwatchPop!, dares dark paint, like black, as a baseline color.

“Dark paint is definitely having a moment,” said McRae. “We’re using dark painted walls for a more dramatic effect this fall and winter. Dark painted walls and cabinetry, large-scale artwork, and bold patterns create strong, impactful designs.”

If you’re not ready to commit to dark walls, McRae suggested mixing in darker textiles like fabrics, lighting and accessories to create a strong contrast with the otherwise vibrant fall colors.

Interior Paint – Garden Trowel: $43

Ottoman Pouf Plaid: $60

House Bud Vase: $7 – $13

Comfort Over Style

As the weather gets colder, most homeowners will shift focus from their outdoor spaces and begin to evolve their interior furniture and décor. In response to the colder weather and shorter daylight, fall furniture may turn to the comfortable and functional, rather than the minimal and clean-cut.

Most interior designers agree that there’s been a recent shift from midcentury modern and minimalistic décor, and while it’s not totally being phased out in every home, there’s definitely more focus on what’s comfortable rather than what’s minimal.

“I’m seeing a shift away from straight edges and hard lines,” said Glenna Stone, from Glenna Stone Interior Design. “Furniture is taking on more rounded silhouettes, like curved back sofas along with tables and chests with curved fronts. I think it ties into an overall trend towards softer, comfortable spaces.”

As far as home décor style, two prominent trends seem to be on every interior designer’s mind: bohemian and farmhouse.

“Midcentury modern is a classic style. Its popularity will always persist,” suggested John Linden, interior and furniture designer from Mirror Coop. “However, I’ve noticed a slightly more eccentric bohemian style becoming more popular.”

For those who want to live “la vie Bohème”, Linden suggested paisley prints and quirky floral patterns when updating your home’s style for fall.

Rattan Decorative Tray – $10

Wall Hanging – Ivory: $26

Floral Velvet Throw Pillow: $60

If your style is more Joanna Gains than gypsy, you may have a farmhouse décor style in your home. McRae suggests that while farmhouse style has been growing in popularity, the overall feel of the style is moving from shabby to refined.

“Styles are leaning a little more refined this fall,” explained McRae. “While the farmhouse style is still popular, we’re seeing a lot more of the modern, contemporary farmhouse look rather than the casual, country feel with distressed furniture and chipped paint that was popular in years past.”

Transition your home on the range décor into refined fall style by adding deep colored plaids, primarily buffalo check, into your home décor.

Plaid Table Runner – Blue & Yellow: $25

Natural Cotton Flower: $28

Decorative Birch Pillars: $26

Layered Textures

Continuing on the concept of comfort over minimalist, layering different types of textiles is on trend this fall. There are no rules with clashing colors, patterns and textures, as it’s currently being used to create a homey, eclectic vibe in fall décor.

“Fall will be all about layered textures,” added McRae. “Chunky woven wools, luxurious velvets and tufted textiles create a warm and cozy feel that people crave in cooler months.

McRae suggested incorporating this trend in your home by adding a wool throw blanket to your sofa or at the end of your bed.

Summer metals like silver and rose gold melt into warmer tones like gold and brass this fall, primarily used in accent lighting fixtures and kitchen hardware. Natural, earthy materials, like wood and concrete, are used to compliment fall metals, adding an organic texture to home décor.

The popularity of wallpaper reemerged early this summer, bringing with it a new way to add personal touches to your home and compliment your home décor. For a less-permanent option, try using removable wallpaper so it’s easy to swap out as your style evolves.

Moving away from clean lines and monochromatic home furniture and décor can be nerve-racking – especially for those who identify as midcentury and minimalist. However, if you’re looking to adopt this layered texture trend in your fall home décor, start small by swapping out a few, low-key textiles, like rugs, throws and small decorative pieces.

Velvet Accent Chairs – Pewter: $308

Chunky Knit Wool Throw: $530

Textured Gold Vase: $20

Intimate Living Spaces

This season, homes are moving away from open concept floor plans to living spaces with separation. Since fall is focused on warmth and comfort, consider emulating these feelings in the layout and structure of your home.

“Following the soft and warm aesthetic, people are moving away from a totally open concept and going back to living spaces with separation,” said Stone. “Kitchens with breakfast nooks, cozy living rooms and dining rooms for family gatherings are all gaining popularity for the homey, intimate feeling they create.”

One way homeowners are adding separation in their home is a simple home renovation: sliding interior doors. Sliding doors take up less space and create a seamless separation between rooms. They’re also extremely stylish and on-trend this fall.

If renovation isn’t in your budget, there’s a renovation-free method of creating more intimate living spaces. By strategically moving your furniture, you can create separation between the rooms in your home.

Rearranging your furniture is an easy and cost-effective way of giving your space new life. You might need to make a few adjustments along the way, but when you finally get your furniture where you want it, you can create a new space.

Additionally, accent rugs can unify your home décor in a room and signal a separation from room to room. You can also purchase a room divider, a less expensive alternative to sliding doors.

Sliding Barn Door – Knight: $500

Room Divider: $84

Rug – Neutral: $68 – $1,630

This year’s fall is all about embracing comfort and intimacy over open air and minimalist living spaces. How do you plan on incorporating 2018 fall trends into your home? Let us know, in the comments below!

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Learn How to Style for Fall from the Pros

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Pumpkins are popping up in local grocery stores, daisies and daffodils are being swapped for sunflowers and chrysanthemums, and the morning air has a crisp chill that can only be tolerated with a spiced drink in hand. This can only mean one thing: Fall is on its way!

In the fall, the days get shorter and the nights longer. The combination of less light and cold weather causes us to recluse inside of our homes, seeking warmth, comfort and intimacy. Think of your home décor as a response to these instincts.

This season is all about comfort over style and function over form, and here to show us how to transition with grace are professional interior designers and decorators.

Balanced Fall Colors

Fall décor, like most seasonal home décor, follows the example of outdoor colors to influence its style. Think of the colors found in fall trees: deep brown and green, orange and yellow dance into our minds.

However, as you may have noticed, these are all very loud, powerful colors – especially when paired together. That’s why decorating your home with traditional fall colors can be a balancing act – especially because color is known to affect your mood.

Abra Landau, a design expert at Fashion Furniture Rental, suggested balancing the warm, earthy fall tones with complimentary cold neutrals, like light gray. If you’re looking for a more dramatic contrast, Jessica McRae, co-founder of SwatchPop!, dares dark paint, like black, as a baseline color.

“Dark paint is definitely having a moment,” said McRae. “We’re using dark painted walls for a more dramatic effect this fall and winter. Dark painted walls and cabinetry, large-scale artwork, and bold patterns create strong, impactful designs.”

If you’re not ready to commit to dark walls, McRae suggested mixing in darker textiles like fabrics, lighting and accessories to create a strong contrast with the otherwise vibrant fall colors.

Interior Paint – Garden Trowel: $43

Ottoman Pouf Plaid: $60

House Bud Vase: $7 – $13

Comfort Over Style

As the weather gets colder, most homeowners will shift focus from their outdoor spaces and begin to evolve their interior furniture and décor. In response to the colder weather and shorter daylight, fall furniture may turn to the comfortable and functional, rather than the minimal and clean-cut.

Most interior designers agree that there’s been a recent shift from midcentury modern and minimalistic décor, and while it’s not totally being phased out in every home, there’s definitely more focus on what’s comfortable rather than what’s minimal.

“I’m seeing a shift away from straight edges and hard lines,” said Glenna Stone, from Glenna Stone Interior Design. “Furniture is taking on more rounded silhouettes, like curved back sofas along with tables and chests with curved fronts. I think it ties into an overall trend towards softer, comfortable spaces.”

As far as home décor style, two prominent trends seem to be on every interior designer’s mind: bohemian and farmhouse.

“Midcentury modern is a classic style. Its popularity will always persist,” suggested John Linden, interior and furniture designer from Mirror Coop. “However, I’ve noticed a slightly more eccentric bohemian style becoming more popular.”

For those who want to live “la vie Bohème”, Linden suggested paisley prints and quirky floral patterns when updating your home’s style for fall.

Rattan Decorative Tray – $10

Wall Hanging – Ivory: $26

Floral Velvet Throw Pillow: $60

If your style is more Joanna Gains than gypsy, you may have a farmhouse décor style in your home. McRae suggests that while farmhouse style has been growing in popularity, the overall feel of the style is moving from shabby to refined.

“Styles are leaning a little more refined this fall,” explained McRae. “While the farmhouse style is still popular, we’re seeing a lot more of the modern, contemporary farmhouse look rather than the casual, country feel with distressed furniture and chipped paint that was popular in years past.”

Transition your home on the range décor into refined fall style by adding deep colored plaids, primarily buffalo check, into your home décor.

Plaid Table Runner – Blue & Yellow: $25

Natural Cotton Flower: $28

Decorative Birch Pillars: $26

Layered Textures

Continuing on the concept of comfort over minimalist, layering different types of textiles is on trend this fall. There are no rules with clashing colors, patterns and textures, as it’s currently being used to create a homey, eclectic vibe in fall décor.

“Fall will be all about layered textures,” added McRae. “Chunky woven wools, luxurious velvets and tufted textiles create a warm and cozy feel that people crave in cooler months.

McRae suggested incorporating this trend in your home by adding a wool throw blanket to your sofa or at the end of your bed.

Summer metals like silver and rose gold melt into warmer tones like gold and brass this fall, primarily used in accent lighting fixtures and kitchen hardware. Natural, earthy materials, like wood and concrete, are used to compliment fall metals, adding an organic texture to home décor.

The popularity of wallpaper reemerged early this summer, bringing with it a new way to add personal touches to your home and compliment your home décor. For a less-permanent option, try using removable wallpaper so it’s easy to swap out as your style evolves.

Moving away from clean lines and monochromatic home furniture and décor can be nerve-racking – especially for those who identify as midcentury and minimalist. However, if you’re looking to adopt this layered texture trend in your fall home décor, start small by swapping out a few, low-key textiles, like rugs, throws and small decorative pieces.

Velvet Accent Chairs – Pewter: $308

Chunky Knit Wool Throw: $530

Textured Gold Vase: $20

Intimate Living Spaces

This season, homes are moving away from open concept floor plans to living spaces with separation. Since fall is focused on warmth and comfort, consider emulating these feelings in the layout and structure of your home.

“Following the soft and warm aesthetic, people are moving away from a totally open concept and going back to living spaces with separation,” said Stone. “Kitchens with breakfast nooks, cozy living rooms and dining rooms for family gatherings are all gaining popularity for the homey, intimate feeling they create.”

One way homeowners are adding separation in their home is a simple home renovation: sliding interior doors. Sliding doors take up less space and create a seamless separation between rooms. They’re also extremely stylish and on-trend this fall.

If renovation isn’t in your budget, there’s a renovation-free method of creating more intimate living spaces. By strategically moving your furniture, you can create separation between the rooms in your home.

Rearranging your furniture is an easy and cost-effective way of giving your space new life. You might need to make a few adjustments along the way, but when you finally get your furniture where you want it, you can create a new space.

Additionally, accent rugs can unify your home décor in a room and signal a separation from room to room. You can also purchase a room divider, a less expensive alternative to sliding doors.

Sliding Barn Door – Knight: $500

Room Divider: $84

Rug – Neutral: $68 – $1,630

This year’s fall is all about embracing comfort and intimacy over open air and minimalist living spaces. How do you plan on incorporating 2018 fall trends into your home? Let us know, in the comments below!

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Learn How to Style for Fall from the Pros

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Pumpkins are popping up in local grocery stores, daisies and daffodils are being swapped for sunflowers and chrysanthemums, and the morning air has a crisp chill that can only be tolerated with a spiced drink in hand. This can only mean one thing: Fall is on its way!

In the fall, the days get shorter and the nights longer. The combination of less light and cold weather causes us to recluse inside of our homes, seeking warmth, comfort and intimacy. Think of your home décor as a response to these instincts.

This season is all about comfort over style and function over form, and here to show us how to transition with grace are professional interior designers and decorators.

Balanced Fall Colors

Fall décor, like most seasonal home décor, follows the example of outdoor colors to influence its style. Think of the colors found in fall trees: deep brown and green, orange and yellow dance into our minds.

However, as you may have noticed, these are all very loud, powerful colors – especially when paired together. That’s why decorating your home with traditional fall colors can be a balancing act – especially because color is known to affect your mood.

Abra Landau, a design expert at Fashion Furniture Rental, suggested balancing the warm, earthy fall tones with complimentary cold neutrals, like light gray. If you’re looking for a more dramatic contrast, Jessica McRae, co-founder of SwatchPop!, dares dark paint, like black, as a baseline color.

“Dark paint is definitely having a moment,” said McRae. “We’re using dark painted walls for a more dramatic effect this fall and winter. Dark painted walls and cabinetry, large-scale artwork, and bold patterns create strong, impactful designs.”

If you’re not ready to commit to dark walls, McRae suggested mixing in darker textiles like fabrics, lighting and accessories to create a strong contrast with the otherwise vibrant fall colors.

Interior Paint – Garden Trowel: $43

Ottoman Pouf Plaid: $60

House Bud Vase: $7 – $13

Comfort Over Style

As the weather gets colder, most homeowners will shift focus from their outdoor spaces and begin to evolve their interior furniture and décor. In response to the colder weather and shorter daylight, fall furniture may turn to the comfortable and functional, rather than the minimal and clean-cut.

Most interior designers agree that there’s been a recent shift from midcentury modern and minimalistic décor, and while it’s not totally being phased out in every home, there’s definitely more focus on what’s comfortable rather than what’s minimal.

“I’m seeing a shift away from straight edges and hard lines,” said Glenna Stone, from Glenna Stone Interior Design. “Furniture is taking on more rounded silhouettes, like curved back sofas along with tables and chests with curved fronts. I think it ties into an overall trend towards softer, comfortable spaces.”

As far as home décor style, two prominent trends seem to be on every interior designer’s mind: bohemian and farmhouse.

“Midcentury modern is a classic style. Its popularity will always persist,” suggested John Linden, interior and furniture designer from Mirror Coop. “However, I’ve noticed a slightly more eccentric bohemian style becoming more popular.”

For those who want to live “la vie Bohème”, Linden suggested paisley prints and quirky floral patterns when updating your home’s style for fall.

Rattan Decorative Tray – $10

Wall Hanging – Ivory: $26

Floral Velvet Throw Pillow: $60

If your style is more Joanna Gains than gypsy, you may have a farmhouse décor style in your home. McRae suggests that while farmhouse style has been growing in popularity, the overall feel of the style is moving from shabby to refined.

“Styles are leaning a little more refined this fall,” explained McRae. “While the farmhouse style is still popular, we’re seeing a lot more of the modern, contemporary farmhouse look rather than the casual, country feel with distressed furniture and chipped paint that was popular in years past.”

Transition your home on the range décor into refined fall style by adding deep colored plaids, primarily buffalo check, into your home décor.

Plaid Table Runner – Blue & Yellow: $25

Natural Cotton Flower: $28

Decorative Birch Pillars: $26

Layered Textures

Continuing on the concept of comfort over minimalist, layering different types of textiles is on trend this fall. There are no rules with clashing colors, patterns and textures, as it’s currently being used to create a homey, eclectic vibe in fall décor.

“Fall will be all about layered textures,” added McRae. “Chunky woven wools, luxurious velvets and tufted textiles create a warm and cozy feel that people crave in cooler months.

McRae suggested incorporating this trend in your home by adding a wool throw blanket to your sofa or at the end of your bed.

Summer metals like silver and rose gold melt into warmer tones like gold and brass this fall, primarily used in accent lighting fixtures and kitchen hardware. Natural, earthy materials, like wood and concrete, are used to compliment fall metals, adding an organic texture to home décor.

The popularity of wallpaper reemerged early this summer, bringing with it a new way to add personal touches to your home and compliment your home décor. For a less-permanent option, try using removable wallpaper so it’s easy to swap out as your style evolves.

Moving away from clean lines and monochromatic home furniture and décor can be nerve-racking – especially for those who identify as midcentury and minimalist. However, if you’re looking to adopt this layered texture trend in your fall home décor, start small by swapping out a few, low-key textiles, like rugs, throws and small decorative pieces.

Velvet Accent Chairs – Pewter: $308

Chunky Knit Wool Throw: $530

Textured Gold Vase: $20

Intimate Living Spaces

This season, homes are moving away from open concept floor plans to living spaces with separation. Since fall is focused on warmth and comfort, consider emulating these feelings in the layout and structure of your home.

“Following the soft and warm aesthetic, people are moving away from a totally open concept and going back to living spaces with separation,” said Stone. “Kitchens with breakfast nooks, cozy living rooms and dining rooms for family gatherings are all gaining popularity for the homey, intimate feeling they create.”

One way homeowners are adding separation in their home is a simple home renovation: sliding interior doors. Sliding doors take up less space and create a seamless separation between rooms. They’re also extremely stylish and on-trend this fall.

If renovation isn’t in your budget, there’s a renovation-free method of creating more intimate living spaces. By strategically moving your furniture, you can create separation between the rooms in your home.

Rearranging your furniture is an easy and cost-effective way of giving your space new life. You might need to make a few adjustments along the way, but when you finally get your furniture where you want it, you can create a new space.

Additionally, accent rugs can unify your home décor in a room and signal a separation from room to room. You can also purchase a room divider, a less expensive alternative to sliding doors.

Sliding Barn Door – Knight: $500

Room Divider: $84

Rug – Neutral: $68 – $1,630

This year’s fall is all about embracing comfort and intimacy over open air and minimalist living spaces. How do you plan on incorporating 2018 fall trends into your home? Let us know, in the comments below!

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“Work # 965: Him & Me”

HIM: What’s up Butchie? ME: Up and at all day and now I’m off to bed . . . alone :-( . . . HIM: I know what that's like far too well. ME: It's a bugger the single life. HIM: I’ve been single for 20 yrs. I’m reaching out for friendship, boys, men, and of course subs ‘n slaves. I know I don't want to be single anymore. I’m tired of it. ME: I was with a guy for years and we got married on out 25th anniversary . . . and then cancer decided to pay a visit. I’ve been single now since 2004. HIM: I’ve been single since I was 24, I’ve been since 1996. I was with an 18 yr old. He was lovely; he hooked up with an older mature guy, stable and money. HIM: Sorry for your loss. ME: Thanks, I’m over it now (sort of) I guess. HIM: That's good. It’s good to share. ME: It is. I’m Bruce btw. HIM: Hi Bruce. Marty here. ME: Hiya Marty, I’m in Toronto, you're at which lake? Ontario has a lot of them. HIM: Ontario is blessed with lakes and water. I’m at the height of the Ontario watershed, I’m on Lake Temagami. It’s an artist’s paradise. I also hold my own art shows and invite guests. ME: Do you curate as well? HIM: I have thought of doing that, I also looked at a grant for that I saw a grant for $50 to $70,000 for that. Wufff. ME: You'd have a good chance of getting it too because of your location. I’d not applied for arts funding for years and years but I’m going to submit to the Ontario Arts Council this year in the Senior Artist category. What kind of work do you do Marty? HIM: I paint but won’t claim it’s my forte not even for a millisecond. I create in cloth, leather and use fur as well.im also mixed race Native and White. So a lot of my work has a Native influence. I bead as well. Make simple jewelry. I do leather craft, and my fave works are with quills and bark. I also make touristy things like organic dream-catchers, drums and the like. HIM: Do you have a big cock? ME: Being mixed-race gives you a leg up in the arts grant department and I have a average sized cock (cut) and you? HIM: I can work the First Nations angle till death. I’m above thickness with average length. HIM: Cut. ME: That sounds tasty! If you check out the O.A.C. site they explicitly say priority is given to aboriginal artists. My grandmother's grandmother was Cree, but I wouldn't dare . . . HIM: LOL ME: Could I see some more pics? HIM: I have a status card if that helps, I live on rez too. HIM: Did you see my pics in the profile??? If so that all I have. HIM: Do you know the Asspig site? ME: I’m just a standard member so I can't access anything but the most public pics. I know that site yes. The status card and rez would be helpful indeed. HIM: Here’s a few. HIM: Many people come to the rez to buy arts and crafts and I help them spend their money. ME: Nice looking fella . . . . HIM: Thanks. ME::-) I’m going for a walk now – I’ve got to get out of the house. Talk to you later Marty . . . HIM: Later. ME: Back . . . but I’m going out for the evening (nothing exciting). HIM: That's OK I'm at a dinner meeting. ME: My evening turned into a dud -- I went to a screening and it was sold out! HIM: Ahhh shitty. Hate that shit. ME: I know, but it got me out of the house for a bit and I had a nice chat with the filmmaker who's sort of a friend so at least he knows I tried to see his work. There may be a future screening so all's not lost. HIM: That's good to hear, do you have contact info for him or the screening, can u reserve a seat??? ME: It's the Images Festival and its all first come first serve :-( HIM: Ah SHITTY. ME: It's no big deal. How’s your week going Marty? HIM: Busy, busy, busy, and I love it, making a few extra bucks for hydro bill. ME: Same on this end -- I'm chained to the computer for the next few days (and not in the good way) to plow through a whole lot of stuff -- I’d prefer to sit in my back yard and watch the flowers grow, but . . . . HIM: I’m looking at the ice surrounding my island, wishing for hot weather, time to start boating, lovely break up, countless ice crystals clinking on the shore line, the loons haunting cries, the eagles, the moose the bear etc... love it. ME: Sounds fantastic (except for the ice) I’ve got a nice big garden and everything is starting to pop up now. HIM: I’m about 500 km north of you. ME: I’m beginning to hate the city – if I didn't have a back garden I think I’d go nuts. HIM: I hated the city a long time ago. I love living on the lake. ME: I’ve never learned to drive, so moving to the country would be a problem. HIM: Well I know how to drive, I have driven around the island, although it’s kind of not legal. I’ll take keys off people if they had a few drinks. ME: Why is it not legal? Good that you're the designated driver though. HIM: I don't have a driver license. ME::-) I can see how that could get you into a bit of trouble . . . HIM: True. ME: Have you ever been caught? I hope not. HIM: I was pulled over by the police more than 20 years ago as a DD without a license. He didn't even ask for a drivers permit. ME::-) My dad got stopped by the cops once because he was driving too slowly – they thought he was drunk. He was just looking at the farms and scenery . . . :-) HIM: Shitty but it’s nice to see the countryside. ME: Yes, I grew up in the country north of Toronto. HIM: Very nice, what area? ME: Newmarket – it was a tiny town when we moved there, my dad was born there but moved away, now it's huge and not so great. But when I was there I wanted out, there was nothing there for a gay kid. HIM: I guess not, yeah that area really developed. ME: It's pretty awful now. HIM: It’s a shame the lands around Toronto are built up, it’s the best farmland in Canada. The first 400 km with in distance of the CN Tower is the best farmland in Canada. Sprawled up ugly fucking houses. ME: hopefully the green belt has stopped that. HIM: It’s too bad Toronto and surrounding area didn't build up first and then out. I hate those houses especially in the Maple area near Wonderland. Fucking ugly houses with all those foreigners living in them. ME: Toronto is very sprawling, it's a result of not being hemmed in by geography – but the lessons have been learned and the city is now becoming more intensified and vertical (which in itself causes other problems. I lived in NYC for many years and HATED IT there, but as far as livable cities go Toronto is up near the top. Off for my daily walk now . . . HIM: Yes Toronto is one of the world, this I already know. I lived there for 7 years. ME: How long ago were you living here -- I moved in 1978 and came back in 2001. HIM: I was there 1996 to 2003. ME: We could have crossed paths. HIM: Probably. You are familiar looking, by chance did you ever have a boyfriend named Allan and he worked at Bubs Subs, Church and Wellesley. ME: No -- I’d come back to Toronto with my man John in 2001 and we were together until he died in 2004. HIM: Sorry to hear of your partner’s death. ME: It was quick -- he was sick for only six months. HIM: Wow. Sorry to hear that nonetheless. HIM: BTW you have nice pits. ME: Thank you very much! HIM: I love pit hair.... especially thick, burly belly and chest hair. HIM: What are you into sexually? ME: Actually I’m sort of vanilla. HIM: Oh sorry. I’m anything but vanilla. ME: What are you into? HIM: Leather, rough, all left black, navy, red, yellow, grey. ME: I understand all the colours except grey. HIM: Bondage. ME: That's right, now I remember. HIM: I’m into more than that. Love nasty raunch, too. ME: I’m mostly a kisser and cocksucker, boring I know. HIM: They can be good too. ME::-) You're too kind. HIM: I love guys who suck and swallow. Wooffff. ME: I do both. HIM: Nothing like a good service pig to suck a nice cock and bring him to completion. ME: I also like 69ing and then mixing the cum together on our tongues. HIM: I loveeeeee 69. I can get sucked off for hours without cumming but I tend to blow quickly if I 69. ME: And cum eating? HIM: I’ve only eaten cum once from another guy. ME: Mine tastes very good. HIM: That's nice...... I really don't get much action round here, but I do crave to suck cock and fuck. I would suck yours and swallow it. I know I wanna suck. I wasn't much into sucking when I was younger. ME: I’d let you suck my cock anytime :-) HIM: LOL I’m sure. You shooting neg or poz loads? ME: I’m clean, negative. HIM: I hate the line, I’m clean. It’s like anyone else who has been infected in some shape or form is dirty. Its dehumanizing really. I’m poz. Wanted you to know that. ME: Sorry my mistake – you're right. I’m not one of those idiots that run for the hills when they hear poz. HIM: That's good. ME: I lived through the darkest days of the epidemic in the 80s and 90s when I was in NYC. HIM: Wow. That’s very impressive and sad at the same time. ME: It was absolutely horrible, HIM: You made it though and yuu are strong for that. I think it was created in a lab and used to depopulate. ME: That's crossed my mind and the minds of many others as well. HIM: Sure it’s just a branch in the plan to depopulate the world. ME: There was an overt attempt to stigmatize gay men in the '80s and '90s and I’m not entirely sure that that has not gone away, it's just less hostile and aggressive. HIM: Well the ‘80s was harsh as a teen and the ‘90s were pretty gay. ME: That whole period was really hard for me, especially because I was living in a place that I hated, it got better when I came back to Canada but then was almost immediately followed by tragedy. It’s good now though. HIM: Yikes. ME: I came back to Canada in 2001 and in 2003 both my mother and my partner were in the same hospital at the same time. HIM: I’m sure it feels a bit of relief to share the grief. But sometimes you gotta think does the person need or are able to hear it, how will they feel afterwards. I don't wanna hear any more depressing energy from you. ME: Fine, my life is good now. HIM: That's good. ME: Yes it is, except for not enough money and no boyfriend, it's perfect. HIM: LOL I hear you. ME: Such is modern life, I think. HIM: I ain’t a fan of modern. ME: 21st century then. HIM: I love my life in the bush. ME: I like my back garden – it's facing away from the city, it's quiet, relaxing. HIM: That's always nice. I had a shitty apartment and no garden or yard in the city.... I miss my friends, music, men and the convenience of food. My yard is now Lake Temagami, have a look-see. ME: That's fantastic. HIM: I’m so blessed to be here and love it so much. Although there’s no gay community here, I’m wanting love and have considered moving, I’m thinking south-west New Mexico or Palm Springs, California. ME: Are there any larger small towns nearby that may have a fledgling community? HIM: The nearest bigger center is North Bay. HIM: Really funny I connected with a slave last night from North Bay. ME: How far is that away from you? HIM: A little over an hour away. ME: That's not too bad at all -- I’d imagine North Bay has some sort of gay community, or am I wrong to assume that? HIM: It’s closeted, its small and although there is a rainbow church. ME: Sounds old fashioned but it's better than nothing -- in a lot of ways Toronto is kind of closeted too. HIM: I’m a Satanist now. ME: Oh? HIM: yes it’s been about 5 months of the dark side for me, I love it. ME: That may narrow the community a bit. HIM: I don't care. Since my change it’s been hotter, already had a boy visit me and more on the way. Its working for me 100 fold already. Today is the 50 year anniversary of the church of SATAN . . . HS. I rejoice in the darkness. ME: What does it offer that you can't get elsewhere? HIM: I don't need to explain it to you. ME: OK. HIM: That's good. ME::-) HIM: Butchie . . . pick a subject, fetish or kink. ME: Fetish. HIM: What’s the hottest fetish out there? What’s fetish mean to you? ME: I just got in and I’m sort of drunk -- I’ll think about this. HIM: LOL where did u go??? ME: I spent many hours at The Black Eagle . . . fetish-wise I sort of have a thing for muscle worship. HIM: AHHH LOVED THE BLACK EAGLE. DOES IT STILL HAVE THAT RANK ODOUR TO IT? ME: They've installed a dance floor . . . a dance floor!!!!!! HIM: Wow. ME: Yes, I was shocked. HIM: Wow. ME: It’s just like any ordinary bar now. HIM: I heard they even allow females. ME: There were none there yesterday and I don't think there's a female washroom, so I’m not sure. HIM: I had heard awhile back females were allowed. ME: Apparently 1/3 of Woody's customers are now women. HIM: When I left the city, the scene was still somewhat sacred. ME: I haven't been to Church Street in years. Sunday night was the first time in forever, and it was pretty ridiculous. HIM: LLLOOOLLL. ME::-) The Eagle has a dance floor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HIM: Yes you told me earlier, I still can’t believe it. Wow. ME: Neither can I, I just keep repeating to myself inside my head -- a dance floor? a dance floor! a dance floor? a dance floor! . . . HIM: OK we both know it, now we can both accept the sacrilege. ME: I will never darken their door again  HIM: LOL ME::-) morning . . . HIM: morning Butchie. ME: I’m out in the garden all day today. HIM: Good for you. ME: Did a lot of veggie planting and then I had a nap. HIM: That's a good days work. ME: And it's going to be warm from now on plus rainy – I have more to put in but the stock isn't in yet. I like gardening, it's relaxing. HIM: Of course it is, gardening is amazing. ME: My back is so sore now though. HIM: Good. ME: YEAH? Then give me a massage. HIM: It means you’re alive. ME::-) I’ll finish the rest of the planting today. HIM: Don't ever complain to me when your white and male and living in North America..... you could be a nigger starving in Africa. Or a woman in the Middle East with one arm because her other hand was chopped off for stealing a loaf of bread because she was hungry and trying to feed her babies. ME: I’m not complaining about anything and the rant is uncalled for. HIM: Frankly, I don't care about your gardening when this is a sex kink site. Have a nice life Butchie. Don’t message me again.

April 17-May 6 2016

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When it rains, it pours.

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Three Weeks at the Docks

(Or, what happened in the time that Kaveh and Al-Haitham spent waiting during chapters 6 and 7 of How to Grow a Garden in Your Chest: In 500 Years (or Less).)

From the moment he listened to that dinner conversation between Kaveh and Abel, Al-Haitham knew that his partner had found a new friend. So few people feel kindred to Kaveh’s emotional stability, (or lack thereof). To find someone who also went through the abandonment of a parent – the emotional aftermath of it – is what Al-Haitham is certain that Kaveh would call a miracle.

So, when it turns out that Abel is dying –

Al-Haitham also knows that Kaveh is going to be devastated.

He reaches out to Abel, because it seems he is the only one left privy who is also willing to challenge him. It evades him, why Tighnari has not also tried convincing Abel; or even how Aether has not figured out the truth yet. Al-Haitham thought them both to be fiercer and cleverer than that. But, whatever the matter – it is now clearly up to him to knock sense into the man.

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What he hadn’t expected was for it to come to a head so quickly, or for Abel’s stubbornness to fade. He has things yet to learn, Al-Haitham realizes.

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And yes, Kaveh is devastated. That night before Abel’s departure to Inazuma, he lays in their bed with a red face and disheveled hair. Al-Haitham watches his partner curl in on himself and sob into his pillow. In moments like this, it is a coin-flip to decide whether Kaveh will throw his hands away when Al-Haitham tries to comfort him – or if he will cling on for dear life until he passes out from the emotional stress.

Al-Haitham tries anyway. That night, he sleeps with his partner wrapped around his arm and with a hand balled into his night shirt.

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What comes next is an unbearable game of waiting. Abel and Aether depart that next morning on a ship bound for Inazuma. None of them know whether they will see their friend alive again. To her credit – Lesser Lord Kusinali has greater faith than them all. There is a peace in her smile as she consoles them all after that. She cares very little for the onlookers as she cradles Kaveh’s sticky face in her palms.

“He’ll be back,” she tells them. And to Kaveh, “Wipe your tears and be ready to celebrate.”

And that first day is a tortuous one. Kaveh will not eat; to get him to drink is an endeavor. Al-Haitham even deigns to offer him wine – But his partner is a withered mess of a man, and he will not even take to liquor. One by one, his options are exhausted. By sundown, all Al-Haitham can do is lay on their divan and let Kaveh hold onto him. A book sits in his hands as Kaveh lays over his chest. But the words on the page blur and congeal.

When Kaveh dozes off, Al-Haitham gives up the façade. He places the book down, and he brings his arms around his partner. With his head tipped down and his mouth pressed into Kaveh’s hair, Al-Haitham allows himself to grieve, too.

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“I’m going to the port,” Kaveh tells him the next morning,” as he packs a bag of drawing supplies and snacks. “The breeze is nice today and –”

Al-Haitham knows better. “Kaveh,” he says. “It takes a week to sail to Inazuma from here. They won’t be back in a day.” He crosses his arms and watches as Kaveh continues to fill his bag.

Kaveh huffs, and he looks up to point a finger at his partner. “Well, I can’t just sit around here and work while they’re – while he’s –” A wet ache drips from his mouth. “I’m going to the port.” And it doesn’t sound final; but Kaveh finishes packing anyway.

Al-Haitham watches his partner sling the bag over his shoulder. Just as Kaveh passes by to get to the door, he stops him. His hand catches Kaveh’s wrist, and he tugs him over. Softly, Al-Haitham presses a kiss to the corner of Kaveh’s mouth. “Stay hydrated,” he says. “The breeze won’t do that for you.”

Unlike Kaveh, Al-Haitham can work under these conditions. It is far too easy for him to close down the part of his psyche that lingers on emotional matters. He knows that most people see him as aloof and unfeeling – and maybe in some ways he is – but he is not cold. While he might be able to push away the thought of Abel’s ashen face or the blood on his lips –

It’s so much harder to forget Kaveh’s heartbreak.

As he pores over proposals and requests, Al-Haitham tries valiantly not to think of Kaveh’s heaving shoulders or the his messy, tear-streaked face. His pen idles when he signs paperwork, as the sound of Kaveh’s broken sobs whisper in his ears.

Al-Haitham turns up the volume of his headphones.

It doesn’t help.

His workdays as Acting Grand Sage are much longer than he is used to, which means his nights are later, too. When Al-Haitham approaches the front door of their home, he notices that the lights are still off. He doesn’t bother going inside.

The walk to Port Ormos is silent, save for the call of the jungle. His feet trod along the dirt paths and splash in shallow puddles. Any other day, Al-Haitham might complain about the mess in his shoes. But tonight, his mind is only on –

Kaveh sits on a bench by the docks. The port, even at this hour, is still bustling. But by the angle of his head, the slack of his shoulders – Al-Haitham knows that Kaveh has fallen asleep. It’s a wonder, really, that his bag hasn’t been stolen. It sits beside him on the bench, almost untouched. In Kaveh’s lap is his sketchbook – with nary a scratch on the paper. The pencil is nowhere to be seen; no doubt kicked away by the passing crowds after it fell from Kaveh’s grasp.

Al-Haitham sighs, and he packs Kaveh’s bag for him again. He slings it over his own shoulder, and then he braces himself to lift Kaveh’s weight. His partner curls in on himself in Al-Haitham’s hold. As the evening grows ever later and stars begin to dot the sky, Al-Haitham takes Kaveh home.

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For three weeks, it continues. Kaveh leaves early in the mornings, and Al-Haitham finds him at the port in the evenings. Most times, his partner has dozed off by the time Al-Haitham arrives. And like he had on that first night, he gathers Kaveh in his arms and brings him home.

But, some evenings – Kaveh is still awake, with his eyes on the horizon and his hands in his lap. On those evenings, Al-Haitham joins him on the bench. They sit silently and watch as the final fleet of ships dock for the night. And then they walk home, hand-in-hand and somber. If Kaveh weeps, Al-Haitham does not point it out. He squeezes his partner’s hand in his, and he leads them both home. By the time they’ve walked through the door, Kaveh’s cheeks are dry.

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Nearly three weeks to the day – Al-Haitham feels compelled to join Kaveh on his morning trip. He shirks his reluctant and ill-gotten duty as Acting Grand Sage, and he walks to Port Ormos with his partner. By now, Kaveh’s shoulders have lost their confidence. Yet, stubborn as a mule, he holds his vigil. But Al-Haitham knows better; Kaveh is tired. Kaveh is defeated.

Their bench waits for them when they arrive. The day is sunny, and the docks are busy. A new fleet is set to arrive at this hour – usually those from Ritou and Liyue Harbor. Already, many dockhands are bustling around the piers, ready to work when their hands are needed.  Time flows by, and the passing crowds with them. Overhead, seagulls cry for the warm food being served at the street carts. Out in the distance, just the fainted blots appear over the water’s horizon. Kaveh notices it when Al-Haitham does, and he pokes an elbow into his side –

“I see them, too,” Al-Haitham nods. “Let’s see who comes off.”

Beside him, Kaveh begins to buzz with energy. The warmth in his face returns, and Al-Haitham cannot begin to describe the relief that it brings him; the sheer gratitude he feels for Kaveh’s returning smile. If this is not them –

“Abel!” Kaveh cries, as he spies three familiar silhouettes descend the dock just a while later. He grabs Al-Haitham’s hand, and he jumps from the bench. Kaveh tugs him along as he calls out again. They squeeze through the crowds, and finally he sees a familiar hat. “Abel!” Kaveh cries out. “Look, Haitham, they’re back –”

As Al-Haitham watches his partner tackle their friend by the side, he smiles.

Yes, Al-Haitham thinks. They’re back.

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The Inazuma arc reaches a close ;A;

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Extra, extra! Local puppet learns how to make friends! Read all about it!

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"Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it." - Haruki Murakami

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2 out of 3 desert chapters. We're in the home stretch, boys.

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Hey, remember when I screamed and cried about writing Sumeru world quests?

Welcome to Hell.

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And they're home!