#how popular things have an expiry date and then it becomes a trend to hate it

[frogayyyy]

some people need to learn that if you stop enjoying something you don't need to immediately turn around and hate it. you can simply just. move on. it's okay.

[evermoredeluxe]

People are acting like it's crazy that joe would hate the pressure of dating the biggest popstar in the world.

Every time she's at an event he trends about how people want to jokingly fight him. Every red carpet he's ever at he gets asked about taylor or what her fans are saying, and he answers that he wants people to focus on his career.

Swifties are literally leaving flowers at an apartment he used to live in because she was there. People know every time he travels and in what city they are if they'rr together, she goes to an event to celebrate his work she doesn't even take photos at the event but she pops in the background and suddenly it's all about how big of person she is.

They have no peace ever, it will always be that way. People tracked down information of his family to breakdown her Lover lyrics about him. They are visiting around HIS FAMILY HOME to have the taylor expirience of jumping into the frozen lake and turning blue. They go to the lakes now to do the same.

They broke up and now people are hating on him for breaking up with her even if we don't know if that's how it went down. Analysing lyrics about how Joes is at fault for making her biggest fear come true and waiting to micro analyse anything he does (and this is going to be forever even taylors high-school boyfriends show up in the news sometimes and they're not public figures or linked to taylor anymore).

What the fuck do people think Anti-Hero is about? She gets no peace but she loves her job and she's good at it, Joe doesn't have to quit his job or his privacy for her that's a massive sacrifice. I would never quit my job for a partner because i would be afraid of being left with nothing if we broke up, why are we asking Joe to do that???

And even me making this is part of the problem. She's massive and she will always be massive because she is Taylor Swift. I absolutely love her so I understand the impulse but we need to cut it, they both deserve to just be humans.

i literally replied to the prev anon saying that i don't think she would ever expect him to give up her career for hers so your point is moot.

regardless, im gonna use this as an opportunity to lay my thoughts. while the stuff you pointed out is true, she's been mega popular since fearless and even more so since red (and im not saying any of that stuff is okay or justified; i've actually made posts about how not okay some of what you mentioned is), and he knew and she's told him the reality since day one. i do not blame him for not wanting it. she literally has become so private, esp since 2020-21, to protect what they had and be incognito all the time, but there's only so much she can control (this is what she talked about in folklore lpss before peace). also, i don't blame him for anything but it's just a fact that his current career trajectory isn't stable and he wasn't able to show up/give her what she needs, and they tried but it didn't work out anymore. just like he isn't expected to give up his career, she shouldn't be either because the only other thing she can do is retire (which obviously she doesn't want to do).