#hersband ask

[clary-tarot]

hello can I please get a vibe check? it's been too long since margaret has read me to filth 💕

Your oracle cards are Spiritual Guidance and Humility - Right now in your life you need to be sure you stay connected to your higher purpose, what it is that drives you forward and makes you feel content. Listen to your higher self and remember that asking for help when you need it is a sign of strength, not weakness!

You might be struggling under the effects of impostor syndrome right now - feeling like you are in over your head and doubting your abilities (reversed Seven of Swords). Stop that right now. Trust yourself! You are right where you need to be, and you earned your spot. 

You contain so much compassion and creativity, it is time to share that with the world! Don’t let anxiety or nerves stop you from reaching your full potential and sharing your thoughts and ideas with the world (Knight of Cups). 

You’re entering into a time that will come with a lot of introspection (reversed Ace of Cups/reversed Nine of Pentacles). It is going to be important to take the time you need, but to be sure that you don’t live in your head and withdraw from the people around you (reversed Hermit).

In summary, from Margaret: You’re right where you need to be, believe in yourself! Take the time you need to work through any heavy thoughts that come your way while remembering to reach out to the people around you and share your unique outlook and bright spark with the world.

with love, from Margaret

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[funishment-time]

for the ask game, Toko Fukawa :D

you got it! i'll include Syo as well. this is a bit Incoherent, but with any luck you all can Parse what i mean

Sexuality Headcanon: Toko's...tough, because she's got so much going on. regardless, i think if you strip everything away she's genuinely Bisexual, as is Syo. they lean towards Men, but Komaru is special. additionally, i say "comphet" for a lot of the girls, but in Toki's case it's a bit different: hers was less societal and more the abuse of her peers and parents. had she never met Komaru it may have never occurred to her that she could love and partner up with a Woman.

brief aside on this: i don't think Toko would ever identify as gay or queer or anything remotely accurate or healthy (ha). nor would Syo, but Syo would probably use a Slur as a label to get a rise out of people, avatar of rebellion and grunge that she is. Toki in particular is on my list of personal "what are you, gay or something?" characters while actively being married to a woman, next to Miu and a few others. good times

Gender Headcanon: okay, hear me out on this one, and sorry if this doesn't make sense, but...

the Fukawas are generally cis to me, though i've imagined a few scenarios where they're trans. when they're cis, however, i headcanon that, if they're with Komaru, only Toko ends up actually being cis. Syo becomes a sort of...genderweird she/her because she sees herself as the fantasy-masc Byakuya to Komaru's femininity. for lack of a better term: Syo thinks of herself as Komaru's husband (hersband...) a lot.

i have no idea how else to explain this without getting mildly NSFW. my thoughts on it aren't really pornographic so much as, like, Psychosexual? you know? and i want to keep the blog somewhat PG-13, so i'll leave it there!

A ship I have with said character: i am a diehard Tokomaru shipper and they're probably the one OTP i don't like splitting up in the whole franchise. they have a game together. they are the Girls of all time

A BROTP I have with said character: i've always loved the idea of Komaru being the entryway into Toko genuinely befriending (or at least earning the tolerance of) a lot of her fellow survivors in the main timeline. i do think Makoto would sincerely be Toko's pal, though, and i adore positioning him as the sweet bachelor brother-in-law in their nasty little family

A NOTP I have with said character: are there people out there who genuinely ship Fukawa System x Byakuya? if so...i'm sorry, but why? whyyyy. again, i try to Live and let Live in this fandom, but lorda mercy you chose poorly in this case, no offense

A random headcanon: to expand on my previous point...i will add, however, that my Fukawa Headcanons generally don't exclude Byakuya. i've said before that, for me, the Fukawas never really lose their crush on him, but it becomes purely, well, NSFW. if you excuse me being blunt for a moment: they still want to rail him, he figures in many of their fantasies, but they don't want to wake up next to him, and they certainly don't want to have his kids or make him breakfast.

Komaru, however, is the Fukawas' WIFE. she is Love, she is Healing, and she is their very best friend at her core beyond all the romance. she is pancakes and shitty manga and joy. Toko (and Syo) may not dream of Komaru kicking them around, but they do dream of creating a peaceful life with her. well...as peaceful as things can get in that timeline. some shit is always Happening

anyway: and Komaru just accepts this, because she knows she's got the girl(s) in the end!

General Opinion over said character: 10/10 i love my Toki so very much. Toki kinnie 4 life. stinky little insect creature. vile and perfect and lovable

[bespokecurry]

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[clary-tarot]

hello yes, might I please request one (1) Vibe Check from Margaret?? 💕

why look, it is Margaret’s favorite person xD the only bitch that That Bitch Margaret fully respects and talks Kindly to at all times, lololol. And now - one (1) Vibe Check coming up!

You’ve been carrying so much and for so long that you feel stooped by the weight of it. Responsibility was always heavy on your shoulders and you fear that it permanently warped your spine. (note: it didn’t. your spine is too strong to be warped by shitty people) Also, during that time, you felt like you couldn’t be creative. You felt like you had to stifle your desire to make and be and create and it has had a lasting impact on you as a person. There was always a voice in your head telling you critical things, and you still have to work to not hear and listen to that voice. Right now you’re in the middle of a transition away from that part of your past and into the future. And it is hard, because each time you think that you let go of the last remaining part of it, another part pops up and you have to let go of that, as well. Also, with some of the stuff, you’re resisting truly letting go because you worry about what it will mean for your future. The uncertainty of it all. It will mean good things, my sweet. It will mean less of a burden for you to carry and more freedom to be and create and become and truly move beyond the small and focused things that were expected of you. As to the future, you’re really battling with ‘should i stay (connected) or should i (let) go?’ There’s no single right answer here, only a firm belief that you can decide for yourself, outside of what you think you’re expected to do. Paired with the rest of your cards, the message is clear: you can try one more time, always, but if you keep trying and getting the same result, all you’re going to do is cause yourself pain. And you have had enough of that. You deserve joy.

with love, from Margaret.

additional thoughts from a Katie: i love you, i love you so much, you deserve every good thing that this world has to offer you, and i am demanding from the universe that you get it all. that you get to truly become and create and evolve. and i’m excited to be here, right along side of you, as all of that goes down.

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