#have?? shut upppp go awayyy he never changes i dont see what my mom sees in him jfc he doesnt do stockings or presents or get her a cHAIR | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

shwarmii · 1 year ago

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it truly is wild that some (re: shitty) fathers will see mothers (aka: the aLLEGED LOVE OF THEIR LIFE) struggle, and then the kid (of any age) jumps in to help the mom, and the father's response is just a "I raised my kid so well". like?? sir???? you failed as a husband, watching your own wife struggle with no comment or intention to giving her any help

it's like the year-round version of "father doesn't fill the mother's Christmas stocking". like, sir, i may have never believed in Santa, but i believed in you to do SOMETHING, jfc, someone give me one of those good dads to be a good husband to my mom please

#like my mom literally groaned in effort and he just glanced over and then kept playing solitaire #she wasnt doing anything ''big'' she was shredding papers which involved being bent halfway down and rising up a lot. she was standing #and my disabled ass just looked at him incredulously and went to go get her a chair #''oh but thats nothing. i thought you meant like she was bringing in something heavy like a christmas tree--''#nO. SHUT UP. NO SPOUSE SHOULD SEE THEIR PARTNER STRUGGLE AND NOT *WANT* TO HELP MAKE THE TASK EASIER #my mama even said ''you saved me. i was about to give up for the day lol''#likE??? SIR??? we were equal distance away from the shredding cmon #but yeah he tried to take credit for me doing it by going ''thats my kid'' like?? sir go away #i became attentive in spite of your fuck-ups; its parentification. not because of you intentionally trying to raise me and the traits i #have?? shut upppp go awayyy he never changes i dont see what my mom sees in him jfc he doesnt do stockings or presents or get her a cHAIR #one of my earliest memories is being six or younger and my dad taking me to pick gifts for mom and then having me wrap them jfc #like siiiiiiirrrrr stoppp be attentive to your wife like cmon she is the only one who loves you in this household still. step the fuck up

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