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nomairuins · 2 months ago

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i wish there was a way for me to likeee. semi change this one thingin this one mod. but 1 im not a modder 2 i feel like thats disrespectful. i just want sort of an inbetween between the game and this mod but that is not a thing that exist... sigh

#NOT COMPLAINING ABT THE MOD just personal preference im not saying the mod bc i dont want it seen as an attack but basically i like mods #that add a bit more realism while also keeping some stuff yfm... like 4 example Random example unrelated i like the idea of Having to decid #what to do with the remains of a dead sim and having the body stick around but i also like having the grim reaper appear.... so in my ideal #death mod the sim dies and then the grim reaper shows up to like. take their soul but the body stays. im not a modder so idk how possible..#also ig that kind of doesnt fully make sense since the ghosts r still afoot so ig itd just be him severing the connection btwn the body and #soul right. not taking anything... which i suppose is what he does in the basegame is he severs the connection and then takes the body w/#him. which is kind of funny. whats he need that for is it just courtesy or is he doing smtg w/ them. bc ik you get the gravestone/urn when #they die and those r the remains but like. ? he just like. conjures those doesnt he. body vanishes and then those appear. does he just #rearrange the atoms of the body into those things. bc i dont subscribe to the idea that he actually digs a hole for the corpse idt theres #anything down there bc u cn put a basement right under a grave and no issues. so i think he magics the bodies away and then either somehow #transforms those bodies into the appropriate grave marker (unclear on if theres even actually ash in the urn like is that mentioned. OR he #takes them leaves the urn and gravestone and then just has the bodies to do whatever with. WHATS HE DOING !!! is it a nice like Ill just #handle this so they dont have to (presumptuous. caring for a body is a rly important thing in many cultures and it can be a great way to #process a loss for some ppl (not all obviously. grief is very personal this is one of my autism things sry)) but ig in simnation society it #isnt that important Evidently. but idk... either hes taking them as a favor to help out/soften the blow bc obv nobody Likes seeing the grim #reaper olive sit down. connor sit down. so hes like well ill handle this. or is it something more nefarious WHTS HE DOINGG tell me. i think #funny to imagine he just teleports the body elsewhere ik he prolly just destroys it but its kind of awesome to imagine theres a giant magic #crematorium and like. a columbarium. idk why i assume cremation itd just save space in his. realm? i he has a realm. if i were him and i #didnt have a realm id be kinda pissed id call the watcher and be like heyyy um... yk. but ya i think thats cool bc i love lands of the dead #gotta be one of my favorite things (autistic) and i think its just cool to imagine a place where the remains of every person whos ever live #r kept. be that their soul as is traditional or their literal remains in this case. isnt that kind of cool.. love it. but again we probably #arent supposed to rly think abt it he prolly jut vaporizes them into nothing. i just wanted to have fun... bring a positive sort of vibe.#anyways. i would like to be able to have The body just bc i think thats cool and i think itd be awesome to have a mod that adds in more #grieving practices from around the world but obviously thatd be like. HUGEscale bc there are a millionnn different ways to grieve. and its #all so interesting to learn abt. read from here to eternity. by caitlin doughty. smiles <- it doesnt cover Everything obv but it talks abt #lot of stuff from around the world in a rly respectful way and its incredible to read abt and learn. my autism . but i genuinely love #learning abt grief and mourning and funerary practices in other cultures i rly wish that so many practices werent lost to colonization wher #ppl were forced to abandon their way of caring for their dead just bc it seemed ghoulish or barbaric or whathave you to the missionaries et #idk. id put death it up there with food as one of the biggest cultural signifiers...i cant continue the tag limit. wtvr. u get it

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