#grandma refuses to accept help but we're not gonna let her rot away so we have to help anyway. she just makes it difficult | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

frumdyke · 2 days ago

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need my dads support with something but hes way busy with grandparents and it really does make me feel like a burden. cus like i do kinda view my grandma as a burden and im doing the same shit shes doing. but what does that say about how i view disabled people. wough

#grandma refuses to accept help but we're not gonna let her rot away so we have to help anyway. she just makes it difficult #whereas im asking for help but i dont know what i need and no one has time to figure it out. just feels shit #i know that i believe disabled people whos disabilities are their own fault still deserve support. i know this #its just really hard to apply it to my own grandma who i have my own complicated feelings about #universal compassion should be easyyyy. i hate feeling like this

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