#goddamn if that ain't right

[agapeeternal]

Joe Burrow at Cincinnati Bengals training camp

[theflyingfeeling]

BC's social media presence recently be like

Joel: tiktok filters and public service annoucements about hygiene

Joonas: no one asked but this is what I would sound and look like if you twisted my nipples and pulled on my balls at the same time

Aleksi: here's my boyfriend fixing his bass. here's my boyfriend bouncing funnily to our new music. here's my boyfriend talking on the phone. here's my boyfriend late at night at my home studio. here's my boyf--

[brujahinaskirt]

charlotte balfour picks up a pot of boiling hot soup straight off her stove with her bare fucking hands and flops it on the table going OOF AAAGH OOUGH the whole time and no one is talking about it

[illiana-mystery]

I'm still hot for this preacher.

[essektheylyss]

You know it's BAD when you have to turn to your DM and go, "So this rumor does not sound like this smaller thing I heard blown out of proportions, right—this sounds like, Calamity-Hall of Prophecies bullshit?" and he says, "Yep. :3"

[folkinsomnia]

screaming myself hoarse til I pass out we were together during a very tumultuous time in our lives I will always have your back and be curious about you about your career your whereabouts!!!

[thedeadtravelfast]

Shoutout to @goblins-riddles-or-frocks for getting me to do a tag challenge for the first time in like two millennia. So I thusly present "me-coded characters":

@iceandbone because i DEF wanna see yours

[tcpdog]

pets him like dogy :] (ITS CRACK GREY ITS CRACK ITS CR–)

ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ ㅤ❛❛ ㅤ!!!!!!! ㅤ❜❜

that invisible tail of his is wagging so goddamn hard right now its a miracle his ass isn't subconsciously shaking, and he has to clench his jaw shut so as not to let a happy whine escape. Archer was very clearly daydreaming, there's no way this is real, so he's going to indulge in it to his heart's content. ❤

[therealbrigeedarocks]

WHY DIDN'T ANY ONE OF YOU MOTHERFUCKERS TELL ME SCOTT AND AGENT WOO REALLY DID GO ON THEIR DINNER DATE IN ANT-MAN 3

[retro-system]

i'm gonna be inconsolable when the film comes out on digital

[6qubed]

wanna hear something really fucked up? the sinfest guy used to be normal

[agapeeternal]

Last time I checked he still hot 🔥

[hauntingmiser]

To be honest I always imagine maruki having two snakes as pets

A Eastern diamondback snake named cookie

And a Yellow Burmese python named snickerdoodle

[kindacreepy-kindaugly]

Basically all he did was make sure I actually wanted it before doin anything n I really am just totally fucking lovestruck

It's probably cause it was just the other guy for so long that the difference between em is messin up my brain but

How do I fight this?

[queen-mihai]

All of this, except I was thirty-freaking-nine.

I've been so used to being abused for "not wanting to do the work" that it has created this little red hot coal scorching my soul forever now. Because now I KNOW what it looks like when someone Just Doesn't Want To Do The Work

And it makes me want to take that piece of red hot coal from my soul and shove it down that person's throat

Because my parents, teachers, trainers, bosses, supervisors, friends, and PARTNERS have never been able to tell the goddamn fucking difference between them and me

As a kid, I wasn't taught any concept that there's a difference between wanting to do something, and enjoying it. I was a largely unsupervised kid with undiagnosed ADHD and parents who expected their kids to just raise themselves on their own. So when I was capable of spending hours drawing or reading a fun book, but couldn't even remember that I had homework, ever, I was told that I simply didn't want to do well in school. And who was I to question that, I'm eight years old.

Enjoyment and passion were the only forms of motivation I knew, and if I couldn't make myself either love doing boring math homework as much as I loved my hobbies, or force myself to push through things I hated with sheer willpower alone because I want to succeed so bad, then clearly I was simply not as good as all the other kids, who could do that. And that attitude carried onto adulthood. Every time I struggled to muster genuine love and passion into something, I thought that I just don't want it badly enough. Not to enough to love it, or to suffer through it.

Being medicated for the first time was a game changer. Like holy shit, so this is your brain on dopamine. And suddenly I wanted to do things, turned my life around, took up the passion career I had never dared to try. And when the first "honeymoon phase" of the meds wore down, the same fear came back - I don't like this anymore, do I not want it bad enough? What else could I possibly want?

And I shit you not I was literally 30 years old when I understood that life isn't just either loving every minute of pursuing a passion that you love, or joylessly dragging yourself through things that you don't even want to do. I can just tell myself "just because I don't like doing this doesn't mean I don't want to be doing it." It's not a mark of failure, weakness or lack of motivation, if sometimes the career you want to be doing just feels like having a job.

[gae-ta]

good. fucking. god.

My current boss isn't the worst i've had--- but by god she has some "interesting" ideas about what the so called 'lojalitetslagen' means in practice

in her book it means i literally can't talk about issues (which may or may not be related to my boss) with my work colleges without it "breaking the law" as she so calls it

And honestly? It's utter bullcrap. The law is supposed to protect the company in case i get some funny ideas about sharing vital company secrets with the public--- it's not supposed to make it so i can't discuss work conditions with my colleges--- that ain't how the law is supposed to be read

holy fucking hell... it looks like i have to join a union... and i'll try an see if i can't get my colleges to join as well