#girlbox

[gamergal-ds]

@averygaycat

[aeide-thea]

thinking abt when i appreciate someone else paying my way, vs. when it puts my back up a little, and i think the difference comes down to: does the person doing it respect my need for agency enough to have sought my consent to it first, or are they just shaping the situation the way they think, benevolently but bullishly, that it should go, even in the face of my protests?

[gamergal-ds]

You should look for and seek help from friends and other people close to you, but to hear someone is having a good time and basically get so sad about it right then and there you drag them down? That's not helping anyone, especially not yourself :(

So, see a post? Go talk to a friend! You don't need to get it out right then and there under the post, have a little patience and it'll pay off yeah? Talking to a friend will hopefully actually help you, and it won't hurt anyone either.

i really dont want to come off as an asshole and act like im not sympathetic but i think the idea that it is an appropriate thing to do to respond to posts about about positive experiences made by strangers with long and graphic vents about how your own life is nothing like that really has to end. i’m very sorry you’re going through that. but it’s just. really not appropriate.

[gamergal-ds]

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[aeide-thea]

OH man i cleaned one of the stove hood vent filters (gonna do the other one soon, i'm not a monster) and uh. i can report the 'soak in boiling water + ¼ cup baking soda + a lil dish soap for like 15-30 mins and then scrub with a scrub brush' method is ime quite effective but. HOLY shit let's not talk about how dirty they were to start with 😬😬😬

like honestly i don't know how anyone actually keeps a clean house—when you start taking stock of all of the things you theoretically Ought to be doing on a regular basis to Maintain Yr Space to a Hygienic Standard it's like. that's a(n exhausting) full-time job! i discovered these filters actually have stamped on them 'clean in hot detergent solution every month' and like. ahaha. every month???? you could have a full gcal just keeping track of all the stuff yr supposed to Clean Regularly. so much laundry. let's not even talk abt mopping my nemesis. absolutely nuts 2 me.

[gamergal-ds]

hey folks half-life 2 is 100% free to keep on steam rn

[gamergal-ds]

For not suffering with gimp (for more professional/complex use cases at least, for simple things its perfectly fine), pirate photoshop 2022. Krita is a very good art program no complaints there. LibreOffice is pretty good but it's not as straightforward to do the same things MS office can in some cases (general use is pretty damn similar), in which case you can also pirate older versions of MS office (like 2016). Putting this out there for those who just don't have the time or energy and can't easily adapt to a new piece of software. Firefox also has a relatively robust PDF viewer with simple editing features for adding text and drawing.

oops whats this link for

Adobe is going to spy on your projects. This is insane.

[bi-dykes]

Look at my girlbox 🌸

[branzinos]

i do miss the trend of "girlboxers" in the early 00s when you could go into any store and find fun, short boxers that fit wide hips at cheap prices. i had soooo many as a teen from new look and primark and it was just totally normal but i got such gender euphoria from it even though i didn't know that's what it was. like for gender reasons i wanna wear boxers sometimes but regular ones are always SO long on me cause i'm so short and its like i'm wearing fuckin long johns or one of those fuckin victorian swimsuits. now it feels like i can only find them from fuckin speciality brands for £15 a pair or from dodgy dropshippers on amazon. naur.

[aeide-thea]

this is such a real and infuriating issue—the fact that female athletes have actually gotten fined for wanting to wear actual clothing while competing, and not just underwear, is absurd and enraging—but i really wish people wouldn't react to it, as the linked article does twice, by turning around and making claims about a need for 'women's specific design,' as if all women were the same shape???

i mean, setting my actual gender identity aside for a moment, i'm afab with a totally endogenous hormonal situation, so from a binarist perspective on physical sex, i get shoved into the girlbox without any real hesitation—and yet i not infrequently find men's clothing a better fit than women's, because my shoulders are broader, my ribcage wider, and (of late) my waist-to-hip ratio smaller than women's clothing tends to expect; and because i find pressure on my abdomen uncomfortable, i've been very grateful to be able to ignore womenswear's turn to high-waisted pants, and stick with midrise menswear.

i could list more examples, just drawing on my own physique and the physiques of cis people i know, but i'll spare you—really my point is just, i wish we were better at the kind of feminism that reacted to gendered inequalities by making more space for individual people and individual preferences, instead of falling back into the trap that says women deserve special consideration because they're a special case. women aren't an asterisk; they're an enormous swath of the spectrum called humanity, and there's variance within that swath just as there's variance within any subset of humanity you care to define.

[gamergal-ds]

@averygaycat

i am in fact capable of loving you forever

[rambolineramboloft]

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[gamergal-ds]

Guys I think I fucked up my copy of Ultrakill

[gothedrals]

wearing my girlboxers

[gamergal-ds]

Or they're too lazy to google it, but either way they wanna hear it from you :3

I feel like a lot of people dont pick up on that: when youre texting with someone and they ask you a question theyre probably very much aware that they can simply google it. The reason theyre asking you instead is because they like talking with you and want you to explain it instead

[brainrot-yumm]

PR ep 6 play-by-play

ohhellow I’m back and I promise to actually go to bed after this instead of get distracted for two hours (it is currently 2:45 am) please wish me luck

oh man I just wonder what the joke is gonna be what could possibly happen while the bullies are holding cream pies I just couldn’t tell you

so it’s Gordor (X), Baboo (V), splat? (X), F1nnster (V), and Rita (V)

THERE”S A FOURTH PERSON IN THE BULLY BRIGADE NOW????!? Man they’re really making their own power rangers over there

I like how the secondary bullies weren’t paid to speak

WOw first time she’s doing something actually malicious on an international level! Rita causes world hunger girlbox queen pop

someone was paid to do that

oh god the man who did 3000 barbell lifts is gonna rip off someone’s head with fucking sausage link nunchucks

this si the worst

alright so the principal is another antagonist entirely

honey you really think that that fuckin weirdo can eat the WORLD’s food in 48 hours???!?!? Without getting shot?!????????????

I love Kim using her bow like it’s a sword like no

what the hell?

why did it teleport them???

WAIT> WAIT A FUCKING MINUTE> THEY MADE A CREATURE THATS SUPPOSED TO EAT THE _WHOLE EARTH_S FOOD AND IT HATES VEGETABLES??!!?!?!?!?!? SO WE”RE NOT LOSING “ALL FOOD ON EARTH” JUST ALL FOOD EXCEPT VEGGIES (IN ALL THEIR FORMS)?????????!?!?!

Like I get it a HUGE chunk of the population is dying from that but. We still have farms. I’m pretty sure we’d still have the still-living animals. I’m pretty sure we’d still have a lot of the ‘fake’ meat in it’s pre-converted forms. It’s not “all food forever”

oh wait no. You just let me hear the pig go “ew yucky” at a veggie-main meal, and then show me a table of completely raw veggies root or otherwise, and I was supposed to get “spicy” from that. Well there will still be people thriving if only spicy stuff (and the not-yet-food) lasted

ooooh are we doing a no megamorph ep? I’d kinda been hoping for one of those

cool that was nice I’m gonna listen to ONE goodnight song and then go to bed

gnithg