#gienwritings

[lovegien]

Minsan may mga bagay tayong hinahangad na hindi kaagad nabibigyan ng katuparan. Patuloy tayo umaasa sa mga bagay na nagbibigay senyales, tapos kinalaunan mararamdaman mong hindi pa pala yun. Paasa, masakit, nakaka-dismaya pero kahit paulit ulit na, kahit minsan naguguluhan ka na “kung ano ba talaga, kung mangyayari ba talaga o hindi” kakapit at kakapit ka sa pangakong mangyayari yan! magtiwala ka lang!

Pero minsan talaga may mga bagay na sadyang hindi pa maaaring ipagkaloob sa atin, kahit alam mong para sa ikabubuti mo naman ito. Hindi dahil na hindi ka pinapakinggan pero dahil siguro’y di ka pa handa, o kaya’y di pa tamang oras para sa bagay na iyon. Oo minsan mapanghihinaan ka ng loob pero lagi mong tatandaan na ang lahat ng bagay ay nagkakalakip lakip sa tamang panahon. Manalangin na may pagtitiwala.

[lovegien]

It’s not just the money you need to invest for something but a full trust and commitment that your partner will be yours till the end. Words are just written expression, it may not last as the book gets old, but it remains the thought until it appears in action. It may not be as strong as we could imagine, but as long as the promises pledged to each other, everything would be fine. It may not the odds favor unto everything we want. But love is more powerful than gold, or any pleasures of pleasing people. I know it’s kinda selfish for a fish doing her sail alone but I trust the magic of forgiveness that one day I did this not just to fulfill my wants for someone I love, But to keep my promises that I would love and fight for the person I really love. 

[lovegien]

From the time I was able to find myself alone from darkest side of my sorrow of being broken from my past relationship. I thought things will be so hard to swallow all the changes and move on from the things I used to have with my “not so fairy tale unknown story”. I thought everything was ruined that time I gave myself from someone I thought it would last forever but fate gave his last chance to not give up but he still choose to left me and find myself alone. I did everything I can do just to move on and let go, work hard and forget every pain in every day in every year just to be fine. 

I thought things will continue send me flashback and leaves a permanent scars that can give me fear and doubted minds and feelings to fall in love again, to find someone who will take charge of me, not just being who I am in this present situation, but to carry myself with love and acceptance together my past hurts and everything. For short, I never thought I couldn’t have a chance to find someone who will love me.  And it takes months or years for me to be fine and accept things until something magically happened.  “ And that’s the time I found you.”

I found myself in the mirror of your unconditionally love who not just give me reason to smile but to make myself falling in love with you in every moment I have a chance to be with you. I found myself falling in love again with someone who are willing to catch me, someone who give me butterflies not just in the morning when I woke up with your not so clingy long good morning messages but until the day end. Someone who take me to the places I want to go when I was alone but you just did and it’s more kinda special because I have you with me in my very special moment. Someone who will give everything, do sacrifices, being loyal, and proves that your love is not just a word but an action who will take charge whatever it takes.

I found myself being in love again, and that’s you! who give me reason to push my life into something more special. I promised to love you and only you though distance separate us temporarily but it doesn’t matter. I know things will never be easy but I will give my every best to hold on and love you for the rest of our story. “So from the day you've tried to follow me until I say I do love you call me yours” and your forever baby.

[lovegien]

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games.  Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us. When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.

[lovegien]

Always take time to heal yourself from the things you though you can't recover. Sometimes we used to something we usually got hurt but let us take those things an inspiration to be better and stronger than to murmur and shut the door of moving on. Just do not go with the flow dear, make your own flow! Chin up!

[lovegien]

Consistency and effort are actually the things where love makes strong. Because feelings can actually change in just a sec but things who commit  consistency are actually who stay.

[lovegien]

Under his wings you will find refuge.

In this tough life we live we have to be able to find refuge and solace in God and his plans for us. Though at times we may feel like we can do it all by ourselves, the simple truth is, we cant. There is only one way to get through our lives and being able to reach our full potential requires that we trust in God when times are good and when times are bad. Many in society have placed such a stigma on being as Christ-like as possible, that many try to do so, and when they arent able to live perfectly, they turn away because they feel too unholy to further establish a continual relationship with God. Instead of worrying about the things in life that you do wrong, and trying to live life without sin or mistakes, realize that you must live your life through the strength of God and his strength alone. Know that no one is or ever will be perfect except for Jesus, and that the only way to achieve eternal salvation isnt by what you do on your own, but instead by what you do through God.

[lovegien]

Remember

There are things na dapat mong matutunan hintayin, at mga bagay ding dapat mong bitawan at wag mo ng pagaksayahan pa ng oras at panahon. Hindi dahil sa wala ng pag-asa pero kasi klaro na sitwasyon na hindi kayo para sa isa’t-isa, hindi para sayo yung chance na yan, hindi para sayo yung goal na yan, hindi yan ang forte mo, hindi kayo pwedeng pang long time, hindi kayo fit, hindi kayo bagay, hindi ka magaling sa ganyan kasi mas better ka sa ganito, hindi dahil sa hindi pwede eh dyan ka lang forever, or what they called “forever alone” kuno. What I’m try to say is, learn to accept the fact that you are not fitted with those things or person God removed from you. Hindi dahil inalis niya eh masama na yung tao yung sitwasyon na yun at kakalimutan mo na, maybe you should learn din to forgive and make it an inspiration kasi naging strong ka din naman sa sitwayson na yan. 

Learn to forgive yourself - hindi dahil hindi kayo fit eh iisipin mo ng may mali sayo, or hindi ka karapat dapat mahalin, or hindi ka maganda, hindi ka gwapo, hindi ka talented or smart katulad ng bago niyang gusto, hindi pa sapat yung mga effort mo or what. Or hindi tama yung pagkakasagot mo interview kaya hindi mo na kuha yung posisyon na gusto mo, or trabahong pinakakamkamtan mo. O kaya hindi mo natupad ngayon yung goal na matagal mo ng inaasam. Hayaan mong hilumin ka muna ng sitwasyon at unti unti mong patawarin ang sarili mo sa failure na nagawa mo sa isang tao or sa isang bagay, pero wag na wag mong sisihin ang sarili mo okay?

Learn to love yourself again - Hindi purkit iniwan ka, iniwan ka sa ere, sa lupa, sa kalye, mag-isa, umiiyak, lugmok, or ano pa yan. Nagdradrama drama sa gabi, paiyak-iyak habang iniisp kung ano pa ba ang mga bagay na hindi mo nagawa kung bakit nangyari yung sainyo o sayo. Or kung bakit hindi mo nakuha yung bagay na yun. Eh hindi purkit ganun e hindi ka na worthy para mahalin at hintayin ng kung sino mang nakatakda sayo. Ehem! hindi lang naman yung nakatakda sayo yung magmamahal sayo at hindi lang naman yung nangiwan sayo yung pwedeng magmahal sayo, ehem! may mga magulang ka, kaibigan, si Lord! at syempre pwede ka pa mabuhay ng sarili mong mga paa. Sarili mong puso at kaluluwa joke! haha 

Pero ayun nga hindi purkit nangiwan, naiwan, nawala, nasaktan, naiwan sa ere, or kung saan saan man eh hindi ka na magmomove on. At hahayaan mo na ikaw nakasilip sa bintana naghihintay sa wala. Know your worth dear. You deserve to move on, healed and be happy again. Love yourself first and everything will be in the next chapter of your life. 

[lovegien]

Girls do not settle sa kilig kilig lang, do not entertain a guy who just temporary. Spent your time, your love and your efforts for someone who are meant for you in a God's time, God's place and God's way. Okay? Para di ma-heartbroken ng maaga magaral muna hahaha

[lovegien]

Christianity is not only label by physical appearance or the way you call yourself righteous or holy, It's also about the attitude, on how you show to the person your inner kindness, your personality on how you approach the person, on how you treat your brother and sister not only on good terms or whenever someone see you just to say you treated them very well but also in the midst of misunderstandings but still you recognize them as family. And also Instead of judging them, or criticizing their Christianity it would be a big help if you shut your mouth and pray!

[lovegien]

Do not fall in love with someone unless you want to marry with him or her, because love is not about trial and error. It's about sincerity and vows.

Do not enter into relationship unless you want to marry. (G.C Quotes)

[lovegien]

When you love someone you should love him/her with full of your loving power, the best effort you can give, long patient that you can test yourself, wide arms to hold the sacrifices, strong dignity to face the odds, sincerity in every words you would tell, avoiding broken promises, no time for unnecessary things that may complicated to your relationship, honesty is your best policy, faithfulness are your both priority, dream for a future like your dreaming a whole wilde world for him/her, staying with her/him no matter what, loving her/him with all of your life, and giving your full time like she’s or he’s the important person to work with. 

When you love someone is not just about you and him, or you and her. Love is about giving everything you have just to make your partner’s happy. Love is like a full time job, loving her, loving him, no matter what, no matter how long you stay together. Love is not just effort, love is not just time, Love is not just   about kilig, Love is not just goals, Love is not just sweet words, Love is not just long blogs, Love is not just what and where you wanted to be with him or her, Love is not just about quality time, Love is not just cuddle, Love is not just about serenade,  Love is not just about love. 

Love is magical and no words can describe how much you love the person. Because Love is about having someone you’ve prayed, you’ve waited, and you will marry soon. Love is about putting Christ in the center and do His plans on your relationship. Love is about loving a man who loves Christ more than you

[lovegien]

Seeing you makes me want to be close to you. Being close to you makes me wana love you. Loving you makes me wants to be with you. Being with you? Now thats a different story. I wanna stay like this with you forever!

confession letter (by adobongafritada)

[lovegien]

You have no idea how much I love to blog about you, about us

I wish I could (G.C. Quotes)

[lovegien]

Love is when

Love is when you take the risk just to be with someone you love. Love is when you doubtful but still you have trust. Love is when you are in your weakest point but she/he give you strength to fight with. Love is when you in tears in the middle of your misunderstanding but still you have courage to forgive him/her. Love is when you did everything with no excuses, no expectation in return, just a plain simple reason. Love is when you are in apart but it feels you’re near together. Love is when you argue and reach the point of breaking up but still find the very first reason why you are together for so many years. Love is when she/he give up but still you prove that there is no greater than your love. Love is when you have your flaws but still tells you compliments. Love is when you in pain and gives you comfort. Love is when he/she tells you he/she will keep you for the rest of her/his heart. Love is when he ask you “will you marry me” Love is when you say I do. Love is when you stay in love together no matter how rough the road. Love is when you stay together no matter what. 

[lovegien]

A person who falls in love with their best friend is a person with a very tough decision to make that more than likely will affect him/her for the rest of their life. Falling in love with a best friend is never easy and in some situations can end very badly, while in other situations may work out for the best for both parties. When someone is in love with a best friend, and they plan on pursuing this love interest, they should probably try to gauge their best friend’s interest in them romantically before showing their hand. It is also important for the person that is in love to be honest with their best friend, but never too forceful. Though telling a best friend that you have feelings for them is a very difficult thing to do, it would probably be more difficult living the rest of your life knowing that you felt something but never acted upon because of whatever reason you have in your head.