#getting mad that no one was sympathetic to how criticism of israel/support for palestine hurt her feelings | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

abowlofpetuniasandawhale · 2 years ago

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remembering one time a (now former) friend said something like “my parents made everything my fault when i was a kid so i just can’t handle people saying i’m wrong” like it was some kind of empowering recovery from childhood trauma??? she legit expected everyone to respect that and never hold her accountable like it was a healthy boundary and i honestly should have run at that point

#god the list of red flags goes on forever #constantly complaining that other people were less disabled than her and therefore shouldn’t complain #getting mad that no one was sympathetic to how criticism of israel/support for palestine hurt her feelings #straight up refusing to accept boundaries of any kind and then getting hurt when people just cut her off instead of accepting her behavior #saying she wishes people would ‘just be direct�� and then arguing or just not listening to anything critical anyway #holding everything against everyone always and forever and keeping score of everything she did for them #obviously doing overly nice things for the sole purpose of guilting people into returning the favor #trauma bonding!!!! that was a huge one that she did not understand was inappropriate

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