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ars0nism · 3 years ago

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people on tik tok really need to understand that a parent-child relationship is often a lot more complicated than good parent/bad parent ESPECIALLY when the parent themselves has trauma they shouldve worked through before having a child

#genuinely havent stopped thinking about silco since i watched the show #'he was a good dad' 'he just used her' YOURE BOTH WRONG !!!!#maybe im just projecting maybe im the one whos wrong #you can actually genuinely love your kids and have a relationship eith them that feels positive to both but is unhealthy #ESPECIALLY when both people involved have a lot of trauma and should first attempt to fix that before having a relationship #mostly the parent #he wasnt mentally stable enough to raise a child but he did what he could with the resources he had and thats admirable !!#was he in the state he was in the right person to raise an already unstable child?? NO #there is no manual for raising kids.#especially when you as the parent are mentally unstable #its so much more complicated than good/bad father & did he love her or not #but evrryone keeps just looking at those factors #people with healthy relationships with their parents stop invalidating the many other types of relationships #OBVIOUSLY what wouldve been best for powder/jinx would be her own parents?? or at least adoptive parents who didnt have trauma.#and was she useful to his operations?? did he encourage her destructive behavior?? yeah sure #the whole us against the world thing too that people like to criticize. that man was TRAUMATIZED #i really think he had the right intentions when it came to raising her. did he do it right? no.#am i projecting i think im projecting i saw that one shot of her leaning on him and just sat there like 'i do that' and havent gone back #😭

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