#gay gsa

[srnofficial-thesequel]

It has been confirmed

3 out of 4 serving on the executive board for our group is mainly powered by chaos and caffeine

[introspectivememories]

high school timber is all about repression!!!

it's about bernard desperately trying to prove to himself and his parents that he's straight!! because his parents already don't like him and he cannot be gay. not now not ever!!!! so he puts up this front of a ladies man and he picks a girl he cant ever get together with and maybe he kisses like 3/4 of the female population at grieves and gains a reputation but hey! at least he's not gay! but he's so caught up in making sure his eyes don't to stick too long on tyrone's face or michael-from-biology's eyes or kabir-from-study-hall's thick thighs that even his attraction to women is under a filter. and it's not that he doesn't like women, he does! very much so!! but it's that he's soo caught on not being perceived as gay that he cant show his attraction to women the way he'd like to. it's all under this filter of what he thinks Real Men who are attracted to women act like so it's this brash, loud, crass, thing and it's not him at all. it's "ooh tim, ms. winters is soooo hot!" or "hey kayla, why don't you and i get to know each other a little better, if you know what i mean?" or "god her tits are soo big. she's so fucking hot!" and all this other shit when he really means, "tim, why the fuck does your stepmom have such a pretty smile?" or "kayla, you said you liked yugioh? i'd love to hear more about it!" or "god fuck, that girl has such pretty hands. i think if i held them i'd combust." but none of that is how a Real Man likes women so he shuts that shit down before it even has a chance to come up. it's fine, he's fine. so what if no one ever holds him like he holds those girls? it's fine. he'll take the manwhore label and the fuckboy title and he'll give out as many kisses as those girls want and if sometimes when he's kissing a girl he wonders what it'd be like to sit on kabir's thighs or if tyrone's lips really are as soft as they look, that's just the devil speaking. and if sometimes when he walks back into the cafeteria at lunch, lipstick still smudged on the corner of his mouth, after making out with a girl and his eyes skirt over tim's lithe body and he wonders what it'd be like to draw out the same sounds he's heard girls make when he kisses them, or what it'd be like to brush his thumb over tim's hands, or what it'd be like to hold tim or press a kiss to his shoulder, or a million and one other things, well that'll just have to be another one his secrets.

and it's about tim who's in a relationship with stephanie and his dad knows he's robin and he doesn't have time to figure out why his mouth goes dry when the light hits bernard's hair just right. he's too busy trying to figure out a way back to his nightlife. and so what if bernard has pretty pink lips that look very plush? so what if he's looked at some of his teammates and thought they were handsome? he's not blind!!! he has a girlfriend! and he loves her! and so what if his hand brushes bear's during fourth-period bio? so what if the tingles last all day? it was just some static! and it doesn't matter that when bear laughs his eyes get squinty and they water over -- cause bear always laughs so hard he almost cries -- and it sounds like bells. and it doesn't even matter, that sometimes when bernard walks back into the lunchroom, 10 minutes before the bell rings, lipstick smeared across the corner of his mouth, lips tilted up in the most charming smirk he's ever seen, that his chest fills with jealousy. it doesn't matter that his hands clench into fists so hard that his nails leave crescents marks all day. it doesn't matter that he wants to be bear's flavor of the day, week, month, whatever. he wants to leave the lipstick marks!! he wants to know if bear really is as good as he hears the girls speak about!!! he wants to know "that thing bernard does with his tongue!" is! he wants to drape himself over bear the same way he sees those girls do! he wants to know what bear's hands feel like gripping his waist. he wants, wants, wants!!! but it doesn't matter. it doesn't. he's got a girlfriend, her name is stephanie, she's gorgeous and, most importantly he loves her. he's too busy for bernard anyway.

[itgetsbetterproject]

The gay agenda is real, you can own one, AND it benefits LGBTQ+ youth :)

From anti-LGBTQ+ bathroom and sports team bills, to positive connections like GSA club and building community, back-to-school season can be kind of...mixed emotions for LGBTQ+ youth, y'know?

So we designed the Gay Agenda notebook and the It Gets Brat-er sticker as a donor thank-you gift: you donate to help us uplift, empower, and connect them this school year, we send you a lil present!

• $25+ donation gets you an It Gets Brat-er sticker pack

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You can make your donation right here - make sure to do it starting now through Sep 15th to get the sticker pack and/or notebook!

[nicoveil]

I can’t interact with marvel fans who don’t like X-men.

No offense, avengers fans are boring (so are the avengers)

[veveisveryuncool]

non-binary/gender ambiguous warriors assemble

[goatsandgangsters]

does everybody want to hear a funny story about my Favorite High School English Teacher(™)

so my Favorite High School English Teacher was the faculty adviser for the gay-straight alliance and for a student literary magazine of bad angsty poetry, and somewhere in his spare time he volunteered to teach Troubled Youths at the place where my mom worked as a therapist 

so they ran into each other there and they like, vaguely recognized one another and were trying to figure out how they knew each other, and eventually realized “Oh! You’re My Kid’s English Teacher!” 

so he’s like “oh yes, I am, great kid, great student, we have class together and also the gay-straight alliance”

now. admittedly. my favorite high school english teacher should have known better than to tell a parent their kid goes to the gay-straight alliance, but I’ve already told you this is a funny story, so no harm came of it 

but my mom says to herself “hm. what is my kid doing going to the gay-straight alliance.” and she wonders if she should Talk To Me About It. and ultimately decides to respect my privacy and figures that if I want to tell her, I’ll tell her 

this was in like 2009. a solid decade+ has past, during which time I have come out to my parents multiple times, first for my sexuality, then again as trans 

and a year or so ago my mom—tearfully and riddled with guilt—confesses to me about this conversation with my Favorite High School English Teacher and how she’s so sorry that she never talked to me about the gay-straight alliance and how she wanted to respect my privacy but maybe she should have said something and it’s been eating at her ever since I came out that she never did and she wasn’t there for me about it—

which is when I stopped her and told her 

I was never IN the gay-straight alliance with my high school english teacher

I worked with him on the literary magazine 

and yet I was (correctly but too early) assigned gay at English teacher

[red-hibiscus]

Me standing outside the doors of my high school's GSA bc I wanted to go in, but I was awkward and was still figuring things out and therefore still identifying as cishet

Later was unanimously voted to be vice pres, so you know... character development.

[blu-3jay]

You couldn’t pry gay Draculaura out of my cold dead hands I know what she is.

[palehottubchild]

fr tho i think SLTs is actually such a good concept because im just thinking like yes we had the biology sex education of hormones are a thing and if you dont use a condom this is what your penis will look like but if anyone ANYONE had been open with me about what sexualities are and how they feel then maybe someone wouldve said 'hey this is something that you actually feel its not a thinking thing and yes, some people actually DO start this early. if you dont relate maybe look into the words asexual and aromantic' then i would have maybe felt less like a freak and not forced myself through both guys and girls trying to find something that actually felt right because right now nobody talks about it especially not when it comes to teenagers which is fair enough but also it really really would have been beneficial to me and im sure other people if it was discussed in a respectful controlled manner

[lexiconisfunny]

Ppl who constantly talk about themselves in a negative way are just as much of a narcissist as people who constantly talk about themselves in a positive way.

I never want interact with a narcissist again. Unfortunately, I’m a narcissistic and I interact with myself everyday.

[queridaz]

thinking abt a discussion my dad and i had years ago and i'm curious to see what y'all think

examples of implied curse words would be "af" (as fuck), "fugly" (fucking ugly), "lmao" (laughing my ass off), etc

remember that nsfw means not safe for work, not sexual in nature! vote based on whether these words are appropriate in professional settings!

[srnofficial-thesequel]

MEEETING

Group this week is 9/28/23. Topic is over HIV awareness and STD misconceptions/preventions.

Room is the Delta room

[readyfreddy]

The team I work for announced their promotional schedule for the upcoming season, looking forward to it for the most part, and hopefully they'll be better than last season (they were worst in their conference and second last in the league, it has to get better, right?).

In the winter of 2023, I came forward and explained that I think that hosting a 'pride night' next season would be great. I did hours of research, data analysis, only to have my presentation shut down due to "discussion among ownership." With this, I basically came out to my manager and to most of the front office staff, I am lucky to be surrounded by a bunch of great people at all levels of the organization.

At the beginning of last season, I found out that they basically did their own 'pride/hockey is for everyone' night, and it fucking stung. Make no mistake, I'm thrilled that they're trying to make the rink/sport a more inclusive space. It stings because they know how much time I put into this, as well as the risk of coming out in a place where people like me aren't common or even welcomed (as of writing this, there's no POC on the roster, three POC (myself included) working in various positions at the team, and two queer people (business side, myself included).

Since their hockey is for everyone night is earlier in the season than last year's, I suspect that things have already been set in place and by the time I'm officially back, it's going to be too late to have any meaningful contribution.

Last season's hockey is for everyone night went pretty good, with most players using pride tape and saying supportive messages for the team's social media and in game video. I am so happy that they were able to do this, and I am hoping that this season's night goes equally as well. I am hoping that I am able to help in a future season's pride/hockey is for everyone night (provided I continue working there).

I wish I could truthfully say that hockey is for everyone, but there are so many barriers and cultural factors that would need to change to make that true.

[m0e-ru]

For the drawing req, can i request for shumarie hikhik :3

YAYYAYAY theyre having a call and now the weather patterns are in shambles again

[opiumvampire]

im not allowed to call my gay cats gay anymore bc the neighbors will think im homophobic

[surrealist-dreamer]

My teacher just told some student that she was boring in high school.

This woman was so badass, like she burned bras in protest during feminist movements back in the day, type of badass. I brought this up(I did use the word badass), and she said:

“Well, you heard the stories where I had to be.”

Holy fuck, I know I’ve heard that line before in many movements, and after many traumas, but that quote will forever go hard.