#full disclaimer here I am not a transwoman I just read the most insane series of post and felt the need to say something

[lackadaisical-lesbian]

This may sound crazy, but it literally does not matter what a trans woman says or does, you do not have a pass to be misogynist towards her. Argue with her points, call her out for misdeeds, whatever, but the second you start diminishing her personhood or calling her a bitch or literally any other fucking off topic thing, then you're instantly in the wrong. Crazy, I know, but you do actually have to be aware of what you say even when angry, even when you've been wronged. There is no excuse in the world to start calling a transwoman a predator or throwing out whatever deranged dog whistles you can think of. Whatever marginalized identity you hold is also not an excuse to this, btw.