#for whatever that means jm too shy to elaborate

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Warning!

The post will be highly delulu and fantasy bordering, please don’t read this if you feel uncomfortable with it. I am gonna assume things with jikook and I think I will be crossing the line or something with this post. So don’t hate me for it, I have already warned you. hehe~

I think Jimin is the dominant one in the relationship ‘emotionally’ and not Jungkook. I mean we know that both of them are on equal footing but in real life one of the two in a couple is always the dominant one emotionally, even if physically that dominant attribute may not be there...

Like with Jimin, he is small and cute and all those adorable stuff, but the manner in which he carries himself and the courage with which he dances, that kindness, only people like him could be dependable.

Everyone in BTS shares the same thought, they depend on Jimin for emotional support and go to him when they need a cheer-up, so I think I can safely assume, that Jimin is dependable emotionally and because of that he is the dominating one in the relationship if we assume that jikook are really a pair and we ain’t just delulu.

The thing is that being dependable emotionally doesn’t mean that a person is the dominating one in a relationship, but I think in Jimin’s case, the factor plays an important role. Since Jungkook is tensed and nervous most times when they are out for interviews,etc, I don’t think he shows it much these days, but he definitely gets discouraged easily. It doesn’t means that he is timid, not at all, but he is just awkward with people and tends to not get how to lead the flow in a conversation, or maybe he simply doesn’t interests in interacting much. He seems like a private person to me, who only opens up with his close ones.

Now Jimin is definitely the ‘close one’ to him. I won’t elaborate, but those who follow kookmin blogs they already know jikook’s history. What we see is just the surface of reality, but that is enough to give me an insight on how their relationship might work.

I think that Jungkook often shares his issues with Jimin and takes advice from him and guidance which he feels like the other hyungs might not give. Or we don’t know, but I believe that if Jimin ever asked him to chose something regarding his career, Jungkook would. (If you remember that vlive where Jimin told us that Jungkook didn’t want to continue as an idol, but upon Jimin’s request, he did. That is what I concluded anyway.)

So Jungkook isn’t just emotionally influenced by Jimin, he also depends on him for advice and comfort. And plus, the age factor also gets in the way. Because even in my country, those older are given a form of respect where we listen to them and follow their advice (most of the time) and thus, I think, Jungkook lets Jimin be the dominant one, he listens to mochi and pays attention to his critics as well. 

And being the most sensitive one among the band, and also the youngest, Jungkook is naturally submissive (being submissive is not offensive, even in hetro relationship, a woman maybe emotionally dominant and the male submissive.) So I think that Jimin is like an anchor to Jungkook and because of that he is also the dominant one.

So what about Jimin?

We know that everyone out there needs a source of support and I believe that Jimin finds strength from Jungkook. All those times we see JK complimenting Jimin? I see how happy it makes Jimin even if he tends to hide that satisfaction. And these days JK is behaving more confident than he did previously... there is this air about him which revolves around Jimin and Jimin only. And from the looks of it, Jimin enjoys the attention. I mean who wouldn’t I definitely would bask in it.

But Jimin tends to keep it real, more professional, while Jk is more emotional. 

The number of times Jimin calls JK cute is numerous and the number of times JK calls Jimin pretty or cool is also a lot in count. 

Jimin also flew straight from Paris to Korea on Jk’s birthday and I think that was the most caring surprise Jk might have had. That dom feel to it, was definitely there, but I felt as if the softness to it was no surprise. I love their emotional bond.

The kindness, that soft tone Jimin uses with Jungkook, I feel like only a dominant one would save that tone for his loved one, it often sounds comforting, like he is trying to relax JK or simply providing him with support. And that blushing and demure look that passes JK’s face speaks a lot about his feelings for Jimin. 

They may or maynot be in a relationship which is romantic, but you have to say, that their bond is real and that sense of love is really there. Love can be in any form, and I would be there for them even if they decide to one day marry a girl of their choice or a male partner which is not Jimin/Jungkook.

Now physically we know that Jungkook would be more dominating, if he uses his strength for that purpose because I believe he wouldn’t even tickle Jimin in fear he might rub his skin too much, he has become that caring towards jimin. lmao.

But if we speak in terms of who tops or bottoms (a taboo topic to discuss, since I don’t really care about it, but I am still gonna bring it up anyway), I don’t want to assume but if all the horoscope I read in my free time about Jimin are something, 90% of them believe that Jimin is the dominant one here as well, or at least power bottom. We don’t know jikook personally so I would stop here, but if facts were to be acknowledged about their attraction, then Jimin seems more bold and direct, while Jungkook the switch.

Although who knows, ignore the above ^ para.

Then we come on the topic of how they tend to flirt.

The early Jimin was the biggest flirt, omg, I don’t even know how to bring up that convo without feeling second hand embarrassment for him, he was that direct. I mean he did all those stuff in front of camera and we don’t know if it was just for a nonexistent fanservice or his own satisfaction on seeing Jungkook squirm. But regardless, I will have to say that Jimin of that era was really something else, But he was in pressure all the time, since their career had just started and they needed to fight for lime light. So Jimin worked hard, tried to maintain his concept of bad boy, even though I know he used to have a different personality which wasn’t tough and bad at all, and he tended to care a lot about his body image.

We know he also had a lot of anger in him, frustration which he just held back, since i think in their comeback Jimin shared with us how Taekook took him aside and talked to him about it.

Whatever the history maybe, I think he liked Jungkook a lot from the start (could be platonic or romantic, not gonna comment on that), and targeting him for his attention soothed JM, maybe Jk’s familial home in busan or that age difference he shared with Jimin’s brother, that led to Jimin being warmer to him than the rest. And since Jimin is naturally caring, he even went with the flow. I remember him stating once that ‘others’ would find it odd if he calls Jungkook cute... but he calls him cute all the time now, (most of the time) so what was different back then? Maybe the members weren’t that comfy with each other yet, or even the staff, they were just debuting, so that maybe the reason for awkwardness.

If we see from the start, Jimin hasn’t changed as much, he has just mellowed down a lot, but he still fawns upon Jungkook whenever he has the time, or sometime it is just odd how he stays too silent to be natural when it comes to Jungkook. hahaha~

And now jungkook, for him I think he was just a baby and too private previously to be comfortable with showcasing his favoritism to Jimin. Yet he cared for Jimin a lot and his way of flirting (read teasing) came out as offensive to Jimin at times. But that was just the way Jungkook felt he could express his adoration on camera, because we know that in private life, Jungkook wasn’t that shy of speaking his mind, Jimin was sure to tell us that.

And now, Jungkook flirts so much, for whatever reasons, that even Jimin gets shy.

That’s it I guess, thank you for reading my thought! :D