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frogtrenchcoat · 7 months ago

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the problem w online discourse is that if we were in meatspace and you were staring me in the face you would not be able to tell me i have male privilege with a straight face

being a genderfreak is so tiring. sometimes being trans and gender non-conforming feels like being a ghost. idk if people genuinely don't think about our existence or if they just don't believe in it or care about it but it's fucking weird. and yes other trans people do this too, all the time. frankly whether cis people include me in their conversation is so far out my purview that i barely care. the thing that matters to me is how thoroughly our experiences are erased from trans conversation.

#were i a weaker soul i would stop telling people im a man because truly if i just identified myself as genderqueer and left it at that #nothing about material reality would change and i wouldn't have to deal w all this bullshit #alas i am not and i will stay true to myself #frogs original post #(tho lmao lol we do literally have 1 or 2 headmates who are not men who live under the exact same material circumstances #as the rest of us. go figure.)#💀#feel the need 2 tag that it's me bc discourse-adjacent posting is so toxic i wouldn't want it put onto any1 else

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