#feel free to lmk if u have any wisdom to share or want to know the current shortlist of names for if i get over the plausible nickname thing
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the absolute tension between me and my google doc of names i would much rather go by
#like i just do not relate to being a woman at all except thru identifying as a lesbian#and from shared experience from being perceived as a woman#and like im fine w both she and they pronouns. and i enjoy presenting somewhat femininely. but really i dont want to be seen as a woman#and my given name is like the Worst part of that for me bc it is extremely feminine and formal to be and i feel so disconnected from it#even the nickname ive been going by for the past like 2.5 years was me settling last time this was really bothering me#and then like. trying to forget about it bothering me.#literally anytime i have to give my name for Anything its just like. panic.#and i feel like if im going to go by something else it needs to be a shortened version of my first or middle but nothing feels right still#ik my friends would support whatever i decided but. work and everything else that makes me nervous about needing to justify a name/myself ig#(also i cannot pronounce my given name clearly even tho its relatively common. which is just embarrassing for me also rip)#whatever i do ill probably try something here/discord/with my close friends first#okay i think i am done for right now. if you read all this ty <3#feel free to lmk if u have any wisdom to share or want to know the current shortlist of names for if i get over the plausible nickname thing
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