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[seelestia]

the butterfly has arrived safely <3 <3

yeppp..... i mean in the end i managed to rewrite it.... at least it's just a 600-700 words drabble i guess? it could be worse ;w;

it does sound like it would make the perfect breakfast paired with sandwiches hehe something decadent to start your day!! oh dear, i hope you're okay ;;;; but... but coffee is so good.... i mean i guess it's more bitter than tea but like. a good brew tastes like a nice-and-tasty kinda bitter!!!

yesyes hehe it was an experience alright. sjldjfklshdf everyone has been saying that and i am. so. excited. hahahah

oh lord.... time to max out electroculus and dendroculus huh? i pray for you.... isn't sumeru's total land size twice or thrice inazuma? 👀

artifact farming sounds like it would be a productive activity while the story takes a backseat! you can do it!! may the rng gods bless you <3 50/208 oh my god you're a chronic simp

yesyesyes!!! it's so nice to see the varieties in genshinblr hhhh i am constantly just in awe at the other writers... how are yall so good and talented aaaaaa and i am sure it would turn out great!!!! and hey, at the end of the day, it's good writing practice :3

let us put on our aviator sunglasses to combat the blindingness that is our husbands slkjdflskjdf

your puppy eyes + the turtles + the actual puppies' will be the downfall of ayato lol 

now then, go forth spirit puppy, deliver my mail to your brethren!! 💌🐾

i love how my messenger is a butterfly and yours is puppies... something is oddly flipped here. (/j) AND TRUE 😭 this is why i only write on google docs because i'm scared that tumblr won't save my progress or my finger slips and delete my tab. at least, google docs has an automatic save feature that doesn't require you to manually save it <//3

i'm indeed a good option to consider if you want to have picnics, hehe~ sandwiches with chicken slices are my beloved. (/lh) and no worries, headaches from caffeine are nothing i can't handle. i think i'll just stick to my cocoa latte order from now on 😭

I SAW THAT YOU ALREADY MET FERAL HAITHAM. iirc, alhaitham's jp va is umehara yuichiro (vv deep voice), so that azar scene must've been a joy to watch 🤫 that scribe should get an oscar, my gosh, his acting was fr smth else. also, i really loved his interaction with kaveh + at the end of the quest, where he was like "oop, i accidentally brought two keys with me today... heh." (kaveh is sleeping outside /j)

the electroculus search is still ongoing and i fear for my life in sumeru... hoyoverse really likes underground places, huh (i'm suffering here) 😭 mhm, i'm trying to build my c1 mona by alternating between the noblesse oblige and the severed emblem! rng is painful, but at least, i got to use all my resin. (i thank your hubby, zhongli for ensuring my team's survival with his mega shield and burst DMG i finally got the catch to r5!)

unfortunately, my dear cousin, i shall take the "chronic simp" title with open arms. it's now 60/208, apparently and OH, i saw some leaks that said ayato is going to rerun with ei on v3.3's 2nd phase! the sigh of relief i let out, HELP. but i fear for you, rin jie... childe is coming soon, scara is coming soon, and ayato is coming soon... who shall be your choice? I'M SCARED FOR YOU FHJEDK

hehe, the fic is still in the works~ i still haven't decided whether it should be simple or more story-driven and i feel bad for it — but ik that you'd tell me to take my time, so i'll try! i really loved the one with husband!zhongli and baby!xiao, hehe (the way baby xiao was like "birds. birds!") <3

[hueningkai]

ahhh no ryu :(( wishing u better days to come, i hope the upcoming week is gonna be wonderful for you (⋈◍＞◡＜◍)。✧♡ not sure if there's anything i can do to make u feel better, but here, have some virtual kisses & hugs but u can bet if we knew each other irl, u would get tackled to the ground MWAH (づ￣ ³￣)づ(づ￣ ³￣)づ(づ￣ ³￣)づ(づ￣ ³￣)づ(づ￣ ³￣)づ

i've been better, thank u <3 these past few weeks have been nicer to my mental health than that disgrace of a month september. october was better, but still,,,, way too busy, i could not catch a BREAK like damn, chill bro :// but we're doing better now, like,,,, i'm actually relatively happy for once, so i guess that's some progress :D

oh angie thank you so so much !!! I accept all of this love & send it right back at you mwah with a warm cup of tea & delicious fruit !!

I'm glad it's been a bit better for you and I hope it continues to be uphill ! I hope you get some rest & time to yourself soon because you deserve it !! I'm really pleased to hear you're happy tho, that makes me feel happy >3<

[dxmedstudent]

Hey dx. I'm having one of those days. Feeling anxious and my hands are shaking on placement. Keep missing bloods on easy veins that I normally would get. Feeling like I'm ugly and incompetent etc, feeling so unconfident. My lanyard feels so heavy round my neck. Just one of those days :( could do with a hug, please

Aw nooo, that sounds horrible!  I’m s ending virtual hugs your way :)It sounds like quite a low day for you, I hope you get to go home, unwind, and do something that relaxes you. That’s usualy what helps after a bad day on the wards. You’re not incompetent at all, it sounds pretty normal to me we all have times that we miss, even the easy ones. Sometimes I’ll still have trouble with a vein (probably during a Bad Day where nothing seems to go my way), and then a more junior colleague will come over and get it in first time. And that’s just a sign that I need to sit down, have a cup of tea and centre myself before doing something else. I used to find it much scarier when I was a student or a new FY1, because messing it up felt so personal. Now, I’ve failed cannulation attempts and struggled to bleed people enough that it bothers me a lot less; sometimes it’s just hard. And sometimes we just need a break. It doesn’t make you a worse clinician if you fail a few bloods or cannulas. When we start, we imagine that if we fail, the clinicians around us are all going to be thinking we are utterly incompetent, but the truth is that people understand that it’s scary and not easy. So I’m sure nobody around you was judging you at all. It sounds like it contributed to you feeling super self conscious and questioning yourself about a lot more than a few cannulas, which is a shame, because it adds extra pressure on you. It’s hard when our self-worth in general gets knocked because of something that happened at work. It happens to a lot of docs, particularly if they are struggling through placements they find difficult. I hope you can remember that it doesn’t define you, and that youre a wonderful person; those thoughts aren’t true. You’re not ugly or incompetent, and you have every right to be there, and try again. You’re no worse than anyone else in a similar position to you. As you become more experienced, the times when you miss silly things get less,  but they don’t entirely go away (a family friend who is a consultant anaesthetist failed a cannula on my mum, how awks! She just found it hilarious), and the challenge level of what you do goes up as you get better. I struggle less with the easy ones, but then again people now escalate to me the patients they couldn’t bleed or cannulate, so often the next step if I can’t is the ITU reg with their ultrasound; no pressure :O I promise that it gets better with time; you won’t always struggle with the things you find difficult right now. I feel that our practical skills are particularly susceptible be affected by how we feel, particularly if we’re more new to them. As a student, most people I knew felt similarly; if you’ve struggled with bleeding or cannuating one patient, your confidence is shaken, and you feel a bit more timid and doubtful, and somehow it ends up with a chain of failed attempts. Because when you doubt yourself, your hands may get shakier, you’re less firm and confident in your stabbing, and when we’re nervous, we’re more likely to make mistakes. But that’s normal, and it’s human. Which is why we all sometimes need to take a break, look after ourselves, and do something else. And when we feel a bit better, we try again. Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon.